Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Thoughts on Sexual Abuse in Language

                              Thoughts on Sexual Abuse in Language
                                           by Peter Hyatt

We have previously seen that a statement is "verbalized reality" and not necessarily reality itself.  Within a statement we find that certain phrases or words, perhaps unnecessarily so, enter the language of victims of childhood sexual abuse, just as it does in cases of sexual homicide.


it makes sense.

If you're a regular reader, you know that doors, for example, opening and closing, can sometimes creep into the language of a child who has experienced sexual abuse.  I have interviewed hundreds of children and have even seen subtle changes in body language during such descriptions.

"Closed the door and went to bed" has a missing pronoun:

Who closed the door?

Who went to bed?

The subject, even as a child, did not say she went to sleep, so, in following Avinoam Sapir's SCAN protocol to the letter, I must not say she went to sleep unless she says it.  The mantra:  "The statement is alive, while, to us, the subject must be dead"; that is, without impact or influence. The child's sweet face, or any other communication must not enter into the analysis.

Doors, windows, blankets, and the unnecessary mention of water will sometimes show itself.  We have had many such examples that you can find in the archives here, but it is an understanding I seek to convey, today, on why this is.

Children and Boundaries

If you're a parent, I will wager you a cup of coffee that you've, at some time or another, gently teased your child about being naked.  "Oh, you better get dressed now!", where once, the young child ran freely through the house naked, it was only natural that a sense of modesty descended upon the child, and you were quite at ease with it.

Eventually, the child got older, and closed the bathroom door while using the toilet.  The closing of the door made the child feel safe from embarrassment.  It is natural.

But did you ever stop to consider what happens to the boundaries of a child exploited?

The child does not feel "safe", not only from the perpetrator (if family member, the child 'loves' the perp), but from embarrassment and shame:  There is no natural boundary.

The child believes her body is not her own, is not to be protected, and does not feel "private" as other children do.  Little wonder when the child hits teen aged years, that she learns to let others abuse her, even as the perpetrator once did. The language of "doors" and "showers" and "brushing teeth" (slightly separate but close) creeps into statements where, for many others, it is absent.

If it is important to the account that a door needed closing, it is to be viewed as such, but if it, like covering with blankets (which can also be PTSD) as "unnecessary", SCAN dictates that it be considered "doubly important":  any "useless" information is to be considered sensitive to the subject.

The child does not have proper safe feeling boundaries, and the adult victim now does not see the world as you or I see it. As children, they did not learn that there were lines others should not cross because the trusted perpetrator taught her otherwise.

I think it is likely to be the worst when it is a father, or primary caregiver.


When a perpetrator (adult) fondles a child's genitals, for example, it is a massive intrusion into the child's "space"; or personal boundary.  This invasion can even occur on lesser levels, such as creating a sexualized environment with pornography, or parents not keeping their own sexual activity private. Adults who perform sex acts on or before children teach the child that body space is non existent.  We must look for these signs in language.

If a child grows up in this environment, what do you think happens when someone attempts something sexual? The children do not understand that they have the right and responsibility to say "no" to the abuser. The lessons learned in early childhood are deeply embedded.

Shame and Betrayal

It is not difficult to understand how such abuse leads to promiscuity, passivity and self harm.

The passivity shows the attempt to remove oneself from responsibility.  We have seen this many times (see Ryan Braun's 'mea culpa' without the 'mea'), with

"the gun went off" rather than, "I pulled the trigger."

With adult victims of sexual abuse, we must be very, very careful when viewing passivity because the adult victim learned in childhood to remove herself from the situation, and almost "watch" the abuse as it happened.  It is no coincidence that she does this as an adult and that the language of passivity enters as she recounts such things.

We may conclude that the passivity is an attempt to distance oneself from responsibility, but we must ask, "Why?" as we continue to dig deeper.  This is why I often repeat the call for therapists and counselors to study SCAN.

Disassociation and Language

We now come upon a topic that will only be mentioned but not further:  the child who was sexually abused, learned to disassociate herself from the event, and this will show in the language:


She will minimize, but as Kaaryn Gough has said so many times:

the brain knows.

The brain knows that the adult victim is minimizing and we often hear the "temporal lacunae", or the passing (or skipping) of time (and detail) within the account.

It is like the subject is in denial, and 'believes' the lie (minimization) but is, once again, being betrayed because the brain knows what it knows, and no matter how desperate the subject is to conceal this information, words slip out, like marbles in a cabinet, when she goes to choose the right one.


Skip said...

Sadly, you nailed it.

Anonymous said...

SAGINAW — An Arlington police officer who was serving a warrant against a suspect in the Alanna Gallagher murder case was shot Tuesday morning and is in critical condition at a local hospital, authorities said.

The suspect, a 17-year-old male, was also shot. His condition was not known.

Saginaw police spokesman Damon Ing said more than five officers were serving a search and arrest warrant for the teen, who is a suspect in the death of Alanna, a 6-year-old girl whose partially nude body was found less than a mile from her house on July 1. The girl had been playing outside when she disappeared.

The suspect’s home, at 649 Babbling Brook Drive, is just two houses down from where Alanna had lived with her family. The teen lives at the home with his mother, neighbors say, but was alone when the shooting occurred.

Ing would not release specific details about how the shooting unfolded but did say that officers did not force their way into the home.

The officer, a task force member from the Arlington Police Department, has not been identified. He is being treated at Texas Health Harris Methodist Hospital in Fort Worth.

Richard Spencer, who said the suspect was a classmate at Boswell High School, said he avoided him.

“He wasn't intimidating or anything like that, he just seemed off,” Spencer said. “I just decided to stay away from him.”

No one else was in the house where the shooting occurred about 9 a.m. Tuesday.

Alanna’s slaying is being investigated by Saginaw police, FBI agents, Texas Rangers and other law enforcement agencies.

At the scene Tuesday morning, Ing would not comment on a reporter’s question regarding whether the suspect had been linked to the crime scene through DNA.

Matt Zavadsky, a spokesman with MedStar, said the shooting victims have been transported to local hospitals.

The shooting comes just days after a fire was set on a car in the driveway of the Gallaghers. No one was injured in the fire, which is being investigated as arson.

Read more here: http://www.star-telegram.com/2013/07/23/5021540/two-shot-including-officer-near.html#storylink=cpy

Anonymous said...

thanks Anon - Teen's name is said to be Tyler Holder - isn't that the house that the one brown bag of evidence was taken from early on?

Anonymous said...

My sibling and I were molested by mother's husband. She grew up to be "promiscuous" I was not. We handled it differently. I got help, and I got better. She did not get help and still has very serious mental issues. We were not believed by our mother/OR she chose to ignore it. We are still not sure of that. We confronted her as adults, and her response? nothing! Not a word or reply. Mother chose to live in denial (they are still together). We are not worth fighting for. None of us have a relationship with the other. It destroyed us all. We faked it pretty well until our late 30's when things caught up with us and we could no longer fake the "I love you" and fake "hugs".

She chose this man over her girls. He was never a father. He was a step and acted like the cool friend we never had. Now I know why... its all about the coaching.

Anonymous said...

Yes I believe it is. They had an inkling of this kid when little Alanna was discovered. I wonder if Tyler had a younger sister Alanna played with.

I think they have their suspect.

Anne said...

I think this is one of the best articles Peter has written.
The insight into the effects of abuse on how the victims perceive space and boundaries.
When my kids were younger, due to my past I preferred kids to stay at our house and kept an open door policy. (kid on kid offences aren't brought up very much, but it is a huge issue)
I can remember other mothers looking right at me and saying, "oh I haven't really ever heard about things like that" "our family has never had anything like that in it" "I don't think that really happens as much as people think" "people put words in kids mouths, it's not the truth" Oh and the big one I remember from a very well educated and active member of the community: "he would never do that he is a prominent member of the community" (this was after my exchange student told me she felt uncomfortable around him and he moved in too close to her)

Anyhow, I like the way Peter describes space and boundaries in this article.

