tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post3880970374122979954..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Statement Analysis: Catherine Marie Public Post Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger97125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-67084434257661803002018-07-10T16:30:26.349-04:002018-07-10T16:30:26.349-04:00Is it possible the word “splinter”, used in the sa...Is it possible the word “splinter”, used in the same sentence as confused, is a reference to a fragmented memory?ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-23548634285956209682018-07-10T10:09:04.876-04:002018-07-10T10:09:04.876-04:00The oddity of the word “splinter” first caught my ...The oddity of the word “splinter” first caught my attention. I assumed she must have left out a clarification word or a typo leaving out the -ed. I passed on it and read the post a few times before I revisited the word. I remain confused. Is she using splinter in reference to the clothing or her body? She first lists conditions of her mind and body making it personal. She then shifts to a material item of clothing using the word “with” creating distance, using the word “and” to accompany “splinter” <br /><br />“I woke up in Delta Kappa Epsilon Fraternity in Alex Goldman’s bed confused, bloody, bruised, with ripped clothing and splinter.”<br /><br />Definition of “splinter” used as noun<br />: a small fragment of something broken off from the whole<br /><br />Examples of things “splinter” often describes used as an adjective:<br />group, parties, proof, wound, bar, technique, hemorrhage, wound, protection, factions, damage, etc.<br /><br />I’m still confused.ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-25775266872025214722018-07-10T09:12:27.982-04:002018-07-10T09:12:27.982-04:00She strategically schemes and manipulates the read...She strategically schemes and manipulates the readers. This post wasn’t an impulse decision. She’s coped with a battling mind while processing the events. Not the alleged rape but the events of reporting the crime she believed to be true. The events of interviews, assessments, questions and medical tests only to be told the rape didn’t occur. She’s angry and confused. Her intelligence refuses to accept the medical clinical findings as false. Her ego refuses to accept her cognitive thought processes as faulty logic.<br /><br />Priority in writing the post: Solidarity in Sisterhood. This reinforcement is crucial to obtain to reach her ultimate goal: Dignity Restoration. She’s not able to accomplish this alone. She is relying upon society to vindicate her thoughts and actions. She seeks validation to regain her self-respect and sanity.<br /><br />“Since the days after the assault I have been faced with choices. <br />The choice to resist accepting this as my new reality. <br />Or...to fight my own internal denial”ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-70665143971020380432018-07-10T08:18:28.508-04:002018-07-10T08:18:28.508-04:00" I am sure the woman would be delighted when..." I am sure the woman would be delighted when her child was kidnapped and someone tried to take them to other country and nobody noticed anything because nothing was asked."<br /><br />this had to be wouldn't be or would be when someone did ask.......Habundianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-8096618697975883402018-07-10T08:14:03.609-04:002018-07-10T08:14:03.609-04:00"habundia, I now see your question about the ..."habundia, I now see your question about the splinter. I read “splinter” as reference to the physical condition of her anus. In medical symptomology of rape and medical conditions such as hemorrhoids - the anus would look and feel like ridges swelling up around the perimeter, similar to a splinter sticking up above the wood."'<br /><br />Wouldnt it be called......'felt like splinter'?<br />Ive been looking up this term in medical symptomology......the only thing i find is the meaning i already know and that is that of a splinter (from wood, glass, metal or something like that)<br />So still i find it an odd term to use in this context of writing.<br />Have read many cases of rape and abuse........never heard or read someone say....'and splinter' (to describe the feeling their anus had after the rape or abuse. She's the first I see using this term and I find it an odd thing to say.<br /><br /><br />SA always starts out with BELIEVING the words of the person who says (write) them.......it's only when their words make you go out of that assumption that deception comes in..........so if she cant tell us she's being raped........we can't say it for her.......having the feeling of being raped isnt the same as being raped!<br /><br />@ the traveling post<br />I am a single mom of two.......i have full custody of both of my kids......yet one of them does have the last name of her father......guess i would have taken to the back too for questioning if i had travelled with them.....<br />I do think its good when these things are checked.......you wouldnt want to think that some stranger could easily travel with your child to unknown destination. I am sure the woman would be delighted when her child was kidnapped and someone tried to take them to other country and nobody noticed anything because nothing was asked.<br />Sure it is time consuming and maybe annoying when you now it is your kid you are traveling with. But if it was the other way around you would be over the moon when your child was found because it was checked if the child belonged to the person they traveled with.<br /><br /><br />About the original post:<br />Ive seen more cases of woman who wanted a certain man and when that man wasnt interested in them they started a 'hate'campaign.......accusing them of rape or other abuse is one of the things the do. To me she sounds like such a woman......who uses the real vitcims for getting sympathy, while in the meanwhile she's the one making a victim (Alex) instead of being a victim herself.<br />Habundianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-63223970980655121802018-07-09T23:40:59.559-04:002018-07-09T23:40:59.559-04:00She never mentions the rape exam.
