tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post3755610646310964464..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Profile: Grandiose Liar Part One Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-56835810522091214282015-08-04T13:58:22.292-04:002015-08-04T13:58:22.292-04:00This entire site and topic have been fascinating a...This entire site and topic have been fascinating and educational, but right now I would swear you've followed around my former acquaintance/neighbor! It's actually startling all of the lights coming on, so many incidents and conversations explained at once. Just one minor example from literally dozens: She borrowed my truck when she was sold her house, downsized and got rid of a lot of junk. <br /><br />When Grandiose Liar brought back my keys, a second after greeting me, without my asking or saying a word she looked me straight in my eyes and said, "The truck was never out of my line of sight for a second and the keys never left my hands for a second, I swear to God!" and gave me a big, bright smile. <br /><br />I asked if she'd ever responded to "Secretary" who had called me a few times panicked he couldn't reach GL. (GL is notorious for doing this for no reason, yet getting livid when people don't call her back instantly, raging that their easily proven valid reasons are lies). <br />GL raises her voice, angrily snarling, "I've been driving back and forth all day long loading and unloading junk while Secretary just sat on his fat, lazy, worthless @$$ all day, so that's just too d*** bad if he needed me!" <br /><br />I said, "He wasn't trying to bother you; he was at the dump, couldn't get the tailgate open on my truck and had no idea where you were."<br /><br />You can probably picture this exactly: She raises and flaps her arms out in a dramatic STOP gesture, twitches her head a few times as if a hard object bopped her unexpectedly, and says in this angry, incredulous voice, "WHOA!!! Did you just call me a <i>LIAR</i>??!!?<br /><br />I said, "No, you just did."<br /><br />She immediately shifted to her plan B for every criticism,accusation, calling out,etc., and started screaming about how "ungrateful" I am, which she says about literally every single person she comes into contact with.foodnerdnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-1992909894157213952014-08-11T22:07:59.582-04:002014-08-11T22:07:59.582-04:00trustmeigetit,
I worked in HR the last part of my...trustmeigetit,<br /><br />I worked in HR the last part of my federal gov't tenure and some of my private industry tenure. <br /><br />The long and short of it is, I will never, (qualification) willingly, ever work for the PINK GHETTO (any woman dominate industry) again.<br /><br />Private industry: My reporting manager told me that one woman who *reported to her* had to have a say as to who was hired. The qualification being that if a woman, she couldn't be prettier than her. I'm talking within the *entire* (global) company.<br /><br />Another woman (same company) refused to show up to work until the head of Compensation had [them] reconfigure her office to be bigger and with a window. She refused to perform a certain portion of her job (counseling employees re exercised options) so she "lost" her entitlement to a proper office. That didn't matter. She refused to come back to work until they gave her a "big" office. <br /><br />And they did! Personally I would have told her to show up or consider her job abandoned -- and to consider her "self-approved" leave LWOP. But that's me. <br /><br />Oh and I hate "Survivor". The show that crap reality show everyone could only ever talk about at the "water cooler"... all day, every day.Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-58878385104318699662014-08-11T20:40:51.662-04:002014-08-11T20:40:51.662-04:00I had a boss like that…
And she did make my life ...I had a boss like that…<br /><br />And she did make my life hell…. <br /><br />I was a recruiter at the time for a large company. <br />When I started, having so many years in my field I didn’t need training and within days I was doing my job and doing it well. So much so most of the managers I supported complimented me to her.<br />I also quickly started getting calls from the groups she supported asking if she was in the office all the time (when she would be at her desk) because she didn’t return calls, answer emails and well, support them in in way.<br /><br />She would then rip me apart pretty much daily over anything I did. Even once she removed some resumes on my desk and freaked out on me for “doodling” on them. I do that when I would do my interviews. It was not anything bad, latterly doodles and even when I told her that I typed up my notes later and attached to a clean resume that I just doodle when I talk, she insisted I was incompetent.