tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post3353934154094222798..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Question: Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-40169749718819254112019-02-12T08:26:21.057-05:002019-02-12T08:26:21.057-05:00"Victims of sexual abuse have a need to menti..."Victims of sexual abuse have a need to mention things like washing, covering, doors, etc...<br />WHY do they feel the need to express them in words?"<br />i read this part and responded before reading the rest;<br /><br />i believe its because <br />WASHING (Hoping to wash away the guilt, the pain, the feelings of the memory;<br />COVERING- (some form of protection)<br />WINDOWS/ DOORS (thinking of escape, protection, barrier between what is on one side of the window/door to what is on the other side.<br />if i were in their shoes, i'd be thinking of escape, so i'd be thinking of that door/window alot, which would naturally come out during a statement. That's how i see it. <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16883551727843643124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-75614253110308233082018-11-06T12:38:42.343-05:002018-11-06T12:38:42.343-05:00Dr pat Allen says that sexually abusing children s...Dr pat Allen says that sexually abusing children strips their mylar or something, sex abuse hormonally turns virgin girls into nymphomaniac sluts, I sud cut and paste her good stuff here<br /><br /><br />DPA rec this eye therapy as effective recovery option<br /><br />EMDR<br /><br />https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/emdr-what-is-it<br /><br />.Nadine Lumleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05591663475427502169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-61970648808934541872018-10-17T08:28:04.177-04:002018-10-17T08:28:04.177-04:00About a year ago, I found out about statement anal...About a year ago, I found out about statement analysis. I've been hooked ever since.<br /><br />Back then, I was fairly close to an SJW - I really did believe in Obama and #metoo and black lives matter. I cried when Trump got into the Whitehouse. I voted for Jeremy Corbyn. I campaigned on identity politics. I did my PhD in a gender studies field. I didn't believe in monogamy, and I was for higher taxation and nationalisation of public services (railways, water, banks etc), higher welfare payments... I was in favour of abortion on demand up until the end of the first trimester, and in some cases up until birth. I said awful things as though they were a badge of honour, like calling the murder of unborn children "basic medical care." I could go on, but you get the picture. <br /><br />I started to read your blog several months before I started your course. Since then, I've faced a series of "forks" in the road. On the one hand, I either have to jettison a long held belief, or on the other hand, I have to convince myself that a valid piece of analysis is somehow wrong. Each one of the beliefs I outlined above has gone through that process, and not one of them has survived intact. <br /><br />I came back to re-read and comment here, because this post blew me away back in May. It is the most empathic, forthright, discerning and moral thing I have ever read about the experience and impacts of sexual abuse. You spoke directly to me. You have listened to victims and not just got inside their language, but got inside their experience. It is undeniable. <br /><br />But...<br /><br />At the time of first reading of this article, I believed that straight white males (with Republican views) didn't care about the experiences of victims, and weren't capable of empathy (towards victims in particular, but in general as well). By the way, I also believed that it wasn't racist or sexist to believe such a thing - go figure.<br /><br />The two things were incompatible. It felt like a traffic jam in my brain for a week. Which was true? Were you not really empathic? Discerning? Was it a trick of some sort? If so, how did you pull it off? Or, on the other hand, had I spent my whole life believing a big fat lie about white males? Maybe a whole bunch of lies? And what did your race have to do with it anyway? And didn't you do pro bono work on behalf of victims as well? How could I square that with you being a straight white male republican? <br /><br />Looking back, I don't know why it was such a struggle. They were obvious lies, but they were so seductive. I wanted to hold on to my dearly held personal beliefs, in the face of the evidence. Strange that I should have wanted to hold onto it, when I knew what it was. <br /><br />Almost everything I've learned in statement analysis has brought me to a similar kind of fork. It's possible that I may meet more of them. I'm still an atheist, for example - although your post on "everybody having a religion in statement analysis" was a push towards the realisation that my values aren't as rational/secular as I believed, and have their roots in the Judeo Christian tradition. Right now, I can't imagine having a religious conversion to the extent where I believe in a god of any sort - but I'm not ruling out changing my mind.