Mainah said...

I have to agree with Anne, this is well written, Peter.

The Alanna Gallagher story gets more vicious now with an officer shot in the line of duty. I can't imagine what that poor child was exposed to in that house.

Wayyy OT: A short, light-hearted look at honesty; Maine fared better then most. http://www.onlinesentinel.com/news/Maine-ranks-near-top-in-honesty-test.html

Anonymous said...

George Zimmerman and Trayvon Martin case

This is a transcript of the written statement George Zimmerman gave to the police on February 26, 2012 the night he shot Trayvon Martin. It consists of four pages.
"Tonight, I was on my way to the grocery store when I saw a male approximately 5' 11" to 6' 2" casually walking in the rain looking into homes. I pulled my vehicle over and called SPD non-emergency phone number. I told the dispatcher what I had witnessed, the dispatcher took note of my location + the suspect fled to a darkened area of the sidewalk."

"As the dispatcher was asking me for an exact location the suspect emerged from the darkness +( I think this is short hand for the word plus) circled my vehicle. I could not hear if he said anything. The suspect once again disappeared between the back of some houses. The dispatcher once again asked me for my exact location. I could not remember the name of the street so I got out of my car to look for a street sign."

"The dispatcher asked me for a description and the direction the suspect went. I told the dispatcher I did not know but I was out of my vehicle looking for (a street sign +) the direction the suspect went. The dispatcher told me not to follow the suspect + that an officer was in route. As I headed back to my vehicle the suspect emerged from the darkness and said 'You got a problem' I said 'No' the suspect said 'You do now.' As I looked and tried to find my phone to dial 911 the suspect punched me in the face. I fell backwards onto my back. The suspect got on top of me. I yelled 'Help' several times. The suspect told me 'Shut the fuck up' as I tried to sit up right, the suspect grabbed my head and slammed it into the concrete sidewalks several times. I continued to yell 'Help' each time I attempted to sit up, the suspect slammed my head into the sidewalk. My head felt like it was going to explode. I tried to slide out from under the suspect and continue to yell 'Help.'"

"As I slid the suspect covered my mouth and nose and stopped my breathing. At this point I felt the suspect reach for my now exposed firearm and say 'Your gonna die tonight Mother Fucker.' I unholstered my firearm in fear for my life as he had assured he was going to kill me and fired one shot into his torso. The suspect sat back allowing me to sit up and said 'You got me.' At this point I slid out from underneath him and got ontop of the suspect holding his hands away from his body. An onlooker appeared and asked me if I was ok. I said 'No' he said 'I'm calling 911.' I said I don't need you to call 911. 'I already called them I need you to help me restrain this guy.' At this point a SFP officer arrived and asked 'who shot him' I said 'I did' and I placed my hands ontop of my head and told the officer where on my person my firearm was holstered. The officer handcuffed me and disarmed me. The officer then placed me in the back of his vehicle."

As I looked and tried to find my p HONE TO DI al 911 the suspect punched me in the face.

At this point I felt the suspect reach for my now exposed firearm and say 'Your g ONNA DIE tonight Mother Fucker.'

I think the "gonna die" quote is GZ's own words when he first confronted Trayvon. It is why Trayvon fought for his life.

Trigger said...

My heart goes out to the policeman who was shot by Tyler Holder when he served an arrest warrant.

It goes to show how dangerous child killer's really are.

Anonymous said...

Very well done. J.McCluskey

Dee said...

Six-year-old Alanna Gallagher was sexually assaulted, before she was killed and her body dumped on a residential Saginaw street, according to the capital murder arrest warrant.

The warrant names 17-year-old Tyler Holder as the suspect – and confirms his DNA matches that which was found on Gallagher’s body. Holder lives with his mother two houses down the street from where Gallagher lived.

As members of the Saginaw Police Department, the FBI Safe Streets Task Force, and the North Texas Major Case Investigative Team served the arrest and search warrant at Holder’s home on Tuesday morning, police say Holder fired a gun at officers, hitting Arlington Police Officer Charles Lodatto in the leg. Officer Lodatto is recovering from his injuries. Police returned fire, hitting Holder in the head. He is in critical condition.

(credit: Facebook)
(credit: Facebook)

According to the arrest warrant, Holder placed “plastic bags over her head, using tape to tape the bags around her neck, suffocating her.” Gallagher’s nude body was found bound with tape, placed in a garbage bag and wrapped in a tarp on July 1.

The arrest warrant states a witness told police she had seen the same kind of tarp in Holder’s backyard several months ago, but the tarp was missing after Gallagher was killed. According to the arrest warrant, police are awaiting results of additional tests that they believe will link Holder with the murder.

Parent Lisa Arnold lives in the same Saginaw neighborhood and has known Holder since he was in 5th grade. She describes him as a trouble maker and says she tried to keep her kids away from him.

Anonymous said...

Are we still going on about the trayvon case? He was criminal who threatened GZ life and the tables turned. You play with fire - you will get burned!

Anonymous said...

AT THIS POINT I felt the suspect REACH FOR MY NOW EXPOSED ( IT WASN'T EXPOSED WHEN HE SAID("As I looked and tried to find my")FIREARM AND SAY 'Your gONNA DIE tonight Mother Fucker.'


Jen said...

OT Anon 6:18

Ok, I'm not going to go another 20 rounds on this TM discussion, because its getting redundant, but I'm not sure why you would think that the first words spoken between these two strangers was a profanity laden death threat?

Even Rachel Jentel, the girl who was on the phone with TM said the confrontation started when TM asked GZ 'U got a problem'...'Why u following me'...

Anonymous said...

All of these comments re Zimmerman vs Martin depends on whether you believe Zimmermans' lies. Obviously many of you do. Personally I don't. He was ALREADY proven to be a liar, over and over.

Why would anyone with an ounce of sense believe that he was telling the truth in covering up the murder of Trayvon? OF COURSE, he would lie about that too. Who wouldn't, especially a known liar. I pity people who beg to be lied too then follow, justify and defend the liars' path.

Anonymous said...

Has anyone seen the twits and/or fb posts wherein TM speaks of fighting? Of wanting to engage in real life fights not just practicing. Surprised that one opponent 'went 3 rounds' after a punch to the face?

If past actions are to be allowed, then they should be on both sides.

TM was sexualized, a profane, woman abuser. He was more an adult than a child. His 'grill', demeanor, pics of his weapon. He had changed dramatically since the loss of a family member, and was sent to his father to be straightened out.

TM probably thought he could beat down (wail on) the smaller GZ In the dark and wearing a hoodie, he would not be recognized. After all he didn't live there. He tried to take GZ by surprise, and got shot instead.

The jury decided, court ruled. Enough already.

Anonymous said...

Interesting, but how do we use this information? For example, child care providers and teachers are required by law to report suspected abuse. But water, doors, etc can come up in innocent conversation, too. Do we just use this as an investigative tool to ask more or at what point can we take statement like those characterized and say we suspect abuse. It seems like a fine line to walk.

- Buckley

dadgum said...


Something positive to go to sleep on..

Mainah said...

Thank you, Dadgum! I watched the video and book-marked the "upworthy" page.

Anonymous said...

