tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post5760321317509213185..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Nichole Cable and Social Media and Society Commentary Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-25488411648458927572013-05-18T22:35:26.021-04:002013-05-18T22:35:26.021-04:00Pak31, that's right!
I have a 20 year old who...Pak31, that's right!<br /><br />I have a 20 year old who doesn't live at him but I question her all the time and still remind her of safety tips. I will never stop parenting my children :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-78254543305517622732013-05-18T22:08:24.535-04:002013-05-18T22:08:24.535-04:00All I can say as a person and a parent to a 16 yea...All I can say as a person and a parent to a 16 year old girl is, know what your child is doing at all times, don't be afraid to question anything and everything. Keep the communication with your child open. Talk about a lot of things. You are the parent, you have the right to know what your child is doing. I think a lot of parents are more concerned with keeping their teen happy than to be the authority figure. Not saying this is the case with this family at all. Just saying that in today's times, vigilant parenting is necessary. Pak31noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-78824780381416128692013-05-18T15:09:41.051-04:002013-05-18T15:09:41.051-04:00I consider "work" to be in the form of b...I consider "work" to be in the form of being productive. Work doesn't necessarily mean earning a paycheck, although, yes, it is what will pay the bills. However, being productive and working in the home is still "work". No one else is going to clean your home, wash your clothes, or cook your meals and let's not forget the daunting trip to the grocery store every week or more as well as taking care of the children's needs/bathing/homework/meals/Dr. visits/sports etc. This is still work. If it were a one parent household earing a paycheck they would have to pay someone to do these things as their probably wouldn't be time to do it all and certainly would need someone to care of the children.<br /><br />Volunteering in youth sports or school is also working. <br /><br />Sitting on the couch all day watching soaps doing nothing productive is not working.<br /><br />To each their own. <br /><br />I will never understand why if you are a stay at home mom you are considered "not working". I don't agree at all. It should be considered not earning a salary. I say it's working without pay.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-2469091822293381202013-05-18T09:55:04.137-04:002013-05-18T09:55:04.137-04:00Anonymous said...
I'm not Peter but if you are...Anonymous said...<br />I'm not Peter but if you are happy staying home, stay home. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or what they choose to do.<br />Personally, I encourage women to educate themselves so if something happens to the spouse who pays the bills, they are able to support themselves and their children. Divorce rates are high now days in addition, illness and accidents happen resulting in death or disability.<br />You can lose a spouse, child, house, job, etc, but the one thing you never lose is your education.<br />Dawn<br />May 17, 2013 at 11:51 PM <br /><br /><br />I am Peter, and find this post to be intelligent and wish it had been ascribed to me. <br /><br />PeterStatement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-53557815023749733132013-05-18T02:34:57.801-04:002013-05-18T02:34:57.801-04:00OT
Hobnob, he may have told her a line like, "...OT<br />Hobnob, he may have told her a line like, "Bryan told me to pick you up, he's waiting for us at---" or something like that. <br /><br />I hope she is ok. I have a bad feeling, though. I just hope they can track this guy down.Lisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4531390058308072142013-05-17T23:51:04.207-04:002013-05-17T23:51:04.207-04:00I'm not Peter but if you are happy staying hom...I'm not Peter but if you are happy staying home, stay home. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or what they choose to do.<br />Personally, I encourage women to educate themselves so if something happens to the spouse who pays the bills, they are able to support themselves and their children. Divorce rates are high now days in addition, illness and accidents happen resulting in death or disability.<br />You can lose a spouse, child, house, job, etc, but the one thing you never lose is your education.<br />DawnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-6134761086435789852013-05-17T23:10:51.386-04:002013-05-17T23:10:51.386-04:00Peter, I enjoyed reading your post.