<br /><br />Anyway, Peter, thank you. Thank you for your courage and your commitment to the truth, and thank you for lifting the scales from my eyes. It hasn't been an easy process, but it's been a necessary one - and I hope it's not over yet. <br /><br />C<br /><br /><br />GrannysBlankethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16930962636404613936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-75106976578921851972018-05-07T19:33:53.981-04:002018-05-07T19:33:53.981-04:00http://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-05-07/kings-cross-...http://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-05-07/kings-cross-rape-case-that-put-consent-on-trial/9695858?smid=Page:%20ABC%20News-Facebook_Organic&WT.tsrc=Facebook_Organic&sf188948940=1<br /><br />Topic: the meaning of consent/consentingHabundianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-85416927836508733512018-05-07T17:09:12.028-04:002018-05-07T17:09:12.028-04:00Stormy Daniels is trying to manufacture a respecta...Stormy Daniels is trying to manufacture a respectable image in the media currently. She has a story to tell. She is a sex worker and porn star that is aging rapidly.<br /><br />Her career in the sex industry declines as she ages. She knows that she has to become more of a manager and less of a worker to maintain her lifestyle.<br /><br />I see her as someone in dire need of a boost to help her in her financial crisis. Will she disclose all of her "dates" with other famous men in a book deal or just focus on Mr. Trump?<br /><br />She has an agenda.<br /><br />Triggernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-87190948555302705972018-05-07T15:51:09.993-04:002018-05-07T15:51:09.993-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.ima.grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09319771909287767461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-45507372391440311742018-05-07T10:35:14.860-04:002018-05-07T10:35:14.860-04:00http://www.foxnews.com/world/2018/05/07/couple-get...http://www.foxnews.com/world/2018/05/07/couple-gets-creepy-note-from-neighbors-sick-seeing-them-naked.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-28929561785555100202018-05-06T22:23:09.240-04:002018-05-06T22:23:09.240-04:00Certainly he lied to Melania. A bit of planning w...Certainly he lied to Melania. A bit of planning would have to go into having an affair. Lies, and some more lies. Money changed hands, many hands, and <br /> more lies. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-3284486498475549002018-05-06T22:19:26.753-04:002018-05-06T22:19:26.753-04:00I wasn’t saying he raped Stormy Daniels, and I do ...I wasn’t saying he raped Stormy Daniels, and I do see a distinction between Trump and a rapist. I’m saying that the deception and planning and lying all speaks to his character. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-74122758159206318602018-05-06T15:17:29.911-04:002018-05-06T15:17:29.911-04:00@1147,
Nope, Trump doesnt have 2 faces. He has s...@1147,<br /><br />Nope, Trump doesnt have 2 faces. He has said publically that it was "great" having a wife & a mistress (when he was married to Ivana). How is that having one public face & one private face? He told the truth. He said "It was great! He did not virtue signal. Melania has also stared that she married Donald for his money. Its not my business. Or yours. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-87462154157262044472018-05-06T11:59:31.423-04:002018-05-06T11:59:31.423-04:00For those interested, the analysis is not "di...For those interested, the analysis is not "did he?" because the unreliable denials are not difficult to discern, but to address more fascinating issues,, including motive, personality types, etc. <br /><br />Harris Faulkner (becoming a journalist I enjoy watching), quoted an unemployment statistic to which one of the economic expert guests said, "yes, but Trump is a narcissist."<br /><br />Faulkner remained a professional and went back to the topic: economy and did not refer back to the man who felt the need to counter millions of people working with the personal insult. If NPD had been the discussion, or its impact upon policy, I think she would have kept him in the news loop. <br /><br />Stormy Daniels' motive and the recent statement by the former doctor's motive is worth examining in the language. It goes beyond money grabs and is useful for instruction and learning. Human nature is endlessly fascinating. <br /><br />As to character, it may be that no one was worse than Gen. George Patton regarding character, morality and political "optics" (today's language). <br /><br />Was there someone better to get the ugly late 1944 early 1945 destruction of the Nazi war machine completed?<br /><br />I have been enjoying the history reflections by Victor Davis Hanson regarding Trump. He may be of interest here as he is not. personal fan, but an observer who can discuss multiculturalism of Ancient Rome or the French Revolution's faux moral stance and violence, as well as anyone, in applying it today's lessons. <br /><br />Peter<br /><br />http://victorhanson.comStatement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-90924499109997108532018-05-06T11:51:40.257-04:002018-05-06T11:51:40.257-04:00you mean Bill Clinton or Donald Trump? remember r...you mean Bill Clinton or Donald Trump? remember rape and consensual sex are not the same thing. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-14411717298118928712018-05-06T11:47:39.545-04:002018-05-06T11:47:39.545-04:00It doesn’t matter what the woman looks like. If a ...It doesn’t matter what the woman looks like. If a man is cheating, he lies and manipulates. He has one face for public life, and one for a hidden life. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-28124017682020019012018-05-06T03:20:14.140-04:002018-05-06T03:20:14.140-04:00Stormy is a plain-looking, bland-looking woman wit...Stormy is a plain-looking, bland-looking woman with large breast implants. It shows that Trump's taste in women evidently leans towards the VERY tawdry, not even reaching the level of trailer trash chic. TRump could never get an Anna Nicole Smith, he is scraping the bottom of the barrell with horse-faced women with over sized breast implants. Although Trump's taste does very occassionally oscillate towards the "gorgeous" (Melania),...he generally likes blonds with bland-looking faces and big boobs. Trump himself is not that attractive and so basically he is just reaching out for his own level of attractiveness/ Basically, it is so disgusting to picture Trump's sex life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-28262742891259248052018-05-06T00:02:25.107-04:002018-05-06T00:02:25.107-04:00Stormy Daniels is an actress, with a respectable i...Stormy Daniels is an actress, with a respectable image? I thought she did porn. And it seems pretty obvious that Trump paid her to be quiet. I’m confused, Trigger. We may be thinking of a different owoman. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-80931738872968427422018-05-05T21:13:38.687-04:002018-05-05T21:13:38.687-04:00I would love to see Stormy Daniel's statements...I would love to see Stormy Daniel's statements analyzed.<br /><br />Her story about being threatened by a man when she was taking her little girl to day care, seems so premeditated. The fact that she has a little girl bothers me. It would be easy to believe that she would exploit her child in that manner to gain sympathy and attention.<br /><br />She is a 40 year-old actress, who craves a respectable image, so she has to create a sensational story to seem vulnerable, credible, nurturing, hard working, and in need of protection for herself and her baby.<br /><br />She is needy, needly, needy.<br /><br /><br />Triggernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-89722695494577110992018-05-04T19:51:03.445-04:002018-05-04T19:51:03.445-04:00Absolutely of interest!Absolutely of interest!LuciaDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03658572205280231522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-71053859130642327522018-05-04T19:25:00.803-04:002018-05-04T19:25:00.803-04:00Peter, You have a lot of amazing insight into this...Peter, You have a lot of amazing insight into this topic & you are right on about almost everything. As a survivor of CSA myself, I can see, looking back, that I had PTSD even at a very young age. One of many symptoms I had was an abnormal lack of fear response even to life-threatening situations. As far as sexual harrassment, mostly I would tokerate it thinking that is what I deserved, with a few times in which I uncharacteristically responded with anger (I threw my drink in the face of a guy who was making disgusting remarks to me). But then I would feel guilty like I am bad for doing that. Personally I did not hyperreact to people flirting or misinterpret it as "harrassment". Flashbacks only occurred with men that I had actual deep feeliings for, tragically, which would cause aversion to their touch. I never thought they were harrassing me though--I knew it was me having flashbacks that had nothing to do with them or their actions. I had sex & emotion completely separated, & the 2 could not be combined without triggering weird stuff in my brain. Recovery & insight are possible I believe, but it is a long & painful road. Thank you for your work on this topic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-7519894993942956742018-05-04T12:40:34.488-04:002018-05-04T12:40:34.488-04:00I hope Kanye is seeing who his true friends are an...I hope Kanye is seeing who his true friends are and who are not. He travel outside the accepted narrative and tbe attacks were immedidiate. I hope he continues to stand and is sucessful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-50092293518992881152018-05-04T11:25:59.079-04:002018-05-04T11:25:59.079-04:00Thank you.
Brief analysis of "Stormy Daniel...Thank you. <br /><br />Brief analysis of "Stormy Daniels" and the President's doctor forthcoming...if of interest to anyone!<br /><br />Peter Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-38051030964263096532018-05-04T10:28:45.338-04:002018-05-04T10:28:45.338-04:00This is very powerful information! Thank You! This is very powerful information! Thank You! Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09965414208004689896noreply@blogger.com