tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post6501103763901281942..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Father Investigated for Neglect Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-70842065355214311332014-06-22T10:33:48.920-04:002014-06-22T10:33:48.920-04:00I understand this guy wanting to say everything he...I understand this guy wanting to say everything he can think of about himself to get people to think ANY good thoughts they could of him (hey I'm a vet, I was in combat, etc.) and I understand why he was so adamant about explaining he was listening for them, thought they'd gone to sleep, was busy doing chores.....<br />In reality it doesn't matter if you were doing chores, saving orphans, napping with the kids, or just screwing off watching soaps and having a beer...the end result is the same and it sucks.<br />The thing that bothered me was he does a lot of crying behaviors, such as the sobbing, the sobby-breathing, the whine in the voice, but through the entire thing I only saw ONE tear,....ONE....and it was only wet enough to get half way down his cheek, where he left it. Usually when people are crying they wipe their face, but this guy had such a time sqeeezing off one tear he left it there.<br />I can imagine he's hurting, and also scared to death about what's going to become of him now (and his family), and maybe being through so much combat his emotions are strange to people that haven't been thorugh such things....but it also bothers me he only calls them "his daughter" identified by "older" and "younger". No names, no "my babies", and what about the survivor?? shanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-11028048878654760732014-06-20T07:03:55.666-04:002014-06-20T07:03:55.666-04:00Laundry...other chores...splashing water on her. H...Laundry...other chores...splashing water on her. Hiding keys? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-8030842468360078372014-06-20T06:54:52.430-04:002014-06-20T06:54:52.430-04:00And before I knew it....missing timeAnd before I knew it....missing timeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-83367885215151573412014-06-20T04:09:51.204-04:002014-06-20T04:09:51.204-04:00I have wondered when someone would weigh in on &qu...I have wondered when someone would weigh in on "laundry"Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-53269950154538667542014-06-19T21:31:30.732-04:002014-06-19T21:31:30.732-04:00cleaining car. doing laundry.
cleaning accounts ...cleaining car. doing laundry. <br /><br />cleaning accounts coiciding with death, hmm. <br /><br />why would he want to murder his daughters in the truck they were about to trade in??<br /><br />Those are TWO things, death of daughters and financial loss, you'd think he'd strongly want to avoid. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-1841432146637114352014-06-19T21:17:59.092-04:002014-06-19T21:17:59.092-04:00anon 6:47 , i like your theory. sounds like a good...anon 6:47 , i like your theory. sounds like a good fit. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-20941264858528006522014-06-19T21:13:19.876-04:002014-06-19T21:13:19.876-04:00I believe this story is more nefarious than the gu...I believe this story is more nefarious than the guy being passed out on heroine or pot or whatever after leaving kids in the car to do drugs.<br /><br />The guy's reaction upon finding the one child looking as if she was dead and how he is used to seeing death and so knew she was dead is not a good sign. In my opinion this is a leaked marble that he may be insensitive to death perhaps as a result of being a sociopath?<br /><br />Him saying the car was left unlocked as a result of cleaning it does not make sense but it is a leaked marble. In my opinion, it indicates that the father had something to do with them being, I would say, intentionally left or put into the car.<br />His using this excuse that the car was unlocked blah blah blah seems to be a cover story.<br />It is an "alibi" story if you will. <br />If you look at what he is saying, he is trying to shift blame onto the kids for being in the car in the first place. He is saying they are usually careful to hide the keys, however on that one day, they were not careful because the car had been cleaned.<br />Is it a coincidence that the one day the car was left unlocked the kids allegedly decided to go into the car? Doubtful. It seems more like it is a cover story.<br />I doubt this was a case of neglect. It seems more like a case that he intentionally harmed the children.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-22828415704556170152014-06-19T20:50:15.946-04:002014-06-19T20:50:15.946-04:00It seems like it would be difficult for children, ...It seems like it would be difficult for children, 3 or 4, to close the car door once inside. Hopefully they checked the car-seats for a death scent. If they were strapped in then they may not have been able to free themselves to open the door. A sad situation regardless.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-58730716191343635752014-06-19T20:02:53.620-04:002014-06-19T20:02:53.620-04:00
