tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post1344362877702702972..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Ramsey Grand Jury Lawsuit Set for October 11Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger46125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-19195222513527309842013-10-10T06:17:56.143-04:002013-10-10T06:17:56.143-04:00Here's that pesky number three again. If ther...Here's that pesky number three again. If there were no discernible lies or any other circumstantial evidence against the McCanns, they left at least three tell-tell signs of their guilt behind themselves:<br /><br />1) The curtains at the window in the room where Maddy slept were found to have been laundered, rehung, and were air drying in the open window.<br /><br />2) Human decomp odor was found in the carpeting behind the couch. This means Maddy or her bodily floods laid there for up to 90 mins after she was killed.<br /><br />3) Human decomp odor was found in the wheel well of the rental car the McCanns were driving a month later, which again, means that Maddy laid there deceased for at least up to 90 mins before she was removed and disposed of. <br /><br />Common sense dictates that someone in that room who had access to that car killed and disposed of Maddie. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-29063718935178400942013-10-10T06:03:24.675-04:002013-10-10T06:03:24.675-04:00WOWZER! This is WAY too much power for any prosec...WOWZER! This is WAY too much power for any prosecutor to have at his disposal! In this case (and the Jerry Sandusky case in about 1998 when prosecutor Ray Gricar ALSO refused to indict Sandusky per the Grand Jurys' recommendation); why bother to have Grand Juries convene to begin with? <br /><br />Just ask the prosecutor to wield his mighty wand. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-18134945174288342982013-10-09T01:04:16.998-04:002013-10-09T01:04:16.998-04:00THIS JUST IN :
Grand Jury Report will NOT be relea...THIS JUST IN :<br />Grand Jury Report will NOT be released.<br />Such a shame that a Grand Jury decision is not upheld. Alex Hunter should Not have had authority to overrule - much like a judge accepts the verdict of a jury.LC Coloradonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-37799344830964226382013-10-06T22:20:54.790-04:002013-10-06T22:20:54.790-04:00off topic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_F2TfUA...off topic<br /><br /> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_F2TfUAfRnU<br />At 4:19<br /><br />Oh dear gerry you have put your feet in your mouth haven't you<br /><br />You mention about kids cry when they are getting bathed, when they are tired, when we are doing that and then he says<br />" And we did wonder if that was when they were being put to bed"<br /><br />The brain knows what it knows and wants to tell the truth.<br /><br />So gerry, who was putting them to bed if it wasn't you and kate?<br />If it had been either of you then the question would never have arisen as you would have been there.<br /><br />This leads to the question of if they were being put to bed in apt 5a where were you and kate and who was putting them to bed?<br /><br />If you and kate were in apt 5a where were the children being put to bed and again by whom?<br /><br />Wherever everyone was clearly you were not with the children as you would have heard themTania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-26747056882594813462013-10-06T21:47:43.441-04:002013-10-06T21:47:43.441-04:00"I didn't think they could keep me for mo..."I didn't think they could keep me for more than a couple days at the <br /><br />most. That didn't happen. When I met Annette I begged to talk to you <br /><br />alone. They said no. Paul made it clear he doesn't give a shit about me <br /><br />or Kate or you. They weren't willing to let me talk to them not that I <br /><br />would. I needed you. Not Tom Posma in a cold room on video."<br /><br />"The detectives mentioned by name were Mason County Det. Sgt. Tom Posma for their “countless hours” invested in the case."<br /><br />Just as I thought, Tom Posma was the cop.<br />Police can only hold you for 72 hours, video taping interveiws/confessions. <br /><br /> "I wasn't dumping a body, wasn't like that at all. I want her buried too. I don't know where she was left. Some idea. Feel like I could get there. No, its not some fucking swamp or lake. I know if they had left me alone I would have came to you that day."