TM probably thought he could beat down (wail on) the smaller GZ In the dark and wearing a hoodie,

Do you know the case? GZ states that he followed Trayvon, in a car, and then on foot. Trayvon was frightened and was hurrying home. GZ was armed, he wanted to apprehend Trayvon, when Trayvon fought back GZ: "I unholstered my firearm in fear "...GZ was afraid of Trayvon: "casually walking in the rain".. this prompted a call to the police? GZ is a wannbe cop, he created the frightening situation by bringing his gun and fear to Trayvon. Trayvon fought for his life...and lost.

zzzz zzzzz, snore! said...

Get some new material, PUH-LEASE!

Anonymous said...

In a nutshell, you are SOOO right, Anon @ 8:29. Unfortunately, you won't find many others here who will agree with you.

Already knowing he is a liar, they like the idea that Zimmie stalked Trayvon then shot him dead claiming self defense, but don't want to hear that scared out of his mind Trayvon fought back with all he had, trying to save his life.

He had SEEN Georges' gun and that's all he could do; fight back and try to save himself. Neither did his screams for help do him any good. George's gun silenced those screams the second he shot Trayvon.

But they don't want to know the truth, while they pay homage to a known liar (and killer). You'd might as well give up on them. They prefer to hear and believe Zimmermans' lies than to acknowledge the truth. Someday the tables will turn on them and they'll wonder what did they ever do to deserve their misfortune.

Anonymous said...




Anonymous said...


July 23, 2013 at 11:47 PM

Fool! You been hoodwinked nigga!

brosnanfan said...

I couldn't even read through the whole article.

Anonymous said...

The friend, originally known only as "Witness 8", said that she told Martin to run to the townhouse where he was staying with his father and the father's girlfriend.[146] She then heard Martin say, "What are you following me for?" followed by a man's voice responding, "What are you doing around here?" She said that she heard the sound of pushing before the phone went dead.wikipedia

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Turd said...


TURD^^^^^ said...

If your bored FUCK OFF!!!!! NOBODY LIKES U.

brosnan fan is BORING HOMOSEXUAL said...

Shut up.

Anonymous said...

Wow u r boring!!!!!

Anonymous said...


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chimp monkey ape nike wearing ape said...

One less CHIMP!!!! SO WHAT?????

Anonymous said...


Anonymous said...

A number of Retreat at Twin Lakes residents interviewed in Trayvon Martin coverage have called their community ‘safe’ and ‘family-oriented.’ According to DeGregory, Trayvon Martin was known by many of the young people at Retreat at Twin Lakes because he played football with them when he visited.
Some stories have reported with a suggestion of illegitimacy that the Twin Lakes neighborhood watch group was not of the 25,000 registered with the National Sheriff’s Association. But while that is true, it is very clear the chapter had support and basic instruction provided by the Sanford Police Department.
Dorival has described to a number of outlets how she briefed neighborhood watch members at Retreat at Twin Lakes that evening. Per The New York Times:
She then gave a PowerPoint presentation and distributed a handbook. As she always does, she emphasized what a neighborhood watch is — and what it is not.

In every presentation, “I go through what the rules and responsibilities are,” she said Thursday. The volunteers’ role, she said, is “being the eyes and ears” for the police, “not the vigilante.” Members of a neighborhood watch “are not supposed to confront anyone,” she said. “We get paid to get into harm’s way. You don’t do that. You just call them from the safety of your home or your vehicle.”

Using a gun in the neighborhood watch role would be out of the question, she said in an interview.

Anonymous said...

"Tonight, I was on my way to the grocery store when I saw a male approximately 5' 11" to 6' 2" casually walking in the rain looking into homes. I pulled my vehicle over and called SPD non-emergency phone number.She said that Martin told her that a man was watching him from his vehicle while talking on the phone before the man started following Martin.
I told the dispatcher what I had witnessed, the dispatcher took note of my location + the suspect fled to a darkened area of the sidewalk."

"As the dispatcher was asking me for an exact location the suspect emerged from the darkness + circled my vehicle.(“He would circle the block and circle it; it was weird,” said Teontae Amie, 17. “If he had spotted me, he’d probably ask me if I lived here. He was known for being really strict.”) Martin told his friend at one point that he had lost the man but the man suddenly appeared again.[145][146][147] I could not hear if he said anything. The suspect once again disappeared between the back of some houses.The friend, originally known only as "Witness 8", said that she told Martin to run to the townhouse where he was staying with his father and the father's girlfriend.[146]
The dispatcher once again asked me for my exact location. I could not remember the name of the street so I got out of my car to look for a street sign."

"The dispatcher asked me for a description and the direction the suspect went. I told the dispatcher I did not know but I was out of my vehicle looking for a street sign + the direction the suspect went. The dispatcher told me not to follow the suspect + that an officer was in route. As I headed back to my vehicle the suspect emerged from the darkness and said She then heard Martin say, "What are you following me for?" followed by a man's voice responding, "What are you doing around here?" She said that she heard the sound of pushing before the phone went dead. She immediately attempted to call him back, but was unable to reach him.wikipedia
'You got a problem' I said 'No' the suspect said 'You do now.' As I looked and tried to find my phone to dial 911 the suspect punched me in the face.
Read more here: http://www.miamiherald.com/2012/03/17/v-fullstory/2700249/trayvon-martin-shooter-a-habitual.html#storylink=cpy

Anonymous said...

Trayvon SHOULD have punched the sneaky b'stard in the face; for Christs' sake, he was stalking and following him! AND WEARING A LOADED GUN, unfortunately, unbeknown to Trayvon. Ha.. There was no way George was going to let "this one" get away!

It was GEORGE who hunted down what he 'thought' (like hes' got something between his ears to 'think' with) was a burglar, while Trayvons' trying in every way he can to dodge and hide from the fool and deciding he would cold-cock him a good one if the fool caught up with him.

Without knowing one damned thing about him, George had every intention of shooting this kid the minute he got out of his vehicle and started following him on foot. He had been waiting for just such an opportunity, now hes' got it; not about to let it slip away THIS TIME!

Who CARES what Trayvon had done in the past while sowing his wild oats. THIS night he was doing nothing but innocently walking home to his father's apt, carrying a can of iced tea and a little bag of skittles for his younger step-brother who was waiting for him.

As they say, "a picture is worth a thousand words": Just look at Georges' photo taken after the verdict was announced. There he stands with two of his attorneys, they are smiling and happy while extending their congratulations to him, while he stands with his eyes downcast and unsmiling. He couldn't even look them in the face. He knew he lied. And lied, and lied, and lied some more. He knew he had shot Trayvon in cold blood just as he intended to do from the beginning.

His attorneys KNEW he was lying, all the while lying for him. Be damned with lies; that's the name of the game, WIN at any cost. But, ALL their lies will catch up with them in time, everyone of them.

boooooring beating a dead donkey boring said...


john said...


Anthony Weiner Admits To New Lewd Messages.

Two years after quitting Congress in a sex scandal, Anthony Weiner admits posing as "Carlos Danger" for tawdry chats online.


Anonymous said...

The chimp is GONE!long Live the antichimp,Observer

Anonymous said...

HE has a very very Small penis,and its rather brown coloured,compared to the Rest of His skin.

rascist nigger coon chimp said...


dadgum said...

allrighty then..

need an interview with Mr. Wiener, not prepared remarks..anyone?

such an idiot, I felt bad for his wife, but think she knew full well about this.

john said...

Hi dadgum,

I put this up the other day,here it is again if you missed it.

Language of Truth and Lies: I-words.

Anthony Weiner.


Sus said...

Thank you for this post, Peter. It explains the why of lights, doors, and covers so well. And I never thought before about the reason behind passivity in language.

Anonymous said...

I don't feel sorry for Weiners' wife. Not for one second. Maybe in the beginning, but she's had two years now to reconcile herself to the fact that she married a POS who has demeaned her in every way; gather up her self-respect and leave his sorry ass.