If the campus d...She never mentions the rape exam.<br /><br />If the campus didn't believe her, a doctor could examine her. She isn't stuck to reporting to campus police only.<br /><br />I think every woman should be believed. I can't imagine being passed out and waking up disheveled looking and FEELING like I'd just been raped.<br /><br />Regardless of if she had or had not been raped, just thinking you might have been would be traumatizing, though not as traumatizing as actually being raped.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-67984415051216859832018-07-09T22:57:54.728-04:002018-07-09T22:57:54.728-04:007/9/18. 5:28 pm
U. S. Customs and Border Protectio...7/9/18. 5:28 pm<br />U. S. Customs and Border Protection has reviewed the audio and video of the encounter between a CBP officer and a woman travelling with her daughter, and found that the video does not support the claim as it has been reported. The audio and video prove that there weren’t any inappropriate questions discussed.<br /><br />7/9/18 6:09 pm <br />“U. S. Customs and Border Protection has reviewed the audio and video of the encounter between a CBP officer and a woman travelling with her daughter, and found that the video does not support this claim.<br /><br />Edits: “the” claim...is altered to “this” claim...<br />Deleted: “as it has been the claim as it has been reported. The audio and video prove that there weren’t any inappropriate questions discussed.”<br /><br />So, 41 minutes to re-review the audio and video that didn’t “prove that there weren’t any inappropriate questions discussed” and reissue response.ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-81420343222078529782018-07-09T21:41:28.070-04:002018-07-09T21:41:28.070-04:00cont'd...
Second official revised statement—
...cont'd...<br /><br />Second official revised statement—<br /><br />7/9/18 6:09 pm <br />“U. S. Customs and Border Protection has reviewed the audio and video of the encounter between a CBP officer and a woman travelling with her daughter, and found that the video does not support this claim.<br /><br />On December 23, 2008, President Bush signed the William Wilberforce Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Act of 2008 to combat human trafficking. In instances where the relationship of a minor and accompanying adult can’t be immediately determined, CBP may ask additional questions to determine relationship. This additional questioning could take place in an area away from the general public.<br /><br />CBP strongly recommends that unless a child is accompanied by both parents, the adult traveling with the child have a note from the child's other parent (or, in the case of a child traveling with grandparents, uncles or aunts, sisters or brothers, friends, or in groups*, a note signed by both parents).<br /><br />CBP strives to ensure that travelers are processed fairly and efficiently, as we endeavor to make certain that all individuals attempting entry into the United States do so in a legal and secure manner.”<br /><br />2/2Ali Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16105050089249516837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-48812112487703797732018-07-09T21:41:04.533-04:002018-07-09T21:41:04.533-04:00OT: The following is copied from a post on FB, sha...OT: The following is copied from a post on FB, shared by a friend and written by another person (not my friend or someone I am acquainted with.) It sounds "off" to me - some storytelling, etc... :<br /><br />I just experienced a Handmaidens Tale moment at the DFW airport by Customs and Border Protection. I was traveling back from Rome and stopped by US customs. I was asked if Sybonae was my daughter and I said yes. Then they asked why if she was my daughter I didn’t have the same last name. I told them I had already established my career and earned my doctorate with my last name Acosta so I had decided not to change it. That is why we had different names. Then the customs office said, well maybe you should have taken your husbands last names so you could prove you were her mom. I told him I had a lot of proof she was my daughter without having had his last name. He then took me to another room where they proceeded to interrogate me and my daughter to prove I was her parent. I had to reexplain why we didn’t share last names and again one said well maybe you should consider changing your name to reflect that you are her mother. I then proceeded to tell them that they were perpetuating an institutionalized misogynistic system which required that a woman take her husbands name and after that and a whole lot more about what I thought about what they had said to me that they let us go. I am furious.<br /><br />In order to maintain full transparency, i am including CBPs response ( first and second edited) to my claims. You are free to draw your own conclusions.