<br /><br />imo, LE blew it. They should have allowed him to talk to her. Now he has come to terms in his mind and no longer needs to talk to her. He was even willing to show LE where Kate was, but LE did not cooperate. In his mind, it is now LE's fault that she will never be found.<br /><br />He "set" her there. Where is the baby car seat? He didn't lay her there, he set her there, she is in the sitting position.OT Baby Katenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-29508861615722910142013-10-06T21:46:45.407-04:002013-10-06T21:46:45.407-04:00I was pretending to be busy why my phone or someth...I was pretending to be busy why my phone or something so you would <br /><br />hopefully just leave me alone. Heard the door shut, saw you walk off. <br /><br />Your hands in front of you not on your sides. Like you were holding <br /><br />Kate. I drove away. <br />I went back to the car and ate. phone wouldn't stop ringing. but the seat was too far up for me to get it out of my pocket to make it stop ringing because the car seat was in the way. <br />When I tried to move the seat back to get the phone it was blocked by <br /><br />that car seat <br />I pulled but it was jammed between the seats. <br />I grabbed it at the top and ripped it out as hard as I could. <br />She was thrown from it. <br />I didn't know. <br />I'm so sorry.<br />It felt like falling, and like my head would explode. <br /><br /><br />He didn't know, it was an accident, he did not know that Mom had not gotten her out of the car due to him trying to ignore her and not paying attention to what she was doing, when Mom shut the car door he thought Kate was out, and he drove away and never looked back.<br />Mom must have unlatched the seat belt and got the babyseat ready to remove but didn't. It must have then fallen down onto the floor board between the front and back seats in order for it to be wedged/caught and for the front seat to not slide back.<br />"A blonde lady by the office and I looked at each <br /><br />other as I passed." That stood out as memorable in his mind even though his day was going so badly, why, had the women looked at him with a strange expression on her face.... like, dude the baby seat fell down!!!<br /> <br />So was it Kate being thrown from the car seat that killed her, or was it from hitting her head as the babyseat fell to the floor, or was her head crushed when he tried to force the front seat to move back?<br />imo, Kate died of blunt force trauma to the head. He too wanted to "fall" causing his head to explode like Kate's did.OT Baby Katenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-65399168801854924082013-10-06T08:31:33.845-04:002013-10-06T08:31:33.845-04:00The process as it presently stands doesn't app...The process as it presently stands doesn't appear democratic. A (grand) jury of peers decide that the time and cost to proceed is warranted, the police believe so otherwise he/she wouldn't have been arrested and a case built against them presented. Why does the prosecutor for the state get to veto all? He should just be rubber stamping it to proceed. It shouldn't be about *his* ego and whether it will affect his track record of wins vs. losses.Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-88970242884564421882013-10-06T08:29:24.733-04:002013-10-06T08:29:24.733-04:00Emerald Viridis said...
OT Baby Kate:
&quo...Emerald Viridis said...<br /> OT Baby Kate:<br /> "I grabbed it at the top and ripped it out as hard as I could."<br /> the seatblet winds through most car seat bases,<br /><br />---------------<br />WRONG, and for future safety it should be known the reason baby seats should not be in the front seat is because the belt attaches further forward which leaves the baby seat able to be twisted out from the belt. and not all baby seats have the holes to wind the belt through and 99% of women dont take the time or effort to do that, they just whip the belt over the top. and if the baby seat is place facing forward instead of the baby facing backwards, it is even more dangerous.<br />i did exactly what he described with a top dollar baby seat when i tested it for being secured correctly before i ever used it. we never put a baby seat in the front, and the one that was permanently in the back i used the extra tie down strap that runs back into the trunk.<br />put a baby seat facing forward in the front seat. strap it in like your baby was in it, now, grab the top and slam it against the dashboard.... yep, your baby just died dumbass.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-37958169570912341372013-10-06T03:35:18.755-04:002013-10-06T03:35:18.755-04:00OT..