Hob, I think he explains that not knowing if she ...<br />Hob, I think he explains that not knowing if she was dead or alive when he talks about not knowing if they were able to revive her. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-83664128656253633992014-06-19T19:42:19.704-04:002014-06-19T19:42:19.704-04:00He tells us he was a first responder, yet the firs...He tells us he was a first responder, yet the first thing he does is splash water on her face.<br />Innocent parents refuse to accept their child is dead, even when it is obvious, it is normal and expected parental instinct.<br />He tells us he knew she was dead and then tells us in the police station he didn't know if she was alive or dead contradicting his earlier statement of knowing.<br /><br /><b>I loved her to death."</b><br />is this a leaked marble?<br />An embedded confession?<br /><br />If he was innocent and it was an accident then he wouldn't be so accepting of facing charges accepting he could be going to jail for a long time.<br />he sounds almost resigned to the fact this is what will happen which is unexpected.<br /><br />Is there something in the autopsy which could be incriminating and he knows it?<br /><br />Drugs and weapons and children make for a bad combination, an accident waiting to happen.<br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-45593746810976052412014-06-19T19:41:44.648-04:002014-06-19T19:41:44.648-04:00Lindstrom said a relative showed up at the home an...<b>Lindstrom said a relative showed up at the home and asked where the girls were, and that is when he knew something was wrong</b><br />This doesn't make sense. <br />Why would someone ask him where the girls were and he knew something was wrong straightaway?<br />he told us he had put them down for a nap, they should have been in their bedroom.<br />All he had to say was they are having a nap in their room, they've been napping about an hour.<br />He jumps immediately to the knowing something was wrong for no discernible reason.<br />He should have suspected something was wrong <b>after</b> he had gone to their room to check them and they weren't there, <b>NOT BEFORE</b><br /><br /><b>“I THOUGHT they were asleep, SO i BEGAN doing some LAUNDRY and OTHER chores, AND BEFORE I KNEW IT, AN HOUR HAD PASSED,” he said.</b><br /><br />He only thought they were asleep leaving it open for others to think otherwise.<br />He doesn't tell us they were asleep and if he can't say it i can't say it for him.<br /><br />So is used to explain why something was done.<br /><br />Here he tells us he began to do some laundry and other chores, he doesn't tell us he did them or completed them, only that he began.<br />What were the other chores he began to do since he has already mentioned laundry as a specific.<br /><br />We then have a tempral lacuan which is missing time.<br /><br />He doesn't tell us he did chores etc in that hour so i can't assume.<br />I would ask specifically what other chores he did during that time.<br />The fact he specifies he did some laundry makes me wonder what he laundered and why given the fact one child is dead and the other one nearly died.<br />being the suspicious hobs that i are, i would be wondering if laundering was a way to clean up possible evidence.<br /><br /><b>"I got to the end of the trail on the other side of the house and I saw the truck and I had a bad feeling," says Lindstrom. Bella and Zoey were locked inside. He pulled them out and realized Bella was not breathing.</b><br />Oh dear, the pefect emotion in the perfect spot, never a good sign.<br />Why would he have a bad feeling on seeing his truck? <br />The girls could have been anywhere.<br />In the house hiding, with the neighbors, in the yard why does he only get a bad feeling when he saw the truck?<br /><br />How did he not see them or hear them ?<br />Where did he put them down for a nap?<br /><br />How did they get into the truck and how did they lock it?<br /><br />Why would they lock it?<br /><br /><b>He said his fiance left the truck unlocked because they just cleaned it out and were about to trade it in this afternoon. He believed the girls went outside, got inside the truck, and accidentally locked it. He said they had locked themselves in a car before during the winter, so the couple is always careful to hide the keys from them.</b><br />Why would he leave a car unlocked?<br />It is irrelevant that it was left unlocked because it had just been cleaned and they were trading it in that afternoon.<br />All the more reason to keep it locked.<br />He introduces the claim they locked themselves in the car during the winter so they were careful to hide the keys from them.<br />if the car was unlocked why would the keys be necessary or even worth mentioning.<br />Methinks this is sensitive as he goes into great detail about locking themselves in the car.<br /><br /><b> “I want people to know this was not a case of bad parenting, but instead just a horrific event, and my baby is gone.”</b><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive, i wonder if he has been accused of bad parenting before so he feels the need to introduce it to his statement.<br />He tells us it was just a horrific event.<br />Just is used to minimise downwards. he then tells us it was an event not an accident.<br />What are his definitions of an accident and an event?<br />How do they differ?<br />When do they differ?