I am a stay ...Peter, I enjoyed reading your post. <br /><br />I am a stay home Mom, children ages 8 and 10. My husband has a professional job that brings in enough for us to be comfortable. <br />I use my time wisely to clean, cook, shop, laundry and other duties as well as be there for our children after school. <br /><br />Is it wrong for a mother not to work if her children are of school age? Few mothers I know stay home even when they can afford to. I feel my place is better utilized at home. <br /><br />Just curious...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-51228259648556146102013-05-17T22:39:45.753-04:002013-05-17T22:39:45.753-04:00I laughed about how you raised your son, I did the...I laughed about how you raised your son, I did the same thing, and thought I was the only one who did that.<br />I had always told both of my kids that if they want to do something, go somewhere or even if I had already said no, that if they came to me with a valid argument and with respect, I would listen and give serious consideration to what they wanted to do.<br />Both of my kids have come to me with valid arguments and reasons why they should be allowed to do something or why I should change my mind, and I have allowed them to go to the movies, or whatever it was and have even changed my mind on things.<br />My kids always had to talk in a respectful, civil tone during those conversations, the first time they didn't they immediately lost the argument and the privilege to do what they wanted.<br />It has always been nice to hear from people how polite, well behaved, and respectful my kids are. They are now adults and I am so proud of them, they are wonderful adults.<br />If the child doesn't have manners, respect etc. I don't think it's the child's fault, I think it's the parents fault for not instilling those values. It's harder to be a good parent then a bad parent.Seanacybluenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-26772099119324371942013-05-17T20:36:51.050-04:002013-05-17T20:36:51.050-04:00Art Linkletter - Archive Interview Part 1 of 6 In ...Art Linkletter - Archive Interview Part 1 of 6 In his 6-part (each 30-minute segment is posted separately) oral history interview, Art Linkletter discusses his years in radio and his start, in 1950, in his first television series, "Life with Linkletter". Linkletter recounts his most memorable stories from the television series he is most associated with, "Art Linkletter's House Party" and "People Are Funny". For these series,<br />he discusses the shows' universal appeals and his humorous interviews with thousands of kids.<br /><br />http://youtu.be/fZVw9rrXqw4<br /><br />I am listening, near the end of part 1 - He, Art Linkletter a fascinating man, he adopted at 4 wks old, born 1912. He to say his adoptive parents, they were not educated, his father was crippled in his late 50's, this when he was adopted. His father was a Shoemaker, tradesman, he worked even so he was crippled, he a pastor on Sundays. As he says, the minute I was able, I worked, as it was to stay alive, to aid to feed our family. His adoptive parents, he said had no money, they lived in poverty. <br /><br />They gave him that was most important, love and encouragement, work ethics to be core, he to read, read, read, he allowed to use his imagination freely. It funded him well. He is a man of many lives - no internet, no cable, all on his own. He to make it to Radio, then on to TV. <br /><br />His story is worth listening to.Vitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10394778721572395732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-46816878396233089202013-05-17T18:34:29.663-04:002013-05-17T18:34:29.663-04:00Thank you for this refreshing article, Peter.Thank you for this refreshing article, Peter.Applehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00968798156509107306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-65613584498348976522013-05-17T18:14:29.833-04:002013-05-17T18:14:29.833-04:00Peter, I am a Democrat and a feminist, and I agree...Peter, I am a Democrat and a feminist, and I agree with very nearly every word you typed in this article. Thank you for publishing your very blunt and specific values, and thank you for raising your son the way you have. There is hope for our young people yet.rkghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11298881789691880561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-73703482286366542362013-05-17T16:09:59.770-04:002013-05-17T16:09:59.770-04:00As some may know i work for a chatroom (voluntary)...As some may know i work for a chatroom (voluntary)<br /><br />The first rule of chat is take eveything with a large pinch of salt.<br />second is don't give out personal info.<br /><br />The internet is an amazing place, chatrooms are the modern equivalent of electronic penpals and coffee mornings.<br /><br />We can meet new people almost every day, we can and do make lifelong friends, friends who we can talk to about our most personal problems, problems perhaps we would not or could not talk about with family.