She insults HERSELF by staying with this low-life sexist freak.

This delusional woman needs some serious counseling. Apparently she doesn't think she deserves any better, or can do any better. For that alone I feel pity for her.

dadgum said...

in Wiener's announcement yesterday, his wife looked uncomfortable..her body language said it all. I wonder what is in this for her..

she is a protege of Hillary Clinton..maybe that experience has influenced her actions.

:) john..

john said...


Anthony Weiner and Huma Abedin’s Post-Scandal Playbook.

I just want to clarify that although I was 22 and technically an adult, I was obviously immature and I acted irresponsibly. I realize my correspondence with Mr. Anthony Weiner was a huge mistake and I am embarrassed by it. But the facts are the facts, and he’s running for mayor of NYC so I felt I should get my story out there.
I have no reason to lie. I don’t want the attention or I wouldn’t have kept my anonymity. I didn’t get paid for anything. I quite literally have nothing to gain from this.
Some people have doubts about the facebook page he used to talk to me in the beginning, before switching to facebook/formspring/phone calls — It’s his personal account. It’s linked to his wife’s account. It’s deactivated at the moment because of the campaign. Aside from the fact that I know many people in the political realm who have verified that it’s his account, I also know from our phone calls.
And to be totally clear, I did not sleep with him or receive any funds from him. I’ve seen comments stating otherwise and they are all totally false. I think it’s important to reiterate the fact that all of this happened with him after his first scandal, so all of his campaign promises about being a changed man are absolute lies.


john said...


Sherry West and Gun Shot Residue on Parents.

Short interview.


Anonymous said...


sidewalk super said...

What fun! Weiner makes an ass of himself in public yet again!
American politics! Bill clinton set a bar for wife degradation that Weiner is attempting to surpass, while wife? What's with her? A condo in Miami Beach?

OT: all you trolls who know exactly and precisely what went down in Sanford, Florida...call the witch hunter tip line, you might even get to talk to eric holder!

Do you think that wrong/evil doers are getting their finest female operatives ready to "influence" that candidate, should his bad behaviour be rewarded?

Hobnob said...

off topic and scarily familiar in some ways

A 17-year-old girl told police she gave birth to a baby six months ago and stashed the tiny body in the trunk of her car after a mechanic made the grisly discovery yesterday.

Shelby police Chief Charlie Roub said the girl told investigators last night she didn't know she was pregnant and gave birth at home in late January or early February.

It is not known if the baby was stillborn or born healthy. she wrapped it in a blanket and put it in the trunk.

The baby's body was found inside a copy paper box by an employee at the northern Ohio repair shop after he noticed a strange smell coming from the trunk.
The girl is a local resident and student. She has not been taken into custody or arrested.

The car, a Mazda, belongs to a family member, the chief said. They do not know the gender of the baby.

An autopsy will determine the cause of death.

The girl gave the police the name of the baby's father but they do not think he knew she was pregnant.

Mechanic Ronnie Hamilton said: 'The odor was so bad I decided to get curious and open up the box and that's when I noticed the baby'

Ronnie's fiancee Mary Enderby told the Mansfield News Journal: 'That same car was here last week with those girls getting it worked on. I told Ronnie there was something off about them.'

She said someone came back and picked up the car, but returned it to the garage on Tuesday around noon to have a shake in the rear end checked.

'I have five children. I had my first one at age 15, and I don’t understand how somebody could do this,' she said.

'I was still in high school when I had my son. I gave him up for adoption. He turns 16 on Thursday.'

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2376291/Teen-admits-leaving-babys-body-trunk-car-SIX-MONTHS-mechanic-makes-grisly-discovery.html

Hobnob said...

Weiner will carry on and do as he has done in the past, why should he stop when wifey stands by him (albeit with gritted teeth and a looks could kill face)
He has no incentive to stop his behavior so he won't.
He isn't breaking any law currently since the women are of age, however his morals leave a lot to be desired, if he cannot keep his promises to his wife and to the public the first time round why should anyone believe him again?

His body language was defensive(crossed arms) there was distance between him and his wife rather than the expected closeness from a happily married couple. He was stuttering and stammering all over the place, he couldn't tell the truth if his life depended on it.

He bragged he had told us there was more out there the last time, that may have been the case withing a couple of months for a reveal but 2 years later is taking the urine.
No doubt he will cash in on his lecherous behavior, there are always bimbos who like a challenge , who see money to made out of it and hey perhaps even a wedding ring since it is clear he has no love or care for his wife. She will think she can change him. nah he is a dick on legs, his two brain cells lurking in his scrotum.

I do wonder though what he isn't telling us.

It is clear he is an exhibitionist, he links the danger of being caught, does he vet his 'ladies' or is there a deeper secret yet to come out?

He is leaving himself wide open to all sorts of allegations with his behavior, online behavior is often a mirror for real life behavior.

Anonymous said...

His attorneys KNEW he was lying, all the while lying for him. Be damned with lies; that's the name of the game, WIN at any cost. But, ALL their lies will catch up with them in time, everyone of them.

July 24, 2013 at 7:53 AM

This tweet from Victor Cruz is sort of like your prediction.

He tweeted, "Thoroughly confused. Zimmerman doesn't last a year before the hood catches up to him."

Lemon said...

Thank you for this post. It was very helpful.

Hobnob said...

off topic

NYPD cold case detectives are seeking help from the public to identify the little girl dubbed 'Baby Hope' whose body was found inside a cooler off the Henry Hudson Parkway in 1991.

On Tuesday, the 22nd anniversary of the unsolved crime, police circulated the neighborhood around Dyckman Street in Washington Heights near the wooded area where the child was found, speaking to residents and offering a $12,000 reward for information that leads to an arrest and conviction.

The discovery by highway workers of a little girl, believed to be between three and five years old, tied with rope and squeezed into a picnic cooler beneath full cans of Coca-Cola struck a nerve with police and residents alike

She had been malnourished and tests showed she had endured sexual abuse and she died of asphyxia. She was naked except for a hair-tie with yellow plastic baubles on it. She had black hair and was white, possibly Hispanic.

The child was badly decomposed, making her facial features unrecognizable, and no one came forward to claim her. No one had filed a missing persons report and there were very few clues
Even for hardened New York City cops, the case was a sad and grisly one. Detectives named the girl 'Baby Hope', in the hope that someone would come forward and help them find out who she was and what happened to her.

Two years after her discovery, Baby Hope was buried in St Hamond's ceremony. The police of the 34th Precinct pooled their money and paid for her gravestone. She was buried in a white communion dress.

Years passed, and still no one came forward. In 2007, Baby Hope's body was exhumed to try and extract a DNA sample, but her bones were in such bad condition it was impossible.

A second attempt in 2011, using improved technology yielded a complete DNA profile, and police immediately ran a check on all their convicted felon and missing persons databases but came up empty-handed
On Tuesday, police made their latest attempt to close the case of Baby Hope.

Police handed out fliers all day, and according to The New York Times, a Police Department Crime Stoppers van drove around the neighborhood equipped with a loud speaker broadcasting a request for help in both English and Spanish.

'It's hard for me to believe that nobody knows who she is,' Detective Joseph Neenan told The New York Times in 1991. The officer in charge of the case, he was accustomed to searching for missing persons.

'We have the opposite,' he said. 'We have her. We don't know who she is.
Now, 22 years later, Detective Robert Dewhurst echoes him:

'I feel somebody knows who this girl was,' he told the New York Daily News.

Perhaps Baby Hope 'had little girlfriends that are grown now and know something wasn’t right on the block when she was gone.'

'Everything about this case is already out there,' Sergeant Carlos Nieves, a police spokesman, told The New York Times. “They’re hoping that somebody who hasn’t come out sees this.'