<br />It was like that for about a year. I used to cry on my way to work.<br />I finally went into her boss and said I was either quitting or I needed to move to a new group. Lucky for me she had turned in her notice.<br />What amazed me was she did NOTHING all day. Yet somehow managed to be highly regarded by senior leadership. I know this because the director that I complained too actually had also been promoted and was taking her with her. I found out later of course after the announcements were made.<br />I was just glad to be rid of her.<br />She did have one final jab. Since she had been my boss for most of the year, she was still tasked with doing my review. Despite the fact that I was in before her and stayed after her every day, and the fact that I didn’t ever do anything of a personal nature at work because she sat next to me and watched and listened to everything, she had the nerve to end my horrible review (said I didn’t meet even expectations in just about every category) by adding one last little tip for me. If ----- had less personal phone calls, she might be more productive at her job”<br /><br />I was so furious. Needless to say once she left I then got promoted based on merit. <br />She has since left the company and I noticed she has not held a leadership role since. She has taken a big step back. <br />trustmeigetithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05707304982363758140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-53456560942066107992014-08-11T19:27:01.102-04:002014-08-11T19:27:01.102-04:00http://www.wwltv.com/news/Robin-Williams-found-dea...http://www.wwltv.com/news/Robin-Williams-found-dead-in-home-270822521.html<br /><br />How terrible! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-52380630659449680062014-08-11T17:42:37.738-04:002014-08-11T17:42:37.738-04:00Here is a link to bags versus plastic jugs. It...Here is a link to bags versus plastic jugs. It's about volume sold/the bottom line. That's it.<br /><br />http://ottawacitizen.com/news/local-news/jugs-or-bags-the-milk-debate-rages-on-at-carleton-universityNichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-76212201352690333982014-08-11T17:37:25.874-04:002014-08-11T17:37:25.874-04:00Yet, people think that the government is always ri...<b>Yet, people think that the government is always right.</b><br /><br />Ever wonder why Canadians purchase milk in bags? Look up the legislation governing formats in which milk is *allowed* to be sold and you'll see that it is all about protecting the dairy farmer/controlling how much is sold. There is a "pilot project" being conducted in (?) Vancouver (?) right now to "monitor" selling 3 ltr plastic jugged milk (as opposed to the mL's we are forced to purchase via the 3-bag milk (between 3 and 4 litres). The tax payer is not allowed to choose whether they want the the 3 litre plastic jug or the 3 bag format because if we chose to purchase what was more convenient (the plastic jug) then we wouldn't purchase "enough" milk ($$ to dairy farmer). <br /><br />The reason Vancouver was chosen for the (cough, cough) pilot project is because they all drive over the Border to buy (cheaper) grocers and milk in.... plastic jugs! The merchants are losing money so the government is 'fixing' the situation with the make work, er, i mean, pilot project.<br /><br />Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-12954598172758317652014-08-11T16:14:10.402-04:002014-08-11T16:14:10.402-04:00I also identified many of these same traits with a...I also identified many of these same traits with a grandiose liar I knew, a past boyfriend. I also believe he was a socoipath (he has since passed away since I knew him) <br /><br />He however was not able to hold a job at all. He felt justified by claiming anxiety/panic with interactions with superiors. Maybe because they might call him on his behavior? He chose to rule the roost instead, and my pocket book. <br /><br />Some other common traits- he proclaimed how incredibly smart he was to me several times, although I had a hard time believing it. I believed he could be smart in a manipulative way, yes, but many of his behaviors, lies, immoral behavior, etc did not agree to my idea of intelligence. nonetheless I as naive and as book smart as I was, I was not street smart to realize all of his lies. <br /><br />He constantly lied, for no apparent reason, other to inflate his ego. I ran into a mutal friend of ours after we broke up, they were surprised to see me driving my car. I asked why.. and apparently my ex boyfriend had been bragging to this person that (my car I let him borrow) was his new car, the big screen tv I had purchased was also his, and a number of other possessions I owned as well.. there was no reason why he would have to tell these lies other than to make himself feel grand I suppose.