tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post4288141928613305042..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Love Interest Follow Up Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger63125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-33277485035818389222013-12-22T00:27:01.257-05:002013-12-22T00:27:01.257-05:00PS: You don't go around marking your husband...PS: You don't go around marking your husband as your own territory unless you are terribly insecure or have reason to be. <br /><br /> Anon "I"noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-81268953945127608022013-12-22T00:15:14.327-05:002013-12-22T00:15:14.327-05:00I say she's not interested. Maybe she is bei...I say she's not interested. Maybe she is being polite because they have to work together. If she cared, she would keep him texting with more questions to keep him engaged in communicating with her. Her answers are short and not inviting of further responses.<br /><br />Facebook topic: Reason # 540,998 not to be on Facebook. People don't need to be trotting out their personal insecurities. I would think the three children would be proof enough of a solid marriage if they were happy together. The Facebooker is trying to convince herself of what a magnificent husband she has and is probably craving validation from others. All IMHO.Anon "I"noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-86531430933967905772013-12-19T23:28:07.344-05:002013-12-19T23:28:07.344-05:00It was weird! Not only that he asked for prayers ...It was weird! Not only that he asked for prayers when he apparently knew the layoff was temporary...but that he posted ANYTHING about it publicly on FB knowing his wife was a jealousy freak. <br /><br />Plus, I purposely sent the info about the open positions by private message...partly to respect his privacy, but mostly so that my husband wouldn't be bombarded with more applicants who would be a waste of time. That means he had to show her the mesaage, and I can't imagine why he would knowing she would flip out. <br /><br />Who knows what's wrong with some people, I guess they just live for drama and games?!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-63447248132708055602013-12-19T18:36:14.060-05:002013-12-19T18:36:14.060-05:00Anon @ 6:03--I was unaware of that incident regard...Anon @ 6:03--I was unaware of that incident regarding John having a post deleted.<br />John's grammar idiosyncracies are identical to the trolls.<br />Also, John always struck me as being a wolf in sheep's clothing. His self-effacing personality did not strike me as genuine.<br />John (troll) is high intelligence, emotionally stunted and pretends to have between 3-5 personalities.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-51986001086398740342013-12-19T17:23:51.518-05:002013-12-19T17:23:51.518-05:00Thank you guys for the feedback on facebook posts....Thank you guys for the feedback on facebook posts.<br />Jen, that is odd that you mentioned that guy asked for prayers bc he'd lost his job, and then it turned out he still had a job. My cousin did the exact same thing today on FB. She asked for prayers bc she had lost her job through no fault of her own. Since she has a daughter who she supports partially 2 people suggested foodstamps and said there is no shame in this. She responded immediately saying she has a job but the hours are uncertain.<br />In the case you sited it is so obvious the wife is overcompensating. I would have been freaked out to get that email from her too!!<br />I feel that public declarations of love of one's spouse who lives in the same house are strongly indicative of something VERY wrong in the marriage.<br />Anon J--I am glad you brought up religious postings. People who regularly post them are in the same category as people who chronically post about how blessed they are and gratitude. These people are intensely miserable and also very self-centered as you pointed out.<br />What you wrote about offering extra info is true. One guy I know who gushes about wife and wife gushes back--I am pretty sure he is a closeted homosexual.<br />There is a woman who brags everyday about how much she sacrifices for her kids, but actually one of them will not speak to her.<br />It is crazy bc it seems to be a "Fakebook". <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-81900854101662452222013-12-19T11:28:02.203-05:002013-12-19T11:28:02.203-05:00About FB declarations...
A few months ago my husb...About FB declarations...<br /><br />A few months ago my husband needed to hire a few new employees, but he was having a hard time finding qualified applicants who could also pass the background check. (It was seriously shocking how many he interviewed who flat out lied about their qualifications, education and criminal background.)<br /><br />Around the same time, I saw on FB that a highschool classmate had been laid off from his job. He posted it publicly, as a request for prayers. I sent him a PRIVATE message, telling him my husband had some openings to fill, and gave his daytime contact info. The guy sent me a message within minutes saying thanks, but that the lay off was rumored to be temporary, and he asked if he could pass the info along to coworkers who were also laid off. <br /><br />About an hour later, I got a friend request from his wife. I accepted it, and her message popped up telling me to mind my own business, and declaring twice that they were 'HAPPILY MARRIED' (in all caps). I replied that I didn't mean to overstep, and was only trying to help...and she shot back, 'we have 3 wonderful children, and a HAPPY home without any help from you'. (Again capitalized, emphasis on the HAPPY.)<br /><br />The next day the guy sent me a message saying he appreciated the lead, and was sorry his wife had contacted me. He said they were 'on the rocks', and that she's jealous of everyone. Funny thing is, she posts 5-10 overly gushing, 'my husband is my life and reason for breathing' posts a week, with lots of TMI about their 'date nights'. She ends almost every one with, 'God, I love THAT man'...which always makes me giggle.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-19950807867340206112013-12-19T08:50:24.552-05:002013-12-19T08:50:24.552-05:00Anons 6:56, 6:24 and 2:25,