At the time of Baby Hope's death in 1991, Washington Heights was in the thrall of a crack cocaine epidemic and the area was known for gangs and violence. Now, it has one of the lowest crime rates in Manhattan and families with young children walk the streets with impunity.

There are a lot of new faces, but police are optimistic that some of the older members of the community remember the case of Baby Hope


dadgum said...


Hobnob said...

thanks 'Gum

Anonymous said...

Holder’s arrest may ease some of the pain, anger and confusion in Saginaw, where many residents have been reliving the search in 1999 for the abductor of Opal Jennings, 6.
Richard Lee Franks, now 43 and serving a prison sentence until at least 2029, said he took Opal only for a ride.
He was convicted of aggravated kidnapping and sentenced before her body was found in 2003.
For five months in 1999, like this month, like today, neighbors and wagging tongues in Saginaw blamed anybody who looked or acted different.
In both cases, police asked neighbors to be on the lookout for a suspicious pickup truck, and every construction worker, repairman or stranger driving a truck, particularly minorities, became a target of suspicion.
This time, even Alanna’s parents came under scrutiny for a marriage fitting the description “it’s complicated.”
Wise County Sheriff David Walker recalled Opal’s case. Both Franks and Holder were from Wise County families

Read more here: http://www.star-telegram.com/2013/07/23/5023394/saginaw-case-took-hard-work-and.html#storylink=cpy

Anonymous said...

They should have come under scrutiny for the way Alanna was living and being neglected by her mother and her two daddies, left outdoors with no adult supervision and alone to roam the neighborhood for hours at the time, then crying when she had to go home. Poor little thing. Wonder what she ate all day? That right there was enough to cause them to be under suspicion even if there was nothing else.

Now that the truth is out all over the neighborhood about the lifestyles of Alannas' 'family', I doubt they'll be well received in the area any time soon, especially with Alannas' mother advertising for new male and female bed partners. Disgusting b'stards.

Lemon said...

It appears somebody put 25cents in the Rant-O-Matic.
(Please don't feed the pink flamingoes)

Anonymous said...

It was weird how the parents had red duct tape, trash bags, etc. And how they behaved after Alanna's death, using the media spotlight as a platform for defending their lifestyle instead of expressing shock and horror at Alanna's murder.

Anonymous said...

Skin colouration modifies the appearance of a bruise to the naked eye. It is much easier to observe the extent and colour of bruising in lighter skinned individuals. Thus, it is particularly important to take extra care when examining dark skinned individuals so that any bruising is not overlooked.
Another area of practical difficulty for the pathologist is the differentiation of bruises from marks caused by resuscitation. Because in most instances resuscitation occurs around the time of death with some degree of maintenance of a circulation, or at least intermittent forced movement of blood within vessels, there is every possibility of producing extravasation of blood to the tissues that is indistinguishable from true bruising. Therefore, care should be taken in the interpretation of injuries in areas of the body where resuscitation has taken place. These areas include the face, neck, and chest. Frequently, the question arises in cases involving pressure to the face and neck, especially manual strangulation, where fingertip type bruising, as well as other marks such as abrasions caused by fingernails, are commonly found. The problem is compounded in areas where there is intense congestion.
The composition, or plasticity, of the tissues impacted also affects the resultant injuries. For example, a person who is kicked in the chest may have only minimal injuries to the elastic skin surface, whereas deeper, more solid tissues such as ribs and internal organs (notably, the spleen and liver) may experience fractures and lacerations.
Yet another factor affecting the severity of blunt force injuries is the amount of time the body and the impacting object are in contact. A longer period of contact allows kinetic energy to be dissipated over a prolonged period, resulting in less damage to the tissues than an equally forceful impact with dispersion of energy over a brief period.

reformed troll xxxxxxx said...

Im bring good :0)

john said...

OT.Barack Obama Vows To End Economic Gridlock.

The president promises fresh policy ideas on manufacturing, education, housing and health care in a series of upcoming speeches.

President Barack Obama says WASHINGTON(If he used the word WASHINGTON,Which appears here not to be in quotes,then notice he is not taking Responsibility but sharing,and distancing himself away from it) has "taken its eye off the ball" when it comes to the nation's economic woes.

In a speech at Knox College in Illinois, Mr Obama pledged a stronger commitment to tackling issues that still strain many in the middle class nearly five years after the country plunged into a recession.

The president returned to the college campus where he gave his first major economic address as a US senator.

He chided Congress for being less concerned about the economy and more about "an endless parade of distractions, political posturing and phony scandals".

"I am here to say this needs to stop," Mr Obama said. "Short-term thinking and stale debates are NOT(Anything said in the negative we note as sensitive) what this MOMENT(Moment is only a short space in time,why not the long term) requires."

The president's attempt to refocus on the economy comes amid some hopeful signs of improvement, with the unemployment rate falling and consumer confidence on the rise.

But looming spending and budget deadlines this fall could upend that progress if Washington spirals into contentious fiscal fights like those that plagued Mr Obama's first term.

"I BELIEVE(This leaves others to believe differently) there are members of BOTH PARTIES(Now here he brings in the other party,as if its their fault too) who understand what's at stake," Mr Obama said. "BUT I will not allow gridlock, inaction or willful indifference to get in our way."

The president announced no fresh policy proposals Wednesday, though he promised new ideas in a series of speeches he plans in the coming weeks.

They will focus on manufacturing, education, housing, retirement security and health care.

On education, the president promised to outline "an aggressive strategy to shake up the system, tackle rising costs, and improve value for middle-class students and their families".(Order is important)

He also renewed his call for increasing the minimum wage.

Even before the president spoke, Republicans panned his pivot back to the economy as little more than vague, empty promises.

"It's a hollow shell, it's an Easter Egg with no candy in it," said House Speaker John Boehner.

Despite pressing public concerns over jobs and economic security, the economy has taken a back seat in Washington to other issues in the first six months of Mr Obama's second term.

That is in part due to the White House's decision to focus on other agenda items following Mr Obama's re-election, most notably stricter gun control measures and immigration.

Some distractions also have thrown the White House off balance, including revelations that the Internal Revenue Service targeted political groups and the Justice Department's seizure of journalists' phone records.

Foreign policy crises, particularly in the Middle East, also have competed for the president's attention.http://news.sky.com/story/1120014/barack-obama-vows-to-end-economic-gridlock


president homosexual racist biggot said...

This"president"is a racist TURD.

Hobnob said...

Please miss ~raises hand~

Can we feed the crusty ones?

When i visited Canada a few years back my mate and i went to Calgary zoo for the day.

As we wandered around we found the flamingos looking all pink and flamingo like, i also noticed they had several flamingo statues made from twigs and stuff.

Being the sweet lil hobnob that i am and with my non accent, i mentioned to another visitor standing next to me "Ah, crispy flamingos see, this is what happens to flamingos when they forget to put the sunscreen on whilst pointing out said 'crispy' flamingos"

I also go told off for talking to two older ladies at the hippo pool. The 2 hippos were outside catching a few rays and one of the said ladies said "aww look they are sunbathing, i wish i had the butt to wear a bikini in this weather" (it was scorching)i replied, "honey, compared to those two, your butt is tiny and you can wear what the heck you like"

If we go to the zoo Lemons, can we go see the nelliefants please?

john said...


The Secret Life of Pronouns: James Pennebaker.



flamungo with mungo jerry and fat anus said...

Ill take you both to a Zoo.bring biscuits,bring fizzy Pop.

mk said...

J. DiPietro a no show in court this morning. Judge has issued a warrant for his arrest. I'm not ashamed to say this makes me smile.

dadgum said...

me as well..

Jen said...