<br /><br />First official CBP Statement attributable to a CBP spokesperson. The Second edited follows and is below the first one. <br />7/9/18. 5:28 pm<br />“U. S. Customs and Border Protection has reviewed the audio and video of the encounter between a CBP officer and a woman travelling with her daughter, and found that the video does not support the claim as it has been reported. The audio and video prove that there weren’t any inappropriate questions discussed.<br /><br />On December 23, 2008, President Bush signed the William Wilberforce Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Act of 2008 to combat human trafficking. In instances where the relationship of a minor and accompanying adult can’t be immediately determined, CBP may ask additional questions to determine relationship. This additional questioning could take place in an area away from the general public.<br /><br />CBP strongly recommends that unless a child is accompanied by both parents, the adult traveling with the child have a note from the child's other parent (or, in the case of a child traveling with grandparents, uncles or aunts, sisters or brothers, friends, or in groups*, a note signed by both parents).<br /><br />CBP strives to ensure that travelers are processed fairly and efficiently, as we endeavor to make certain that all individuals attempting entry into the United States do so in a legal and secure manner.”<br /><br />1/2Ali Kathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16105050089249516837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-38221610005697095482018-07-09T20:44:29.921-04:002018-07-09T20:44:29.921-04:00habundia, I now see your question about the splint...habundia, I now see your question about the splinter. I read “splinter” as reference to the physical condition of her anus. In medical symptomology of rape and medical conditions such as hemorrhoids - the anus would look and feel like ridges swelling up around the perimeter, similar to a splinter sticking up above the wood.ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-27213998468749986742018-07-09T16:07:52.991-04:002018-07-09T16:07:52.991-04:00Very good. It’s comparative. Whatever she feels to...Very good. It’s comparative. Whatever she feels towards him is subordinate to obtaining attention <br /><br />In a strange way, she may actually “like” him because he facilitated her attention seeking scheme. Without him, she’d be of no consequence. Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-69411260237430069782018-07-09T13:52:39.927-04:002018-07-09T13:52:39.927-04:00I describe the article as a discussion involving t...I describe the article as a discussion involving the superiority of capitalism and collectivism. Intellectual support for economic liberty and free enterprise is supplied for practical reasons only: it creates wealth and influence to change laws to guide intended trajectory of leftists.ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-20531492142037375312018-07-09T12:48:27.032-04:002018-07-09T12:48:27.032-04:00By assuming
...my injuries were a product of havin...By assuming<br />...my injuries were a product of having a vagina and not a product of rape. <br /><br />But injuries to my anus ... must mean that I did not want what was done to me. <br /><br />Bleeding from the rectum is often a sign of alcohol and binge drinking. Did she convince herself she had been raped to explain away this unsettling discovery of blood? Was she the one following rash assumptions? Did she conclude Alex Goldman must have raped her because she had no memory of the night? Did she attempt to allow other explanations of the blood to enter her mind?ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-30602210573229183012018-07-09T08:44:28.703-04:002018-07-09T08:44:28.703-04:00Peter - I was puzzled by the two uses of "Ale...Peter - I was puzzled by the two uses of "Alex", as that seemed so incongruous to the rest of what she says.<br /><br />So, for all that, she doesn't even hate him? That's scary, and God help anyone she does hate. Hey Judehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118508358051764200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-48555323437226174642018-07-09T08:29:11.605-04:002018-07-09T08:29:11.605-04:00More thoughts:
She “wants to open this post with ...More thoughts:<br /><br />She “wants to open this post with a recognition”. <br />This is similar to when someone says, “I want to apologise”, but doesn’t really do so, rather creates the impression of having done so.<br /><br />She puts herself in the position of one bestowing recognition upon “all survivors of assault and rape who have felt the need to stay quiet.” She tells them why they have stayed quiet - “for the feeling that no one would believe them”. In her understanding, all their reasons are for “feeling”, rather than for that which is specific, such as out of fear, shame, or denial. <br /><br />What she doesn’t say there is interesting. Missing from the feelings she believes others might have, is staying quiet for “the feeling” they could not be certain what happened. In view of her not giving any rape account, it would seem quite an omission from the list - except that as she did not stay quiet, it maybe did not “feel” to her like a reason anyone would or maybe should stay quiet. <br /><br />She sets out some reasons why people stay quiet, but does not include that one -so, I wonder why she gives no ‘recognition’ of that reason, which is as valid as any. Is it a “don’t look here, look there” type of ploy? She does not give ‘recognition’ for all those who stay quiet because they “feel” it is unconscionable to possibly make a false allegation. <br /><br />The rest of the post is about gaining recognition for herself as a victim of rape, without presenting any account, or even any detail of what she remembers of the evening and events which led up to the alleged rape, or the following morning. Where is Alex in her non-account? <br /><br />Is the word “recognition” problematic? I read it as her seeing herself bestowing recognition upon silent rape victims, as though it is an honour, bestowed by one who has spoken. She enlists and addresses those who have stayed quiet, unlike herself, who is fighting “like hell” to destroy a young ma against whom there is no evidence, and against whom she presents none.Hey Judehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118508358051764200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-29959612900010674662018-07-09T08:07:38.115-04:002018-07-09T08:07:38.115-04:00Direct link :
https://amgreatness.com/2018/07/06/...Direct link :<br /><br />https://amgreatness.com/2018/07/06/historys-bad-ideas-are-an-inspiration-for-progressives/<br /><br /><br />Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-88672724553714696362018-07-09T08:06:33.024-04:002018-07-09T08:06:33.024-04:00Did readers see this startling example of history ...Did readers see this startling example of history repeating itself?<br /><br />Whites segregated from blacks to be “safe” and the segregation is now for “safe spaces” where the danger is “cultural appropriation” (by those who appropriated indoor toilets). <br /><br />Very insightful into human nature for those interested: <br /><br />http://victorhanson.com<br /><br />Is the article on history & progrssives bad ideas. <br />Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-45800928172157350052018-07-09T08:04:01.066-04:002018-07-09T08:04:01.066-04:00iPhone auto correct.
“She is embracing that whic...iPhone auto correct. <br /><br />“She is embracing that which she has not linguistically committed to.”<br /><br />There is not linguistic evidence of disassociation, nor PTSD like symptoms. <br /><br />She knows what she is doing and is committed to her priority. <br /><br />She does not hate “Alex” (first name) as much as she craves the spotlight. <br /><br />She is a “My truth” personality type well taught that what she “feels” is paramount to reality. <br /><br />Very sad but most untrustworthy. Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-904419756673091872018-07-09T07:54:29.408-04:002018-07-09T07:54:29.408-04:00My response was not personal to you, but in genera...My response was not personal to you, but in general. <br /><br />“My rape” must be understood in time. She is embracing that shock she has not, linguistically committed to. <br /><br />This is Statement Analysis “incongruence.”<br /><br />A rape victim, after years of processing, might take personal ownership of it with “my rape, my rapist, my nightmare” and so on. <br /><br />Due to the intense personal invasive and distinctly sexual nature of rape, it takes much time to get beyond denial; the brain’s natural self preserving reaction. <br /><br />Here she wants her audience to know her priority and seeks recognition, yet cannot commit to being raped. Simply put, she put herself in a bad position and had a bad male actor. It’s bad, immoral, embarrassing, crude etc: but police were right. <br /><br />She does not believe her own words. <br /><br />She wants to be recognized as a rape victim. She wants attention as her priority. She gives the feminist “rape is not about sex” falsehood along with “triggering” as forms of ingratiation to her audience. This is what matters most. <br /><br />She is willing to destroy someone for it. This puts her in a particular category of deceiver. <br /><br />It’s very complicated (human nature is!) but commentators here are doing a reasonably good job letting her words guide them. <br /><br /><br /><br />Peter Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-70747468003416769962018-07-09T07:24:35.322-04:002018-07-09T07:24:35.322-04:00Peter,
Thank you for your response.