<br /><br />He also refused to acknowledge guilt, or feel guilt for that matter, even if you caught him red handed or with blatant evidence. <br /><br />Indeed, I feel as though the whole relationship was a lie. <br /><br />Now I am on the look out for liars or sensitivities.. not because it's in my own behavior to lie but because I was exposed to a liar for so long and I was so naive, it fueled a part of me to learn more about this matter to which I am so naive to. <br /><br /><br />REKnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-86181466294405191852014-08-11T12:54:11.212-04:002014-08-11T12:54:11.212-04:00https://gma.yahoo.com/mother-hot-car-death-being-t...https://gma.yahoo.com/mother-hot-car-death-being-treated-victim-134338536--abc-news-topstories.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-55215063231861963092014-08-11T12:20:32.859-04:002014-08-11T12:20:32.859-04:00Peter said: Combine the narcissistic, passive-agg...<b>Peter said: Combine the narcissistic, passive-aggressive grandiose liar with some authority over how you feed your children and this is what you get. Yet, people think that the government is always right. <br /></b><br /><br />I know a high-level bureaucrat in the Cdn federal government who this describes. She lies about everything! Like real simple stuff that I can hold up an email to her on my iPhone and *show* her that her written words contradict her spoken words! i.e., "miscommunication" about sleepovers between our girls. She has even smiled at me when she knew that I knew she was lying! Professionally she complains that other managers are "poaching" her division and "because of them", she has to "forever" hold competitions for new staff. (It couldn't possibly be because of her management style./sarcasm (her husband insists that she not touch her Blackberry outside of work and/or when on vacation because she cannot put it down/stop "managing" her (professional/highly paid) employees). Don't talk about politics. She hates the prime minister and it's all his fault they are going to through cuts. (No, cuts are decided by the Deputy Minister (in charge of the 'administration/day-to-day activities of her government department) based purely on the business case presented to him from HER boss.) But you can't tell her that! No way! And she knows everything because her job is to implement the policy and legislations that governs a certain food agency. So don't talk to her about blah-blah. You are treated as insubordinate and chastised and made to feel 'stupid' and yelled over if you dare talk back! She keeps her daughter up at the cottage in the summertime and ferries girls to her (rarely the other way around (see "miscommunication")). Her and her husband made a 'deal' that they both quit their jobs and move east (from BC) and take positions requiring less responsibility/time away from the kids. He sold a successful construction business and she was a high-profiled federal gov't employee. Within two years of moving east, she competed to where she was before they moved and travels more than she ever did. Her husband has stayed true to his word. He has also been loud about this betrayal, which she counters more loudly that the bills have to be paid somehow! Between moving and summer "schedules", it's been easy to drop this girl from my daughter's network. I can foresee the power struggle between her and her mother and the other girl ending up in the wrong place doing the wrong thing out of rebellion. I don't want my kid caught in the crossfire and LYING and then being blamed because God forbid the woman take responsibility for conditioning her kid to lie. (Kids are like a wet bar of soap. The tighter you grip the wet bar, the harder it is to keep hold of it.) We share a common friend and sometimes find ourselves attending the same luncheons; otherwise I wouldn't have anything to do with her.Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4902492200850931842014-08-11T11:31:06.546-04:002014-08-11T11:31:06.546-04:00*Gammy, excuse me*Gammy, excuse meAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-22278689431618064822014-08-11T11:22:20.994-04:002014-08-11T11:22:20.994-04:00Baby Gabby's father gives statement of apology...Baby Gabby's father gives statement of apology to children he's sexually abused (this is the Australian couple who abandoned the twin with Down's Syndrome, leaving her with the impoverished surrogate in another country.)<br />The father, as it turns out, is a pedophile!!!<br />Of course, he claims his own daughter would be safe with him.<br />http://www.kidspot.com.au/community/thread/baby-gammy-what-do-you-think-of-the-parents-interview-on-60-minutes/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-91313603583422761342014-08-11T10:40:21.399-04:002014-08-11T10:40:21.399-04:00Stark3923 add another photographer to your list:
C...Stark3923 add another photographer to your list:<br />Christopher WilderC5H11ONOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01081979197453633522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-7103800162063357362014-08-11T07:47:49.994-04:002014-08-11T07:47:49.994-04:00"I'm neither Republican nor Democratic in..."I'm neither Republican nor Democratic in allegiance."<br /><br />"in allegiance" is unnecessary additional information. <br /><br />There may be others ways the writer is Republican or Democratic.Chipmunk!noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-33110251766727446092014-08-11T07:40:38.191-04:002014-08-11T07:40:38.191-04:00I did not write the comments at 9:02 pm or 3:37 am...I did not write the comments at 9:02 pm or 3:37 am. I'll try a blogger profile from now on.Buckleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04087082956705159705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-8798535559355931652014-08-11T01:58:36.857-04:002014-08-11T01:58:36.857-04:00Peter- Are there defining differences between the ...Peter- Are there defining differences between the Grandiose Liar and the Narcissist?<br /><br />We're dealing with a family member who monopolizes nearly every conversation with her stories. In each one she is the hero, the smartest, the only one who could solve the problem (regardless of the problem). In each one, she's being praised by others. She's always portrayed as the smartest, wisest; the best at whatever. She's constantly butting into other family members' conversations. She offers unsolicited advice, as if she's an expert. She absolutely will not admit she's wrong, even when directly confronted with evidence of her error.<br />She's always told us that her family doesn't treat her well because they are jealous of her or don't like her because she's so moral. We've begun to suspect it's because she's such a braggart, know-it-all, etc.<br /><br />Lately, she's taken to telling perfect strangers how her children were the only ones in her extensive family that their Grandfather adored. She's bored perfect strangers at social events, with her favorite subject...herself. We've caught her literally changing our actual less-than-perfect life experiences into a more flattering version, in which we (her family members) were the adored friend, teammate, etc. We're always the best-behaved, brightest, etc.<br />Her stories often revolve around her putting a child/niece/nephew in their place (she was a teacher), telling a worker off, "correcting" some perceived disrespect/slight. <br />We're exhausted running interference and rescuing captive audiences. Our family motto has become "Distract and Divert" when she launches into her spiel.<br />How do we tell if she's a garden variety Narcissist or actually a Grandiose Liar? SuzyQnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-43992159226623626072014-08-10T21:01:41.124-04:002014-08-10T21:01:41.124-04:00off topic
Michigan authorities are closing the in...off topic<br /><br />Michigan authorities are closing the investigation into 18-year-old Hayley Turner's claim she was abducted along a road and held hostage for 16 hours, saying it never happened.<br /><br />The Monroe County sheriff's department says a detective and an FBI agent re-interviewed the woman Sunday and 'determined that the incident did not take place.'<br /><br />The department says it's forwarding a report to the county prosecutor's office for review.<br /><br />The department says the woman earlier reported being abducted after stopping her car when she saw someone lying along a road Thursday night. The site is in Bedford Township, just north of Ohio.<br /><br />Ecorse police Cpl. Chris Trevino tells the Detroit Free Press that a driver saw the woman jump from the vehicle in the Detroit suburb Friday afternoon before it sped away.<br /><br />Earlier this week, southeastern Michigan was relieved when Hayley Turner was found after a 17-hour air and ground search on Thursday.<br /><br />She was 40 miles from home when she was seen jumping out of a moving vehicle in Ecorse after making a chilling call in which she claimed a man with a gun was approaching her<br /><br />According to Click on Detroit, Turner gave the homeowner her mother's cell phone number before the homeowner drove her to the Ecorse Police Department.<br /><br />Initially police believed Turner may have been abducted when she disappeared after a phone conversations with a friend that was cut off.<br /><br />Indeed, authorities became worried when they learned that Turner had spent Wednesday going about routine tasks.<br /><br />She had gone to a local video store to rent some movies and spoke to her friend as she headed home around 10pm.