Hannah Anderson differs from other 'surv...OT..<br /><br />Hannah Anderson differs from other 'survivors'<br /><br />http://www.allvoices.com/contributed-news/15691456-hannah-anderson-differs-from-other-survivorsJohn Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-7677128687483208352013-10-06T00:01:40.803-04:002013-10-06T00:01:40.803-04:00I'm curіous to find out what blοg ѕуstem уou h...I'm curіous to find out what blοg ѕуstem уou haрpen to be working wіth?<br />I'm expеriеnсing some small secuгity problems wit <br />mу latest websіte and I'd likе to find somеthіng <br />more sаfeguаrdеԁ. Do yοu have any solutions?<br /><br /><br />Cheсk out my ωeb-site - <a href="http://www.linbaaizaoqi.org/" rel="nofollow">insurance glossary</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-60595719368901359142013-10-05T19:31:35.249-04:002013-10-05T19:31:35.249-04:00LUDINGTON, Mich. (WOOD) - Baby Kate's mother s...LUDINGTON, Mich. (WOOD) - Baby Kate's mother said she is surprised at the speed of a murder charge against Kate's father.<br /><br />Michigan Attorney General Bill Schuette said Friday that his office would work with the Mason County Prosecutor's Office to try and convict Sean Phillips of the murder of his four-month-old daughter Katherine.<br /><br />"Justice delayed is not justice denied," Schuette said at a Friday press conference during which the murder charge was announced.<br /><br />Katherine Phillips disappeared June 29, 2011 and is presumed dead. She became known as "Baby Kate" in the nationally covered investigation. Phillips was convicted last year of unlawful imprisonment in her disappearance.<br /><br />Kate's mother Ariel Courtland said news of the murder charge took her by surprise because she didn't learn of it through investigators, who she said have been supportive throughout the ordeal.<br /><br />"For me to find out through the news that this was happening was kind of a slap in the face," she said.<br /><br />For some, murder charges were welcome. But the announcement means something else to Courtland.<br /><br />"I'm just disappointed that we have to do it so soon already," she said.<br /><br />She must now explain the situation to her other daughter, who also belongs to Phillips.<br /> <br />"She has to come home and ask why," she said. "It's hard for her."<br /> <br />With one conviction in hand and a long prison term imposed, Courtland said she hoped this day would come further down the road.<br /> <br />Part of her struggle is realizing the other people this case has impacted as her once tumultuous relationship with Phillips' parents has turned into a bond.<br /> <br />"It's not just me. His parents grieve like we do. This is still their son," Courtland said. "They love Sean so much and it's hard to see their heart break just like mine."<br /> <br />And there's a lingering thought in Courtland's mind that perhaps Baby Kate is still out there somewhere.<br /><br />"We don't know and we need to keep the hope that she's going to come home," she said.<br /><br />Courtland would not speak publicly about whether she wanted murder charges to be filed.<br /><br />That's despite having received a letter apparently from Phillips in which he confessed to accidentally killing Baby Kate and leaving her body in a still-unidentified area he called only a "peaceful place."<br /><br />Courtland said she's not sure that Phillips was telling the truth in that letter, especially since a different note was presented in the unlawful imprisonment trial in which Phillips claimed to have given the baby "to a guy." That was proven to be false.<br /><br />The attorney general said Friday that there is new evidence that led authorities to file the murder charges, but would not say what that is.<br /><br />10:1 the mom is in on this somehow.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-66973281633253098542013-10-05T12:01:41.131-04:002013-10-05T12:01:41.131-04:00OT Baby Kate:
"I grabbed it at the top and r...OT Baby Kate:<br /><br />"I grabbed it at the top and ripped it out as hard as I could."<br /><br />He never said that he unbuckeled the seat belt of the car, whihc holds car seats in, and often an accessory strap...<br /><br />the seatblet winds through most car seat bases, so he may be indicating he detached the seat from the base, and yanked it out, because unless he unbuckled the base, there is no way in hell unless he is super man that he ripped the seat belt out of the car, or broke it....<br /><br />If he did not unbuckle the base, and he is saying he ripped the car seat out, that is HIGHLY unlikely as well, as the latches are metal in all car seats, and can't just be "ripped" out...they are designed to withstand the high impact of car crashes without becoming dislodged...so he necessarily had to depress the release buttons on the car seat to get it out...he has left this detail out because it means he actively released the seat, not ripped it out by force...<br /><br />Baby Kate's death was not an accident like he claims, and he even admits dumping her body out of fear of consequences, not an "altered state" of awareness or functioning brought on by the shock of just killing his baby. This is also the same child who he says he was not even sure if he was the biological father, so in his admission, KNEW he was taking a child that potentially was not even his daughter...<br /><br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-32768165918674757882013-10-05T12:01:36.750-04:002013-10-05T12:01:36.750-04:00OT Baby Kate:
"I grabbed it at the top and r...OT Baby Kate:<br /><br />"I grabbed it at the top and ripped it out as hard as I could."<br /><br />He never said that he unbuckeled the seat belt of the car, whihc holds car seats in, and often an accessory strap...<br /><br />the seatblet winds through most car seat bases, so he may be indicating he detached the seat from the base, and yanked it out, because unless he unbuckled the base, there is no way in hell unless he is super man that he ripped the seat belt out of the car, or broke it....<br /><br />If he did not unbuckle the base, and he is saying he ripped the car seat out, that is HIGHLY unlikely as well, as the latches are metal in all car seats, and can't just be "ripped" out...they are designed to withstand the high impact of car crashes without becoming dislodged...so he necessarily had to depress the release buttons on the car seat to get it out...he has left this detail out because it means he actively released the seat, not ripped it out by force...<br /><br />Baby Kate's death was not an accident like he claims, and he even admits dumping her body out of fear of consequences, not an "altered state" of awareness or functioning brought on by the shock of just killing his baby. This is also the same child who he says he was not even sure if he was the biological father, so in his admission, KNEW he was taking a child that potentially was not even his daughter...<br /><br /> Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-48778528189762261462013-10-05T10:32:39.038-04:002013-10-05T10:32:39.038-04:00It was my understanding that Hannah's parents ...It was my understanding that Hannah's parents were NOT divorced.<br />I read that the father took a temporary job out of state, which was the reason they were living apart.<br />TrueorFalsenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-55088723998987408742013-10-05T09:41:37.509-04:002013-10-05T09:41:37.509-04:00Hannah's parents divorced.
People with good r...Hannah's parents divorced.<br /><br />People with good relationship skills, love, respect, and consideration for their children and spouses don't usually divorce.<br /><br />A breakdown in a marriage means distress, distrust, and disharmony are major factors at work in the husband/wife relationship.<br /><br />Where do the children fit in? They have to make painful choices that offend one or both of the parents, so they usually talk to their teachers and instructors about their conflicting emotions in order to understand why they feel the way that they do.<br /><br />Hannah Anderson could not discuss her thoughts and feelings with her parents in her honest searching for answers, so she chose to trust her dance teacher with those things.<br /><br />Hannah Anderson was a child with conflicts and confusion interrupting her life, when she should have had parents protecting her from an evil man.<br />Triggernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-30728408124566202013-10-05T07:32:08.876-04:002013-10-05T07:32:08.876-04:00John, who else is Hannah supposed to talk to? The ...John, who else is Hannah supposed to talk to? The FBI should have kept her in protective custody.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-83747145551626549432013-10-05T06:40:04.202-04:002013-10-05T06:40:04.202-04:00Q:"who are the two main people that you trust...Q:"who are the two main people that you trust with all of your might"<br /><br />Hannah:"My dance teacher and best friend"<br /><br />Why does her dance teacher come before family and best friend?<br /><br />She uses the pronoun "MY" putting her close,and taking ownership of her dance teacher.<br />Yet when talking about her "best friend" she drops the pronoun "My",is she as close to her best friend as she says she is? Are her friend's starting to distance themselves from her?<br /><br />"Dance Teacher" although she gives her occupation there is no proper social introduction(ISI)<br /><br />"Best Friend".(ISI). <br /><br />Caveat: She may not want to give the teachers name over the internet out of respect given that she comes first in the people she trusts,although most of her "friends" will know who she is talking about anyway.I doubt she has any respect for anyone but herself.<br /><br />If i was her "best friend" i would keep looking over my shoulder.<br /><br />IMO..John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-48783811418130779592013-10-05T04:39:19.346-04:002013-10-05T04:39:19.346-04:00OT..Hannah Anderson Update:
What's Hannah And...OT..Hannah Anderson Update:<br /><br />What's Hannah Anderson doing in NYC?<br /><br />http://www.allvoices.com/contributed-news/15687101-whats-hannah-anderson-doing-in-nyc<br /><br />............................<br /><br />The River Of No Return: On the trail of Jim DiMaggio and Hannah Anderson:<br /><br />http://www.chelseahoffman.com/2013/10/hannah-anderson-book-coming-soon-river.html<br /><br />...............................<br /><br />Q:"who are the two main people that you trust with all of your might"<br /><br />Hannah:"My dance teacher and best friend"<br /><br />Wow..Were does her Dad,family etc come into this.Does she trust them? If she does not say, we cant say it for her.<br /><br />http://ask.fm/Hannahbanana722John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-85553207150021323812013-10-05T04:04:40.238-04:002013-10-05T04:04:40.238-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-80537425249177395922013-10-05T03:55:33.145-04:002013-10-05T03:55:33.145-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-74257356424619961792013-10-04T21:37:53.776-04:002013-10-04T21:37:53.776-04:00Both of us fucked up some.