Me too...wonder if he'll try to assault the officers who come to arrest him (only if they are female...JDip's such a tough guy , he only picks fights with toddlers & women!)

Dee said...

OT Re: Justin Dipietro

Failure to appear...bail will be higher this time when they catch up with you.


Hobnob said...
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reformed troll xxxxxxx said...

The coward wouldnt risk itself getting hurt,Grrr

michelle obama STINKS said...

Mrs Obama stinks of stale rhino poop.

Anonymous said...


Hobnob said...

dipchit turned up eventually and pleaded not guilty to assault

Anonymous said...

HES an Evil TURD.

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...

Gary numan is Pop Star farter.

Jen said...

♡ Lemon

Hobnob said...

DiPietro charged with domestic assault in Portland

By David Hench dhench@mainetoday.com
Staff Writer

PORTLAND — The father of Ayla Reynolds, the Waterville toddler who police believe met with foul play, faces a charge of domestic violence after his arrest in Portland a week ago.

Justin DiPietro arrives in court late; pleads not guilty to assault charge

The alleged victim in the case is one of only three people who were home the night Reynolds disappeared.

Portland police say a lieutenant spotted Justin DiPietro, 26, in front of 88 Spring St. on July 6 at 11:15 p.m. He and a woman, a former girlfriend, were arguing when he grabbed and pushed her, a police statement said.

DiPietro was charged with domestic violence assault and is currently free on bail.

The 25-year-old Portland woman, is not Ayla Reynolds’ mother, Trista Reynolds.

Court records show DiPietro was ordered after his arrest to have no contact with Courtney Roberts as a condition of bail. Roberts, who has lived on Spring Street, was at the house the night Reynolds disappeared, along with DiPietro’s sister.

No one answered the door Monday at DiPietro’s mother, Phoebe DiPietro’s, house at 29 Violette Ave. in Waterville — the site from where Ayla Reynolds, 20 months old at the time, disappeared on Dec. 17, 2011.

Neighbors said Phoebe DiPietro works out of the home. While court papers show that Justin DiPietro lives at that address, reports are that he lives in Portland.

A sign next to a maple tree on the lawn bears Ayla’s photograph and the words, “Missing, Ayla Bell Reynolds, Please call 911.” A no trespassing sign hangs on the tree.

DiPietro has been at the center of one of the biggest investigations in Maine State Police history. Police initially tried to find the girl, then after declaring they believed she was no longer alive, continue to investigate her death.

DiPietro called police the morning she disappeared to report that she was not in her room. She had been last seen the night before, when she was put to bed.

Nobody has been charged, but police have said they do not believe DiPietro, Roberts and his sister, Elisha DiPietro, the third adult in the house that night, have told them everything they know.

Reynolds’ grandfather, Ronald Reynolds, 53, of Mona Road in Portland, was charged this spring with threatening a family member with a knife. When officers arrived at the home at 6 p.m. on May 31, Reynolds resisted and police used a Taser on him, police said.

Police said the incident had nothing to do with the missing child.

Staff writer Amy Calder contributed to this story.


Anonymous said...

If I was a black male teenager who lived in the vicinity of GZ I'd get a restraining order against him.

The only proof necessary is GZ's statement of nonregret.

dadgum said...


Sisters, 8 and 9, missing from near elementary school today..

Jo said...

I could not hear if he said anything. (reporting what didn't happen or what he didn't hear) The suspect (he already decided that TM was the suspect) once again disappeared between the back of some houses. The dispatcher once again asked me for my exact location. I could not remember the name of the street so I got out of my car to look for a street sign. (why not drive to the end of the block and check. how far from the end of the block was TM found? Was it in a logical location for GZ to have been heading to find a street sign?)

I also find it hard to believe that if they were both reaching for the gun, that GZ got a shot off directly in the center of TM chest and that no shots went off in a struggle for the gun.

Anonymous said...

Everything's easy in hindsight. The trial is over. Try analyzing TM's tweets.

dadgum said...


Town warns residents about release of sex offender..

Anonymous said...

"The dispatcher once again asked me for my exact location. I could not remember the name of the street so I got out of my car to look for a street sign."

This is not consistent with the call with dispatch. Zimmerman gets out of his car when he says "the suspect" is running. You hear the car door chime then. Up until then, the only location for meeting mentioned is the clubhouse. But GZ gets out, runs, cusses about them getting away, dispatch says are you following?, he says yeah, dispatch says we don't need you to, then GZ gives precise directions to where the mail ones and his truck are, they agree police will meet GZ there, then GZ changes his mind about where he'll be and says for police to call. That's the point he might be looking for an address, but that's 40 seconds after getting out of his car and 30 seconds after dispatch says don't follow.

The 911 call confirms GZ gets out of his car because TM is running *away* and GZ is pissed they always get away. GZ says later he got out of his car to get an address and lies about dispatch asking for a specific address.

- Buckley

dadgum said...

..they found the irls at a doctor's office..glad they are both safe!

drdebo said...

DON'T LIKE TO "COMMENT BOMB" BUT- since he WAS guilty- but didn;t get convicted-
as posted on CNN sight:
(CNN) -- A juror in the George Zimmerman trial says she feels the man who killed Trayvon Martin "got away with murder."

"George Zimmerman got away with murder, but you can't get away from God. And at the end of the day, he's going to have a lot of questions and answers he has to deal with," Juror B29 told ABC, according an article posted on the network's website Thursday. "(But) the law couldn't prove it."

The juror, who used only her first name of Maddy out of concerns for her safety, told ABC that she and others on the panel felt Zimmerman was guilty, but that wasn't enough. She and other jurors also have identified themselves by their numbers from the jury pool.

"You can't put the man in jail even though in our hearts we felt he was guilty," she said. "But we had to grab our hearts and put it aside and look at the evidence."

Zimmerman has been out of the public eye since the jury found him not guilty of second degree murder on July 13. His parents told ABC News last week that their family has received an "enormous amount of death threats."

He fatally shot Martin in the Sanford, Florida, neighborhood where Zimmerman and Martin's father lived in February 2012. Zimmerman, who is Hispanic, had a confrontation with the unarmed African-American teen after calling police to report a suspicious person, and he said he shot Martin in self-defense.

The case became a flash point in debates over racial profiling, and thousands attended vigils across the country over the weekend, decrying the verdict.

Anonymous said...


What a real parent looks like. Take note Justin, Mark, Deborah, Billie, etc...........................

Anonymous said...

Site, drdebo.
If the jurors felt he was guilty, they would have found him guilty. They did not. This juror is probably afraid to walk the streets, knowing so many want both the jurors and GZ dead. She is prone to deny the obvious.

If only the trial had been fair, and as evidence of GZ's possible racism was allowed, so should have been the evidence of TM's thugness, womanizing, theft, drug use, truancy, disobedience, gun selling and buying. Let us not forget violence as in fighting, wanting to fight, and his disappointment in the other guy only bleeding a little from his broken nose. Sound familiar?

Mother Sabrina (there is no way in the English language SYBRINA is a correct spelling) herself sent TM away on a bus to be fixed by his father and his girlfriend.

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...

Biscuit bussoms In watching c5.

Hobnob said...

the channel 4 programme about crocodile tears by the killers ( press conference done by the guilty parson) was fascinating. The similarities in each case was frightening and when you compare these cases to others where the child has gone missing allegedly abducted the similarites are so obvious and blatant i have to wonder why the suspects aren't now in jail.

Mainah said...

OT: Justin DiPietro was a no-show at court for his DV charge.


Mainah said...

Sorry, I guess he was late...the story has been updated. Initially said: Arrest warrant issued for missing Maine baby's dad in assault case

Father of missing toddler Ayla Reynolds charged with domestic violence assault

PORTLAND, Maine —A judge has issued an arrest warrant for Justin DiPietro after he failed to show up for a court appearance.