<br />the same friends who if they don't hear from you for a day or so will call to see if you are ok or if a few days have passed seek out family members to see if all is well and even contact LE for a welfare check (it is what we did when one of our staff didn't reply even though they were signing in, we got in touch with the local sheriff who paid a visit to her secluded house, sadly she had passed on. it was the unexpected behavior that got our attention)<br /><br />Sadly the net, like real life attracts the schemers, the scammers, the lowlifes, those who pretend to be who or what they aren't.<br /><br />I see this daily, member who have both male and female names, who flirt and romance, who are players with multiple relationships, some even in real.<br /><br />I have to respect their privacy, i cannot say beware this person or that person, they aren't breaking wither our TOS or the law, When the truth comes out, and it always does i am their shoulder to cry on amongst many, i advise on the computer side of things re accounts, ignore, blocking etc. many times i have advised them on contacting LE when it has spread to real life and they get harrassed or threatened.<br /><br />Sometimes, i swear, people dump all commonsense at the door.<br />When younger members would sign in to the family side, i would talk to them, check their age ( and they even lie about that) i discuss chat safety and ask if they have a parent or guardian there. Most will say no and i will kick and block them so they cannot come back, It is one less place of risk. Time and time again i advise parents on internet safety, have the pc in a public room so they can see where their child is surfing, i explain about logged chats and setting it up so they can see who their child spoke to and what about.<br />To me this is all simple commonsense yet all too often we hear of children meeting starngers and being abducted or running away with someone online.<br /><br />If you wouldn't do something in real life like give out your personal details to a stranger, don't do it online.<br /><br />In my chat we know who you are and where you live, the chat is moderated and we can and will take action as needed and that includes talking to LE, many chats are not so strict or are unmoderated, a place where anything goes ( remember those yahoo chatrooms with names like older men for younger girls etc? the hosts only moderated their own rooms not user created rooms, we moderate every single room a member is in regardless)<br /><br />The net is an amazing place, you can learn, you can teach, you can make new friends and find old ones, with common sense it can be a safe environment for all ages, it can also be a jungle where everything can be dangerous, where things aren't what they appear and strangers with bad intentions lurk.<br />Enjoy yourself when online just use common sense, firewalls, antivirus and a large pinch of salt. If they sound too good to be true, if it sounds too good to be true, ignore, block, reportas needed.<br /><br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-27483024265535679122013-05-17T15:53:27.915-04:002013-05-17T15:53:27.915-04:00How long is the driveway? Has anyone seen a pictur...How long is the driveway? Has anyone seen a picture of the driveway?Nanna Franceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09581559162123886908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-3575403779201315532013-05-17T15:43:42.575-04:002013-05-17T15:43:42.575-04:00"The initial hearings officer was an aged lef..."The initial hearings officer was an aged leftist hippie lawyer, helping "the poor" in his community."<br /><br />He sounds like a truly horrible person.<br /><br />All joking aside, most ALJs are hippie lawyers. Jesus used to help "the poor" in his community as well. It requires acts of compassion and forgiveness, which are as out-of-style as a healthy work ethic.<br /><br />When the woman agreed to pay restitution in-lieu of facing criminal charges, did she agree not to file for unemployment as well? Most people don't realize that employers' costs increase if they fire too many people who go on UEI. She was probably doing what she had to do to feed her kids since she had already screwed up once. It takes a while to find a job that pays a living wage these days.<br /><br />Poor Nichole. It does take a village to raise a child, but it also takes one to weed out the bad apples who target our children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-62831831610176402422013-05-17T15:40:39.479-04:002013-05-17T15:40:39.479-04:00it bothers me that if she was abducted by someone ...it bothers me that if she was abducted by someone she met on facebook why, when she saw the person who turned up didn't match the person she expected to meet did she not run or make a scene especially if her parents were in the house.<br /><br />No mention has been made of any screaming, any disturbance which means either she got in the vehicle willingly or she was grabbed and driven off before she could alert anyone.