<br /><br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-55105518653657815902014-06-19T19:31:03.183-04:002014-06-19T19:31:03.183-04:00It doesn't take long at all for this to happen...It doesn't take long at all for this to happen. Car temps soar quickly and little kids' body temps go up high quickly. At 107, the organs start shutting down. Since one girl was alive, they probably weren't in the car that long.<br /><br />My heart goes out to this dad and his wife and surviving daughter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-23217851060181325072014-06-19T19:10:06.462-04:002014-06-19T19:10:06.462-04:002 weird clues about this situation are that the fa...2 weird clues about this situation are that the father states the kids had done this before.<br /><br />This brings to mind neglect, drug abuse.<br /><br />2nd clue According to the Dad the car was left unlocked by his fiance because they had cleaned out car and were going to trade it in later that day.<br /><br />The explanation for the car being left unlocked does not make sense because cleaning out a car and planning to trade it in later does not lead a person to then leave their car unlocked. Obviously too, there is the strange timing that the kids would have been in the car, one of them dying right before the car is traded in.<br /><br />Something is very off about the guy's story, and I disagree with those who think that the Dad left the kids in the car to go smoke a bowl.<br />It sounds to me like one of 2 things happened<br />1) As horrible as this sounds, the father may have left or put the kids into the car intentionally, to actually turn the car into a crime scene so the fiance could not trade the car in. Was this the car driven by the father and could he have been mad because he did not agree with trading in the car?<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-89807773884615997192014-06-19T18:56:11.080-04:002014-06-19T18:56:11.080-04:00"treating me like I was some sort of common c..."treating me like I was some sort of common criminal,"<br /><br />Notice the father is not upset at being treated like a "criminal", rather he does not like being treated like a "common criminal".<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-35615642658236337602014-06-19T18:55:02.699-04:002014-06-19T18:55:02.699-04:00His priorities are quite obvious ..,so glad he got...His priorities are quite obvious ..,so glad he got his laundry done (secret code for smoking a bowl) and had a nap while he's beautiful children were dying outside in the car. I would be willing to bet he was inside on the air conditioning.Bayou bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01615644562553378895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-38557974588878796462014-06-19T18:53:58.567-04:002014-06-19T18:53:58.567-04:00"I got to the end of the trail on the other s..."I got to the end of the trail on the other side of the house and I saw the truck and I had a bad feeling," says Lindstrom. Bella and Zoey were locked inside. He pulled them out and realized Bella was not breathing. <br /><br />Is the car at the end of a trail?<br />Why would the kids have left the house and walked down a trail unless they were trying to hide from the father?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-2612526849006206022014-06-19T18:47:47.991-04:002014-06-19T18:47:47.991-04:00My gut feeling is that the kids actually went into...My gut feeling is that the kids actually went into the car to hide from him.<br />Analysis of his statements indicate a deeply self-centered individual. You can see he continually refers everything back to himself and put things in terms of how things affect him. This is an individual who would not have much patience for kids.<br />It makes little sense that he intentionally or accidentally left the kids in the car. He claims he put them down for a nap, and I believe this. However, I have a feeling he was being abusive towards them, maybe screaming at them because they didn't want to take a nap and the kids may have snuck out of the house and gone into the car to hide from him, perhaps they even locked the car to lock the Dad out in case he came, not realizing how hot the car would get.<br />This is a gut feeling I got after reading his first sentence about how he put them down for a nap. Something tells me he behaved in a frightening way to them perhaps because they were frustrating his efforts to get them to nap.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-12163675666073042862014-06-19T18:04:42.525-04:002014-06-19T18:04:42.525-04:00
I have a 6 year old. There was never a time my...<br /><br /><br /><br />I have a 6 year old. There was never a time my son left my home with out me knowing. <br /><br />My friend has 2 kids. Her youngest often would walk out of the house, so she had a bell installed along with a high lock.<br /><br />To me, I don’t think its common for kids to just walk out of the home alone. Much less go to the family car and crawl in.<br /><br />If its normal for them, then you put in place extra safety measures.<br /><br />I think if the kids did this often, he would have said that. He didn’t.<br /><br />I think he either put them in there to get some quiet time. Or he forgot them. <br /><br />To me, when I think about how miserable it is just getting into a hot car waiting for the AC to cool it down… It is a horror to imagine what those poor children went through.