Shared guilt.
Fucked u...<b>Both of us fucked up some.</b><br />Shared guilt. <br />Fucked up is weaked by the qualifier some.<br />he minimises the fuck up.<br /> <br /><b>Id give anything to go back.</b><br />Go back where?<br />If he would give anything why not give up the truth? <br /> <br /><b>To that day, January, the summer I went to Georgia.</b><br />This is close that is distancing.<br />What happened on the other times he wants to go back to, January, the summer he went to Georgia.<br />Are they linked in some way.<br />The day he killed Kate, January, summer in Georgia. are in his mind connected.<br /><br /><b>I want my parents to know.</b><br />HIs parents to know what?<br /> <br /><b>Things spouses tell each other is confidence cant be made to testify.</b><br />Is he saying he has told a parent something and if they tell their spouse they can't be made to testify.<br />Is he saying once i marry i can confess the truth and my wife can't be made to testify.<br />If he marries and confesses what is to stop his wife volunteering to testify? <br />Does he think once married he can control her?<br />She won't talk because she is my wife and i own her<br /> <br /><b>But we aren't married yet in the eyes of the government.</b><br />Does he consider himself married in the eyes of someone other than the government.<br />But negates the previous which is spouses testifying.<br />What things would be told in confidence would mean the spouse can't be made to testify.<br />Told is stronger than said.<br /><br /><b>Then hearsay cant be used, so if you told then it would be hearsay as it didnt come from me.</b><br />He introduces hearsay.<br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />He could tell a friend to ease his conscience and should the friend talk he can deny he ever said it and it can't be introduced. <br /> <br /><b>But Grand Jury can sometimes allow hearsay.</b><br />But negates the previous so he is aware of hearsay and it is causing him concern. <br /> <br /><b>Could you ask your attorney about that stuff?</b> <br />Thisis close that is distancing.<br />That stuff.<br />Hearsay is clearly something that's concerning him so who has he spoken to and who did they in turn speak to.?<br /> <br /><b>If you want to ask me things try to do it all at once.</b><br />Things not questions?<br /> <br /><b>So we arent hearing incriminating stuff more than we need to.</b><br />He admits there is incriminating stuff. he has to talk incrimination, he doesn't want to since mail is read ( did he know or forget?)<br />Why is there a need to talk about incriminating stuff?<br />Incriminating for whom?<br /> <br /><b>Out of time for mail. Destroy theses. We'll talk.</b><br />He clearly knows this letter is incriminating hence his order to destroy these.<br />Does he think talking will make any difference?<br />All calls are monitored as we saw woth casey anthony.<br />Does he perhaps plan to talk to his lawyer which isn't monitored and try and get messages to her that way?<br /> <br /> <br /><b>He told us he killed her, he dumped the body and knows pretty much where.</b><br />this was all about power and control. he has anger issues and i can see still a risk.<br />He doesn't say he accidentally threw her, only that she was thrown.<br /> I would look forfirst person singualr past tense event specific, I did not kill Kate.<br />If it was an accident he would say she was accidentally thrown. he doesn't because he can't.<br />if it was an accident then instinct would be to call 911.<br />he doesn't call 911 because it was no accident and he knew they would see it was murder.Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-45957110487805794052013-10-04T21:37:49.552-04:002013-10-04T21:37:49.552-04:00Ones that never were sent.
Strong no qualifiers.