<br /><br />A rental receipt would show that the Notre Dame Academy student had rented Muppets Most Wanted and Divergent.<br /><br />Employees would later tell the authorities that she was happy and smiling.<br /><br />Then on her drive home, she told her friend that she had spotted a man lying in a ditch and that she was going to check on him.<br /><br />'Seconds later, Hayley told her friend "he has a gun" and the phone was disconnected,' Monroe County Sheriff Dale Malone related to reporters at a news conference.<br /><br />Police now believe this to be false, however, it did not stop a huge search being launched that utilized dogs, helicopters, and even enlisted FBI agents.<br /><br />Turner's family said the girl had been struggling with some emotional issues this year.<br /><br />Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2721543/BREAKING-NEWS-It-never-happened-Michigan-teen-claimed-abducted-16-hours-mysterious-man-gun-LYING-police-say-close-investigation.html<br /><br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-67103365984699379752014-08-10T20:30:18.109-04:002014-08-10T20:30:18.109-04:00OMG! This completely describes an ex of mine! He...OMG! This completely describes an ex of mine! He never actually achieved any professional positions of authority (although one of the most provably false series of lies he told were about his fascinating jobs he [never] had) but woe betide anyone with the misfortune to be his friend or family. :-/Katprintnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-30111313382898346042014-08-10T20:02:23.683-04:002014-08-10T20:02:23.683-04:00OT
Anybody ever seen Billie Jean Dunn's faceb...OT<br /><br />Anybody ever seen Billie Jean Dunn's facebook comments? Not only does she profess animosity towards Peter and his defenders, but she also has a habit of not hitting the space bar after punctuation. I found that interesting.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-48300372060647127992014-08-10T18:10:25.449-04:002014-08-10T18:10:25.449-04:00Dark headed guy above the moorers, is pilly jean d...Dark headed guy above the moorers, is pilly jean dumbs old attorney who was arrested with a weapon and dui chargeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-50645376045009846302014-08-10T16:21:10.627-04:002014-08-10T16:21:10.627-04:00Blogger stark3923 said...
WHY does any1 think...Blogger stark3923 said...<br /><br /> WHY does any1 think Mark Redwine murdered his son Dylan?<br /><br /> (police found only 3% of remains)<br /> (dad had mental breakdown 1 yr after remains found)<br /><br /> August 10, 2014 at 3:58 PM<br /><br />Leave your comment<br /><br />I remember reading that Mark Redwine was mean to Dylan.<br />A mental breakdown doesn't prove innocence anymore than it means guilt.<br /> <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-22227827694534043212014-08-10T15:58:07.995-04:002014-08-10T15:58:07.995-04:00WHY does any1 think Mark Redwine murdered his son ...WHY does any1 think Mark Redwine murdered his son Dylan? <br /><br />(police found only 3% of remains)<br />(dad had mental breakdown 1 yr after remains found)stark3923https://www.blogger.com/profile/10931441359708986895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-53951794596062307072014-08-10T15:55:57.751-04:002014-08-10T15:55:57.751-04:00Does this mean all grandiose liars are sociopaths?...Does this mean all grandiose liars are sociopaths?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4337238342460092392014-08-10T15:50:19.844-04:002014-08-10T15:50:19.844-04:00Interesting comment about photographers and liars....Interesting comment about photographers and liars.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-47371917348747755482014-08-10T15:49:17.778-04:002014-08-10T15:49:17.778-04:00http://motorsportstalk.nbcsports.com/2014/08/10/ra...http://motorsportstalk.nbcsports.com/2014/08/10/racetrack-owner-on-fatal-incident-i-cant-see-that-anybody-wouldve-done-anything-intentional-like-that/<br /><br />This is a very disturbing statement.<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-24332060699741527382014-08-10T15:40:34.920-04:002014-08-10T15:40:34.920-04:00I now get why the MOORE'S are pictured in this...I now get why the MOORE'S are pictured in this blog..."his past didnt show violence of record even though we know the perpetrator has spent his lifetime of being deceptive etc just as this blog points out.<br /><br />Kirk Truslow, an attorney for Sidney Moorer, called the case "extremely circumstantial at best" and said "nothing pointed towards tendency of violence" on the part of his client.<br /><br />Thank you all for answering my questions....i am a very long time reader....and I love reading all your comments !!<br />stark3923https://www.blogger.com/profile/10931441359708986895noreply@blogger.com