DiPietro, the father of missing Waterville toddler Ayla Reynolds, was arrested three weeks ago in Portland on a charge of domestic violence assault.

Police said he grabbed and pushed his ex-girlfriend Courtney Roberts while the two were arguing.

The judge set DiPietro's bail at $300 and ordered him to have no contact with Roberts.

DiPietro reported his daughter missing from his home in Waterville on Dec. 17, 2011.

Police said Roberts was in the house at the time along with DiPietro and his sister.

Police have said they believe Ayla is likely dead.


LOL said...


peter is a creepy ass cracka said...

I see an angry creepy ass cracka. lol

Al and Jesse said...

Just Stop The Lies, biotch!

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...

Your skin is the Same colour as POOP.

Anonymous said...

"Tonight, I was on my way to the grocery store when I saw a male approximately 5' 11" to 6' 2" casually walking in the rain looking into homes. I pulled my vehicle over and called SPD non-emergency phone number. I told the dispatcher what I had witnessed, the dispatcher took note of my location + the suspect fled to a darkened area of the sidewalk."

Zimmerman refers to Martin as a "suspect." In his 911 call, he referred to Martin as a "guy."( and "punk") The use of the word suspect is most likely justified( I think it sounds odd, Trayvon fought back, GZ had bloody injuries... expected would have been attacker, perpetrator..etc) since he gave this statement after the shooting had occurred. Since MARTIN ALLEGEDLY ATTACKED (if Martin had instigated the struggle GZ would have given Trayvon the name attacker) him, Zimmerman now views Martin as a suspect ( GZ STILL views Trayvon as a suspect. This is unexpected. A punch in the nose removes suspicion. GZ cannot call Trayvon an attacker or perpetrator because GZ knows he himself initiated the fight) and not just a guy.http://www.statementanalysis.com/george-zimmerman/

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...

Shut up..

Anonymous said...

O’Mara’s conversational style contrasted prosecutor Bernie de la Rionda’s booming presentation a day earlier.
De la Rionda said in his closing argument that Zimmerman assumed Martin was a criminal who was up to no good when he confronted him in his neighborhood. A scuffle followed, and Zimmerman fired his gun.
“A teenager is dead. He is dead through no fault of his own,” de la Rionda said. “He is dead because a man made assumptions. … Unfortunately because his assumptions were wrong, Trayvon Benjamin Martin no longer walks this Earth.
“He assumed TRAYVON MARTIN WAS A CRIMINAL,” de la Rionda said. “That is why we are here.”
Thoroughly confused2
The prosecution lacks, is repetitive, and contains embedded statements that makes me believe the prosecution was confused.

Anonymous said...

This sounds like the prosecutors were defending Trayvon. He is dead because a man profiled, stalked, and chased him down on foot to confront him with a weapon he was unauthorized to carry as neighborhood watch and against the police dispatchers instructions. GZ's minor injuries are those inflicted by a frightened teen who fought for his life. Unfortunately because GZ carried a loaded weapon that he admits he struggled to unholster during the fight...Trayvon Benjamin Martin no longer walks this Earth.
“A teenager is dead. He is dead through no fault of his own,” de la Rionda said. “He is dead because a man made assumptions. … Unfortunately because his assumptions were wrong, Trayvon Benjamin Martin no longer walks this Earth.
“He assumed Trayvon Martin was a criminal,” de la Rionda said. “That is why we are here.”

Anonymous said...

OMG!! These parents yet again try to turn the focus away from Alanna's horrific murder! Why do they assume it's all about them? They are narcissistic about their threesome lifestyle and are constantly bringing it up...They need to take responsibility for being negligent parents! Alanna is dead because they were horrible parents too into gaming and each other to keep an eye on their youngest child! They can try to place blame on others, the truth is Alanna was outside unsupervised and unmissed by her parents for hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours etc...

Anonymous said...

Alanna Gallagher update July 25: The parents of the slain Saginaw, Texas child spoke to the media to give thanks to police for their work, but that's not the only new detail released by the trio. Come to find out, they've been targeted by 17-year-old Tyler Holder in the past, claiming that the 17-year-old suspect vandalized their home previously by egging it and slashing the tires of their vehicles. This comes just days after their car and a memorial to their murdered daughter were set on fire -- presumably by the deeply troubled teen. It appears that Holder has displayed a pattern of contempt toward Karl Gallagher, Laura Gallagher and Miles McDaniel -- a family of one woman, her two husbands and their offspring. Is it at all possible that Holder targeted this family, and their innocent child, out of hatred for their familial arrangement?
Hate crimes come in many forms, and are not limited to attacks on members of the LGBTQ community or other ethnic backgrounds. Indeed, this family is living an alternative lifestyle of polyandry. They are polygamists living in a quiet neighborhood in Texas -- which, isn't necessarily known for being a hub for cultural acceptance and love equality. Those are, after all, liberal concepts and Texas is a red state.
Alanna Gallagher was raped before her arms and legs were bound and a plastic shopping bag put over her head. It was earlier speculated that this act alone was an act of sadism, which indicates that the suspect either suffers from a paraphilic mental disorder, or his actions were done out of pure, raw hatred for his victim -- and who on earth could have raw hatred for a six-year-old child? It would be interesting to find out if authorities in Texas are probing this as a potential hate crime, because while the surface motive might be sexual, Tyler Holder's history shows that he has had it out for this family for some time now, and taking their daughter away from them in this horrific manner might just be part of that hatred he displays for the family.http://www.examiner.com/article/was-alanna-gallagher-s-murder-a-hate-crime?cid=rss

Anonymous said...

Decode this

Author Mary Jo Rapini offers the following primer on messaging lingo and urges parents to commit the terms to memory.

One to one: 121

I love you: 143

I hate you: 182

Too cool for you: 2c4u

Too hot to handle: 2H2H

Too much to handle: 2M2H

Mom: 303

Marijuana: 420

Forgive me: 4GM

Parent in room: CD9

Parent has left: 99

Anyplace, anywhere, anytime: A3

Address: addy

At home: AH

Available on cell: AOC

Age, sex, location: ASL

Age, Sex, Location, Picture: ASLP

At what time: AWT

Are you stupid or something: AYSOS

Drug of choice: DOC

Anonymous said...

Internet Word of the Day
jack in
To get online or to plug in.

• Blow It Out Your Ass
• Blow It Out Your Ear
• Blow It Out Your I/O Port
• Blow it Out Your Nose
• Basically In The Clear Homey
• Back In The Day
• • CUNS
• See You In School
• See You Next Time
• See You OnLine
• • DEGT
• Don't Even Go There
• dem
• them
• Don't Even Notice I Am Lying
• • DOA
• Dead On Arrival
• Drug Of Choice
• Depends On Experience

• Department Of Redundancy Department
• http://www.netlingo.com/acronyms.php

transl8it! (trans-late-it) is a simple! Just type in SMS, text message, emoticon, smiley, slang or chat room lingo or abbreviations and let transL8it! convert it to plain english to understand -- OR -- type in your phrase in english and convert it to SMS TEXT lingo slang! 

bs    - I don’t believe you
btw    - by the way
cb    - ciao baby
cm    - call me
cu    - see you
cul8r    - see you later
dk    - don’t know
eod    - end of discussion
f2f    - face to face
ruok    - are you ok?
sol    - sooner or later
spk    - speak
t+    - think positive
t2ul    - talk to you later
• hey ~:o U L%k sexC, wnt 2 ride n my harley? (crystalshine)
• ~*~*~LuV iZ lIkE qWiKsAnD…Da DeEpEr U fAlL iN, dA hArDa It Is 2 FaLl OuT~*~*~ (__SkAnK__cOoKiE__)
• if i waz i tear in ur I id roll down ur face+stop @ ur lips,if u waz a tear in my I i’d neva :*( coz i’d b afraid of losin u! (mc*gemini*) 


Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...
Everything's easy in hindsight. The trial is over. Try analyzing TM's tweets

You can analyze them yourself with the online tool in the above post. I wonder why they were allowed as evidence? Was Trayvon on trial?