...<b>Ones that never were sent.</b> <br />Strong no qualifiers.<br />Why weren't they sent?<br /> <br /><b>Oddly this one has done the worst of all in telling you, yet its the one Im making myself send.</b> <br />Telling her what?<br />worst of all in telling what?<br />The truth?<br />His excuses?<br />His anger?<br />Were there letters that did better in telling her?<br />Why this letter if it is the worse?<br /> <br /><b>If I don't again then when?</b><br />Don't what?<br />Send the letter? <br />If he doesn't it would join the rest he didn't send and he will simply write more.<br /> <br /> <br /><b>There will never be one I feel right with.</b><br /> Right with what? it's contents?<br /> Why send this one if it doesn't feel right.<br /> <br /><b>These things mostly need to be talked about in person.</b> <br />These is close those is distancing. he is close to the things.<br />Mostly means some things need not be talked about in person.<br />What are the things he is referring to, the crime, his time in jail, his anger? he doesn't tell us so we can't assume.<br /> <br /><b>Annette has the original, tear soaked one.</b><br /> If there is an original is there a copy?<br />Is this a copy of the original?<br /> Why is it tear soaked?<br />Guilt, remorse, anger?<br /> <br /><b>Addressed to you, only it includes that lie about me thinking you could have possibly killed her.</b><br />He admits he lied in regard to thinking she could have possibly killed her.<br />Did he claim she had in his defence?<br />He is blaming her for what happened, he still doesn't accept responsibilty, he did it because of her therefore it's her fault, she is guilty.<br /> <br /> <br /><b>Theres still a lot things I don't understand.</b> <br />What are a lot of things he doesn't understand.<br />A lot isn't all so there are things he does understand.<br />will he understand more at another time?<br /> <br /><b>90% of the things you told them were lies.</b><br />10% then must be the truth.<br /> were lies not lies.<br />are they not lies any more/<br /> <br /><b>Some things I don't know if it was me or them you lied to them some other things.</b><br />He doesn't tell us what things so we can't assume.<br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />He tells us what he doesn't know not what he does know<br />There are some things and some other things, what is the difference/<br /> <br /><b>At the time it was something how you used her and acted a lot of the time like you could give a fuck less about her.</b><br />Acted a lot of the time is not the same as all the time.<br />How did she use her?<br />At the time, does she act differently now?<br /> <br /><b>How you kept dragging out the adoption, which would just make it harder on her.</b><br />What adoption? <br />Who was she adopting her from?<br />Was this a custody battle gone bad? if i can't have her no one can.<br /> <br /><b>Couldn't believe you wanted to do that test before finishing the adoption that day, just to make me pay.</b><br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />This is close that is distancing. <br />That test before finishing the adoption that day.<br />What test?<br />Was the result of the test to make him pay?<br />Pay financially or another way?<br /><br /><b>I never once thought you had any intention whatsoever of keeping her.</b><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />Did he think if she was adopted he would then not be liable for anything?<br />What led him to believe she had no intention of keeping her.<br />I killed her because i didn't think you wanted to keep her anyway?<br /> <br /><b>Still don't know why so many of the things you did said or whatever.</b> <br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />Don't know why what things she said, said or whatever, <br />If you do things and says things what else is there.<br />So many of the things not all the things.<br /> <br /><b>Blamed for so long.</b> <br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />Who is being blamed? he doesn't tell us so we can't assume.<br /> <br /><b>Theres so many stupid little things that could have made such a difference.</b> <br />things as small as a phone call or using the bathroom.<br />How would these have made a difference?<br />Difference to whom?<br />if she had done this and not that we wouldn't be in this situation now.<br />Subtle blaming again.<br /> <br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-38070298455631969482013-10-04T21:35:07.139-04:002013-10-04T21:35:07.139-04:00I don't' think you could ever understand.