<br /><br />I note however, as I typed the horrible thoughts of the poor children, he did not express any concern or horror over what they went through. What he is feeling now that he is facing blame. But not about the pain and suffering they expereinced.<br /><br />As a normal loving parent, that would haunt me more than criminal charges.<br />trustmeigetithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05707304982363758140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-55854326542600799162014-06-19T16:14:01.245-04:002014-06-19T16:14:01.245-04:00if he's need extensively interrogated then wha...if he's need extensively interrogated then whatever hes saying at this point is not his instinctual fresh words -- they are words structured in response to the assumptions made clear to him by the police. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-2733525432848777512014-06-19T16:00:09.610-04:002014-06-19T16:00:09.610-04:00It's strange that he would choose to murder hi...It's strange that he would choose to murder his daughter in a car that he planned to trade in later that day. That' car then becomes a crime scene. Thats a direct financial blow to him. Unless foiling the plan to trade in his car was somehow part of his diabolical motovation I'd find it more as evidence of his innocense. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-50696480596375185022014-06-19T15:52:24.088-04:002014-06-19T15:52:24.088-04:00his refference to being throught of as a "com...his refference to being throught of as a "common criminal" does makes me wonder if he would object less to being simply called a criminal. or an uncommon criminal. <br /><br />but if you work backwards in the time line with the presumption it was an accident -- at some point he had to have decided to leave them in there. <br /><br />if they truly crawled in on their own his language doesn't make sense. <br /><br />but in accident scenerio where he leaves them in there just for a moment and forgets… that's really hard to do, I'd think. might he have been willfully leaving them in there? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-58068178702315139362014-06-19T14:49:13.793-04:002014-06-19T14:49:13.793-04:00“I THOUGHT they were asleep, SO i BEGAN doing some...<b><br />“I THOUGHT they were asleep, SO i BEGAN doing some LAUNDRY and OTHER chores, AND BEFORE I KNEW IT, AN HOUR HAD PASSED,” he said.</b><br /><br />Just this sentence, for me, is loaded with SA red flags.John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-35692105954353848812014-06-19T14:43:27.795-04:002014-06-19T14:43:27.795-04:00"She was very brave, courageous and loved to ..."She was very brave, courageous and loved to explore."<br /><br />-slight blaming of the victim<br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-49205777579621843362014-06-19T14:35:42.576-04:002014-06-19T14:35:42.576-04:00I agree Deejay. The surviving child should be able...I agree Deejay. The surviving child should be able to tell what happened. <br /><br />I haven't seen anything published about the layout of the home, or how far away the truck was located, but Dad's story doesn't ring true to me for the reasons I already listed.<br /><br />In addition:<br /><br />-His perfectly placed emotions, and telling of what he was 'thinking' during the event, including when he was doing CPR on his lifeless child.<br /><br />- His statement that his guests mention of the kids was when he realized something was wrong fits more with him 'forgetting' about them, than his story. Otherwise, why wouldn't his first thought be that they were still napping? <br /><br />- He states that losing his daughter was 'bad enough', but the feeling of not knowing if he had or not, was WORSE. <br /><br />- He comments that he was treated like a 'common criminal', and on the 'common decency' that he feels he wasn't shown by LE.<br /><br />-Although he states that he saw the charge of 'manslaughter' listed on the search warrant docs, and in the video clip he goes on about how he knew she was dead, he's a combat vet (mentioned to garner respect for his service) who has seen death before, and that he held his daughter dead in his arms...he claims he didn't know she was gone until he arrived at the hospital after being 'detained' by LE.<br /><br />- He tries to demonize LE, stating that they took his 'prescription meds', and his pot, (shades of Billed Dunn) but left his weapons. Then says he understands why 'people' get suicidal, but doesn't say HE is suicidal. <br /><br />-His overall objective seems to be to elicit sympathy for himself, how he was treated, and the likely consequences he faces. I would expect his focus to be on his daughter's death, and for his grief and guilt to overwhelm all other thoughts.<br /><br />- He defensively introduces the topic of 'bad parenting', stating in the negative that it 'wasn't a case of bad parenting'.<br /><br />(I disagree, even if the tragedy happened exactly as he described, he was neglectful to allow enough time for this to happen without laying eyes on his young children.)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-41286834960601111492014-06-19T14:34:38.225-04:002014-06-19T14:34:38.225-04:00The Temoral lacunae, and the laundry referance con...The Temoral lacunae, and the laundry referance concern me.<br />John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.com