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...

^^^^^^^^STFU TURD!

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...


Mainah said...

OT: Justin DiPietron can't tell time...http://www.onlinesentinel.com/news/Justin-DiPietro-skips-court-date-warrant-out-for-his-arrest.html

quote: “I don’t think that’s true,” he said, referring to his late arrival time.

Anonymous said...

RT @GrandadJFreeman: You know you high AF when you stop at a stop sign and wait for it to turn green

Drunk people run stop signs, high people wait for them to turn green.!facebook page
June 6, 2012


"Make It Rain"
You wanna see some ass
I wanna see sum cash
Keep dem dollars comin
And das gonna make me dance
And das gonna make me dance
And das gonna make me dance

RT @___xMaxDee: I got game for you young hoes, don’t grow to be a dumm hoe

"Da Baddest Bitch"
(feat. Trick Daddy)
I got game for young hoes
Don't grow to be a dumb hoe, that's a no-no

Anonymous said...

Trayvon plagiarized his tweets: they are lyrics from raps singers, and funny stuff from facebook.

perplexed said...

Oh, so,

that's what the current president and his separated-at-birth henchmen are playing to...this group who can only use rap speak which totally bastardizes languages and mores under the cloak of "cool", and now alphabet soup acronyms punched into tiny screens passing for social interaction?

Can this group of people not realize that all of these communications should be a "second" language, not the first which should set the foundation?

These are not shortcuts to growing up, they are more like lost divergent paths, i.e. dead ends.

This is not entertainment folks, this has become your real life. You are missing so much.

Anonymous said...

Trayvon's tweet: fuck a bitch any bitch who you want" take yo pick, but you gone have to take yo time(word for word from this rap song...poor kid he was trying to sound cool.

"Luxury Sport"
[feat. Sir Michael Rocks]
[Verse 1: Curren$y]
Enough niggas talk shit, Jet niggas talk rich
Buy another crib, park another drop-top in front of that bitch
Fuck a bitch, any bitch, who you want? Take your pick
But you gonn' have to take your time, baby trying to take ya shit
Fool, take advice from your nigga
An OG been-through-it veteran in a 'vette
Chevy man racing slicks, Andretti got your girlfriend track side taking flicks

anti chimp!!! said...

Ok a chimp went to hell.get over It!

we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...

Live as ONE respect chimp.

Hobnob said...

slang speak aka, sms text better known in the chatworld as vbonics

It is fascinating to see how words and phrases and cut down to the mere basics and words are spelled in an almost child like manner.

Words i see on a daily basis are things like dis, dat, dem, teef or teefs, feets, feetball, ASL (this is so last century and where i work it is also said to be so old excite) bbl, brb, lol, lmao, wtf, wth, smh, idk rme and so on.

Sadly though in school we have kids writing text speak in their essays which if you don't know the lingo makes them nigh impossible to read and understand.

We have brightsparks here saying we shouldn't be correcting spelling, we shouldn't penalise when they miss letters like U (american spelling).

Sounds like a plan except correct spelling is vitally important in many jobs.

Take the medical professions and pharmacists.

If they didn't worry about correct spelling death rates would sky rocket.

Many medicines are similar in names, the only difference being an A, an I, an E. The all important letter that spells the difference between the right medication for an illness and the wrong one.

Vbonics and text speak is fine in the right situation, it came about because of limits on characters on the early phones and computers,It was never meant to replace the traditional spoken and written language especially as certain combinations can have different meanings depending on your country.

New vbonics are created almost daily, some i have a good idea as to what they mean and others i have to google. Will there come a time in the future where the older genration will be unable to communicate with the younger generation and vice versa?

Language changes over time take modern english and saxon english, unless you have the education we would have no idea what the other person was saying, new words come in , older words die a death especially as technology progresses. Language mutates and adapts as immigration takes place, if the word sounds nice, has a ring to it states something better than the usual word it becomes the norm, we see it here wheres many indian words are adopted by the whites and bastardized , we see it in pidgin, franglais, spanglish, hinglish and so on.
Tv programmes bring new words and phrase to the public consciousness such as chuddies (underpants) or ending a sentence with innit. English is a mongrel language and as almost everyone one knows, the first words pretty much anyone learns in a new language are the cuss words :)

Listening just to the slang words spoken by someone even if you can't see them willgive yoiu a good idea of their age andeven nationality, each generation having their own 'teen speak'
right on and radical are very 60's and we all think hippies.

At the moment i have one niece even though she is now a mom still ending a sentence with oh. The inflection of how it is spoken can have many meanings, my younger niece a ends every sentence with yeah. (both of which are annoying as heck)

Anonymous said...


we bring freshness we are anti chimp said...


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Anonymous said...

Send "A Wake" Ringtone to your Cell
"A Wake"
(feat. Evan Roman)

I need love
You need love
Give me love
And I'll give you my love

[Verse 1]
They say thirty is the new twenty
And twenty is the new thirty shit I guess
Makes sense, cause fifteen year olds seem twenty
And twenty five year olds seem ten
I used to drink away my paycheck
Celebrate the mistakes I hadn't made yet
Our generation isn't the best on safe sex
We forget the latex, becoming Planned Parenthood patients
Synthetic heroin is the new basshead
So much to escape, fuck a straight edge
Walk around looking through a fake lens
Apps this good, whose got time to make friends?
I wish I didn't care
Acynical hispters with long hair
Cocaine problems, like my music
It's not my issue, I can't solve it

My flight has finally landed down
And the ground has stopped moving all around
Eyes open, awake for the very first time
We both forfeit this game of crime

[Verse 2]
They say it's so refreshing to hear somebody on records
No guns, no drugs, no sex, just truth
The guns that's America, the drugs are what they gave to us
And sex sells itself, don't judge her 'til it's you
Ah, I'm not more or less cautious
The rappers rappin' 'bout them strippers up on the pole, copping
These interviews are obnoxious
Saying that it's poetry is so well spoken, stop it
I grew up during Reaganomics
When Ice T was out there on his killing cops shit
Or Rodney King was getting beat on
And they let off every single officer
And Los Angeles went and lost it
Now every month there is a new Rodney on Youtube
It's just something our generation is used to
And neighbourhoods where you never see a news crew
Unless they're gentrifying, white people don't even cruise through
And my subconcious telling me stop it
This is an issue that you shouldn't get involved in
Don't even tweet, R.I.P Trayvon Martin
Don't wanna be that white dude, million man marchin'
Fighting for our freedom that my people stole
Don't wanna make all my white fans uncomfortable
But you don't even have a fuckin' song for radio
Why you out here talkin race, tryin' to save the fuckin' globe
Don't get involved with the causes in mind
White privilege, white guilt, at the same damn time
So we just party like it's nineteen ninty nine
Celebrate the ignorance while these kids keep dying

[Hook + Interlude]

Anonymous said...

The music videos of the rappers whose lyrics Trayvon retweeted(plagiarized), ARE FUNNY!! They're similar to Saturday night live skits!
(These are not shortcuts to growing up, they are more like lost divergent paths, i.e. dead ends.

(This is not entertainment folks, this has become your real life. You are missing so much.)

Anon July 26, 2013 at 8:04 AM Talking to yourself? You are missing so much.. .stop judging!