...<b>I don't' think you could ever understand.</b><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive<br />Understand is qualified with ever weakening it.<br />If she knows him then she could understand at least some of the why.<br />Understand what? <br />What is there to understand.<br /> <br /><b>Some things I don't completely.</b> <br />What are the some things?<br />He doesn't tell us what he doesn't completely<br /> <br /><b>I never decided to pick her up.</b><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />Picke her up from where?<br />he doesn't tell us so we can't assume.<br />Is he blaming something else for making him pick her up? <br />Anger perhaps?<br /> <br /><b>Never decided to call or not call 911, or to leave, or to <i>set </i>her down.</b><br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />If it wasn't a decision what was it?<br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />is this him blaming his actions on anger rather than a rational decision.<br /> <br /><b>It was like I was watching these things, not doing them, not sure what I'm seeing.</b><br />It was like is not the same as actually being. <br />It was like he was watching not that he was watching.<br />Thse is close those is distancing.<br />He is close to these things plural.<br />Dropped pronouns in regard to doing them and being not sure though he takes ownership of seeing.<br /> <br /><b>The only time I thought and anything was ? was when I was standing outside and then from when I almost hit that car.</b><br />Standing outside where?<br />Thought what?<br /> <br /><b>I wasn't dumping a body, wasn't like that at all.</b><br />A body not her body?<br />What was it like then?<br /> <br /> <br /><b>I want her buried too.</b><br />Does this mean she wasn't covered (buried) rather out in the open somewhere. <br />This shows awareness of the mother's wishes.<br /> <br /><b>I don't know where she was left.</b><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />She was left, not i left her?<br />Distancing from the leaving of her.<br /> <br /><b>Some idea.</b><br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />Some idea not no idea, he probably has a darn good idea where she is and is witholding the info.<br /> <br /><b>Feel like I could get there.</b> <br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />He knows where she is, embedded is i could get there.<br /> <br /><b>No, its not some fucking swamp or lake.</b><br /> Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />Here we see more flashes of anger.<br />tells us what it isn't rather than what it is.<br /> <br /> <br /><b>I know if they had left me alone I would have came to you that day.</b><br />Who is the they he wanted to leave him alone?<br />What would he have done if they had left him alone?<br />he mentioned gun earlier, was he still so angry he would have attackeed, possibly killed her?<br />This is close that is distancing.<br /> <br /><b>I was thrown into the worst possible thing at the worst possible time.</b><br />Interesting he introduces thrown.<br />Worst possible thing not event or crime<br />What does he mean by worst possible time?<br />Was there a worst possible thing at the best possible time, a best possible thing at the worst possible time or a best possible thing at the best possible time/<br />Worst possible thing for whom? he doesn't tell us so we can't assume.<br />I was thrown indicates he was a victim of someone else's actions, he had no choice in the matter.<br />Blaming the victim perhaps.<br /> <br /><b>Everything just happened, and I never had the chance to do the right thing.</b><br />What is the everything that just happened.<br />Things don't just happen there is a cause and an effect.<br />Just minimises what happened.<br />What is the right thing he never had a chance at.<br />Do the right thing by whom? himself, Kate, the mom?<br />It's not my fault, you didn't give me a chance.<br /> <br /><b>There's been other letters to you.</b><br /> Strong no qualifiers.Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-66037516689078643222013-10-04T21:32:44.915-04:002013-10-04T21:32:44.915-04:00I wanted to tell you the truth so bad, to hold you...<b>I wanted to tell you the truth so bad, to hold you, to be held.</b> <br />What is the truth if he hadn't already told it?<br />What stopped him telling her the truth? guitlty knowledge or consequences?<br /> <br /><b>I said that because I thought you would do something then.</b><br />This is close that is distancing <br />He distances from telling the truth.<br />If he told her the truth what did he think she would do?<br /> <br /><b>Couldn't believe you wouldn't just get me the fuck out or make them allow us to talk.</b><br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />What was stopping them from talking in prison?<br />Wouldn't not couldn't.<br />What was stopping her getting him out?<br /> <br /><b>For a long time blocked that day and Kate from my mind.</b> <br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br /> <br /><b>Almost refused to acknowledge it to myself.</b><br /> Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />alomst refused is not the same as refused.<br />He acknowledged it to himself but not others.<br />Why not acknowledge it to others if it was the truth. guilty knowledge or consequences.<br /> <br /><b>Eventually I thought I would just never tell you what happened. It had already been so long w/o me being able to.