<br /><br />I know if i had arranged to meet someone in real life from online i would have to have known them for a real long time and i would have made sure that my family knew who i was going to meet, where and when and if someone turned up who i didn't know (they looked different to their pic is a prime example) then i would run, i would not be meeting them let alone getting in any vehicle, the meeting would be in a public place. <br /><br />Perhaps the person claimed to be collecting her on behalf of the person she was supposed to meet, again that would be a warning sign.<br /><br />Perhaps she knew the person and went willingly since she had previously run away ( this would perhaps explain some of the strange body language and behavior of the parents)<br />It wasn't all sunshine and rainbows in the household (no family is perfect)<br /><br />I wonder why is as claimed someone had their facebook account hacked and a stranger was reaching out to her and her friends why the hacked account wasn't blocked by them.<br />was there also contact via other media such as skype, nessenger, emails etc.<br /><br />What was reported to whom in regard to the account?<br /><br />Why is the word someone used by the mother rather than expected man or woman, someone is used to hide gender or identity. <br />If the mom said it was something different to what and who she said how does the mother know this?<br /><br />if the person what not what or who the daughter said did she tell her mother?<br />Did the mother know personally who was expected and saw someone else?<br />Is the mother using someone rather than an identifier on police reccommendations?<br /><br />Did the mother try to stop Nichole getting into the car?<br /><br />It is not only what was done it is also what wasn't done in this disappearance<br /><br />There seems to be a lot we aren't being told. Maybe we will learn more from the presser.Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-30054481351294859182013-05-17T15:32:00.576-04:002013-05-17T15:32:00.576-04:00Thanks S & K Mum...With the major crimes unit ...Thanks S & K Mum...With the major crimes unit there and with what they're now saying about seeing cones and tape being put up, it doesn't sound promising.Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705727925525562114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-21649371203424472682013-05-17T15:21:49.353-04:002013-05-17T15:21:49.353-04:00Mr. Hyatt, at first I took issue with the way you ...Mr. Hyatt, at first I took issue with the way you worded the part about people working in this country. <br /><br />I took issue, not because you are wrong per se, rather because you are generally so articulate and in this case it almost sounded as though you were leaving out a vast majority of those that cannot work. Either by disability or lack of work. Or another group...one which I happen to fall into. We struggle. We have two children with disabilities and our family makes too much to allow assistance, but not enough to meet the needs of our disabled children. We were faced with the decision to both work to provide certain things, but then the children with disabilities would be practically institutionalized because who would be home to care for them? Or, one of us work so our children can actually be raised by their parents. We have four children altogether. So we struggle. All because of the "system" - I don't want to get political, but I am sure you know what I am referring to. <br /><br />I am happy with the choice we made and consider it a joy to struggle because of the reason we are doing it. But it stung none-the-less reading your comments.<br /><br />Then as I finished reading, I no longer take issue with any of what you wrote, because although some may not like this, I see you are writing from a very religious point of view. <br /><br />The way society was intended is not what we have. You speak of morals and obligation as the bible lays it out for us and in my own belief system, our creator would know what is best for us, therefore the bible has the right principles to live by. I know this is not a popular belief. <br /><br /><br />I appreciate you taking the time to make the points you did. Thank-you. ~mjnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-17273854630701670372013-05-17T15:21:37.608-04:002013-05-17T15:21:37.608-04:00Thanks S +K Mum.
link:
http://www.foxbangor.com/n...Thanks S +K Mum.<br /><br />link:<br />http://www.foxbangor.com/news/local-news/1866-missing-girl-search.htmlLemonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15905461861488930140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-36480011796757934312013-05-17T14:53:17.367-04:002013-05-17T14:53:17.367-04:00Update from Fox ABC Maine:
There appears to be a ...Update from Fox ABC Maine:<br /><br />There appears to be a big development in the search for a missing 15 year old girl in Glenburn. An army of police has been searching an area there this afternoon and the State police major crimes unit has just arrived. We have a crew on the scene and will keep you updated. A press conference is also scheduled for this afternoon. Nichole Cable has now been missing since Sunday night.S + K Mumnoreply@blogger.com