I was surpri...Peter,<br /><br />Thank you for your response.<br /><br />I was surprised at the number of posts considering the phrasing 'my rape' to be indicative of deception, so I attempted to contribute to the discussion by pointing out that it isn't necessarily so.<br /><br />I didn't consider that to be generalising. Are you referring to this, or my statement that "Rape is personal"?<br /><br />Thank you in advance for the clarification.<br /><br /><br /><br />Schmagoogityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08456070437870650821noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-78251499984034173732018-07-08T22:23:10.035-04:002018-07-08T22:23:10.035-04:00She calls him "Alex" twice - wouldn'...She calls him "Alex" twice - wouldn't the more distancing "Goldman" be more expected if she is going to shorten his name? Hey Judehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05118508358051764200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-65921695120512165012018-07-08T20:57:16.487-04:002018-07-08T20:57:16.487-04:00Given her opening paragraph, she shows a priority ...Given her opening paragraph, she shows a priority of gaining recognition and admiration for speaking out about being a rape victim. Because I don't believe she reliably reports being raped, I would argue she is attempting "to steal" recognition and admiration she has not earned. LuciaDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03658572205280231522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-76770465783165472002018-07-08T20:29:17.994-04:002018-07-08T20:29:17.994-04:00"I woke up in Delta Kappa Epsilon Fraternity ..."I woke up in Delta Kappa Epsilon Fraternity in Alex Goldman’s bed confused, bloody, bruised, with ripped clothing and splinter. I went to the police only to be asked if I had ever engaged in rough sex prior to my rape, and my friend to be asked if I slept around."<br /><br />Ima.grandma....I wondered too what is meant with 'and splinter'.<br />"And splinter" (would that be considered passive voice?)<br /><br />"confused, bloody, bruised, with ripped clothing"<br /><br />She doesn't say her clothing are bloody, they are ripped.<br />She woke up bloody and bruised...not that her clothes were bloody.<br />yet later on she accuses someone of not making 'accurate' description of the state of her clothing...."they were'...when it was said they weren't. <br /><br />She went to police.<br />she doesn't say she called a friend, picked up a friend or went with a friend to police...'I went"...yet at the police office her friend is asked questions.<br />where did this friend come from? No introduction at all...just a friend (yet a friend who goes with her to police)<br /><br />Someone responded with 'my rape' being 'okay' to say because it is personal. Yes being raped is personal...but a victim owning up their own rape...seems as a victim of sexual abuse an very odd thing to say.<br />I would never say "my sexual abuse"....first of all I never wanted it to happen and so it will never be 'mine'....it will always be his abuse to me...or I am being abused....but never 'my abuse'....by calling it "my rape' gives it kind of 'proudness' to it. One doesn't own up to things they aren't proud of when done by others.<br /><br />She does uses 'my' quite a lot throughout her post.....'my countries justice system'..'.my University case'....'my university' (as if she's the only one attending that university and owns it)<br /><br />"Why do the biological functions of my body speak more than my own voice does?"<br /><br />Why did the psychological examination 'spoke' a different 'voice' then her own voice?<br /><br />"and to fight a system that was so clearly broken."<br />A system that didn't 'work for her'....that was broken....it isn't anymore? <br />Was it broken because her claim wasn't taken for granted what she would have expected......she's a woman who claims to be raped.....yet to me she has says nothing about what happened before or after waking up...except going to police and claiming to be raped and sodomized.<br /><br />Her priority is being a voice for victims of rape, not being a victim of rape herself.<br />She accused her father of sexual abuse, yet nothing suggest this happened. It would be interesting to know how her relationship with her father has been and is....it could bring light as to why she accused this colleague student of her.<br /><br />Just as she claims nobody one day decides to go rape and sodomize....the same counts for one deciding to make false accusations.....there is always a reason...and doesn't appear from a vacuum.<br />habundianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-24616459256434417242018-07-08T19:30:49.507-04:002018-07-08T19:30:49.507-04:00That's why we have phones with cameras these d...That's why we have phones with cameras these days......lol<br />If you tape the question being asked and the answer being given while being in a toxicated but conscious position.....you at least have some proof of consent haha......<br />That said I think "no memory of consent", is a bad excuse unless there is scientific proof amnesia was present. Or some drug was found that causes unconsciousness. ....in any other case I call it bull shit. .....I've had my time where I had drank that much I needed to crawl on my knees back home......the next day I exactly knew what I had done and what had happened......I was intoxicated. .....but not brainless! (Allthough that could be doubt full....when chosing to drink that amount could be considered brainless haha)<br /><br />But I guess the dean has experience and its sad he has to say it....but rather safe then sorry.<br />habundianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-14384034949046778822018-07-08T19:15:10.456-04:002018-07-08T19:15:10.456-04:00You can consent when not sober, but you run the ri...You can consent when not sober, but you run the risk of being falsely accused of rape if your partner doesn't remember consenting after they sober up. That was a repeated point made by the dean of students at my son's college orientation.Bobcatnoreply@blogger.com