</b><br />This smacks of control. He has knowledge and is refusing to share it.<br />Just minimises the not telling.<br />What has stopped him being able to for so long, guilty knowledge or consequences.<br /> <br /><b>That changed.</b><br />What changed?<br />This is close that is distancing. <br />For there to be a that there has to be a this.<br /> <br /><b>The day I was found innocent I was going to go to you.</b><br />And do what?<br /> <br /><b>It was a long time before I started thinking about her and that day.</b><br />Did he not think about her during the trial.<br />He started thinking doesn't meant he thought about her and that day.<br />Her and not kate indicates distance.<br />This is close that is distancing.<br /> <br /> <b>The nightmares, panic attacks, nothing would get better.</b><br /> Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br /> Whose nightmares and panic attacks.<br />what is the nothing that would get better?<br /> <br /><b>Think about it all was horrible, but it has helped.</b><br />Dropped pronoun, if he can't take ownership neither can we.<br />Think not thinking? <br />does he not think about it any more?<br />What has helped?<br />Not thinking about it or thinking about it.<br />Was not is? is it not horrible any more?<br /> <br /><b>I use to hear my heart racing and almost collapse just from seeing a picture of her.</b><br />Does he not any more? <br />just is used to minimise, He almost collapses not actually collapses.<br />What is an almost collapse?<br /> <br /><b>I can smile now.</b> <br />Why couldn't he smile before?<br />what has changed that he can now smile?<br />being found innocent?<br /> <br /><b>I can remember her the way you do, and not another way as well.</b><br />Present tense i can remember.<br />What other way is there to remember her if not the same as she does.<br />Another not the other, alive, dead, what other way is there?Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-49520470998576737082013-10-04T21:31:42.170-04:002013-10-04T21:31:42.170-04:00They weren't willing to let me talk to them no...<b>They weren't willing to let me talk to them not that I would.</b> <br />Who is the they who weren't willing to be talked to?<br />He doesn't tell us so we can't assume.<br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />They wouldn't let him not talk to them sounds like a standoff, a battle of wills.<br />if he were innocent then surely it would be in his interest to talk to them to tell them the truth.<br /> <br /><b>I needed you.</b> <br />Strong no qualifiers<br />does he not need her now?<br /> <br /><b>Not Tom Posma in a cold room on video.</b> <br />Who is Tom? <br />Note this time we get the full name not just forename.<br />Is he something in authority as opposed to family or friends?<br />He describes the room as cold, his room or Tom's.<br />Who is on video<br /> <br /><b>They even tried everything to keep me from talking to you about that day.</b><br />Who is they? he doesn't tell us so we can't assume.<br />Note not only they tried, the even tried indicating it was perhaps not successful<br />This is close , that is distancing.<br />it is that day distancing<br /> <br /><b>I didn't accept that I wasn't getting out and getting to talk to you till about 2 weeks + in.</b><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive.<br />What happened 2 weeks in that caused him to realsie he wasn't getting out.<br /> <br /><b>After the first couple days it had seemed harder to do the right thing.</b> <br />It wasn't harder it only SEEMED harder to do the right thing.<br />The right thing by whom?<br />Kate, himself or Ariel <br /> <br /><b>I expected to be let out after the prelim.</b><br />What caused him to expect to be let out?<br />His lawyer, himself and his story?<br /> <br /><b>It crushed me.</b> <br />Strong no qualifiers<br /> <br /><b>Like you just implied that you really don't give a fuck about Kate, only who does and does not get in trouble.</b><br />Just is used to minimise.<br />He weakens the don't give a fuck with really.<br />Notice he uses present tense don't rather than past tense didn't.<br />He says implied meaning others may understand differently<br />Why would she imply she is concerened about who gets in trouble and who doesn't rather than finding Kate/<br /> <br /><b>And right before that I got Kenny, April dads interviews.</b><br />And indicates missing info.<br />He we have a proper introduction, Kenny, the dad of April.<br /> <br /><b>They all said you don't act like your child is missing or anything.</b><br />Who is they?<br />He says he got the interviews of kenny (singular) yet uses the plural they rather than singular him.<br />What is the anything if not missing?<br /> <br /><b>Then you were always trying to get recordings for court and saying stupid shit on phones.</b> <br />If he were innocent then surely recordings would show his guilt.<br />If he is in jail all calls are recorded.<br />he doesn't give examples of what was said on phones<br /> <br /><b>At that point I wanted you to go to prison.</b><br />Go to prison for what?<br />Why that point and not any other time?<br /> <br /><b>Before then, I'm sorry I lied about Kate being ok.</b> <br />When sorry is introduced in a statement is is sensitive and a red flag.<br />Why did he lie about her being ok when it's clear she wasn't?<br />Was he giving her false hope?<br />Was this all about power and control?<br /> <br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.com