"What I wonder ab...Anons 6:56, 6:24 and 2:25,<br /><br />"What I wonder about is if they are genuine professions of love.<br />I often think it is more to let others know: this guy loves me and I love him!"<br /><br />You are quite right to be suspicious about these public and open declarations of love and admiration. It's been my experience that these people need others to see their marriage or relationships as over the top wonderful in hopes that it might eventually become true. <br /><br />Two of my facebook friends are/were always posting like this about 'my wonderful husband' and how great their marriage is (and how pretty much every boring-ass thing they do is so awesome.) One couple is getting divorced, the other found out her husband was cheating on her. Another friend is always posting about how proud she is of her son and what a wonderful man he's grown to be and how thankful she is to have given birth to him. They've been estranged for years and he barely speaks to her-- they're not even friends on FB. Another friend/aquaintence posts continuously about the love of Christ and the Grace of God. She is one of the most unpleasant and self centered women I know.<br /><br />It's like people we discuss here, when they're giving information nobody asked for we need to question why they want us to know.<br />Anon JAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-76942577842988756882013-12-18T21:38:54.957-05:002013-12-18T21:38:54.957-05:00He's not willing to make an effort and she'...He's not willing to make an effort and she's not willing to commit to anything. Sounds like they deserve each other. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-48813536754532181732013-12-18T21:15:53.419-05:002013-12-18T21:15:53.419-05:00Nic--I hear you, but I will not pay for any date. ...Nic--I hear you, but I will not pay for any date. We ladies put up with so much BS from guys, there is no way I am paying a dime to be in their company.<br />Although, there was one guy I slways insisted on paying my half of the bill, not sure why, that was the one exception.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-42899229842114932622013-12-18T20:33:48.606-05:002013-12-18T20:33:48.606-05:00PETER!
WHAT WAS THE TWIST OF FATE?PETER!<br />WHAT WAS THE TWIST OF FATE?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-9026146813344634642013-12-18T20:18:56.704-05:002013-12-18T20:18:56.704-05:00Hobs, I agree with your analysis. She did not mak...Hobs, I agree with your analysis. She did not make a reliable denial. She didn't specify WHOM. In other words, she could be referencing anybody but the "subject".Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-67804323940600118702013-12-18T20:17:53.564-05:002013-12-18T20:17:53.564-05:00Anon @ December 17, 2013 at 7:47 PM
LOL agreed. ...Anon @ December 17, 2013 at 7:47 PM<br /><br />LOL agreed. Be proper. <br /><br />Anon @ December 17, 2013 at 9:21 PM<br /><br />No sure about the "horrible in bed" observation. But I'm of the opinion that whomever asks, pays. i.e., If I were to ask someone out for coffee, it would be on me. If a man were to ask me out and it played out as you described, I would not go out with him again. Selfish and stingy does not a good combination make. i.e., no compromise -- which, is *the* crux of any good relationship. And to think that that is the best it would ever be. Run ladies!Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-47930581950515794352013-12-18T18:56:04.132-05:002013-12-18T18:56:04.132-05:00Anon @ 6:24--I agree they are very tacky.
Some I...Anon @ 6:24--I agree they are very tacky. <br />Some I've seen are wife thanking hubby for a gift, telling him how wonderful he is and saying I love you.<br />What I wonder about is if they are genuine professions of love.<br />I often think it is more to let others know: this guy loves me and I love him!<br />Maybe I'm wrong. Just wonder what others think.<br />I just think it's weird to communicate this publically to one's spouse who lives in the same house--not sure why.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-77096092359408644832013-12-18T18:24:33.406-05:002013-12-18T18:24:33.406-05:00To answer your question Anon @ 2:25, I think these...To answer your question Anon @ 2:25, I think these openly public face book expressions of love between a husband and wife are very tacky. I would be tempted to interject my own, "get a room."<br /><br />It's one thing to wish ones' spouse a happy anniversary or a happy birthday on face book, but quite another to publically work up a sweat of public display like two love-sick slobbering puppies. No class. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-40724274394061941952013-12-18T18:09:18.281-05:002013-12-18T18:09:18.281-05:00Ha...! I think most of you women don't have t...Ha...! I think most of you women don't have the slightest idea how an experienced woman plays the cat & mouse 'catch me if you can love-game.' I've played it many times and I can guarantee you that if she wasn't interested she would have already made it clear. WHICH, she has not done. <br /><br />He was very clear with her when he commented "if you're not interested just say so" and she didn't. Based on her lack of discouraging him she is encouraging him. I'll be interested to know what is the next step in his rather laid-back pursuit of her. <br /><br />He's not the dummy some of you seem to think he is. She is playing her options like a fine-tuned game, has other men who are interested in her, and will go out with him if he hangs in there and plays his cards right. I'd lay money on it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-9957929237402008022013-12-18T14:25:18.162-05:002013-12-18T14:25:18.162-05:00Anon @ 1:09,
I agree but here in America everyone...Anon @ 1:09,<br /><br />I agree but here in America everyone texts. It's almost like people are afraid of talking on the phone. Very lame.<br /><br />Also, I have a question for anyone who would like to answer: What do you guys make of declarations of love from husband to wife or wife to husband on facebook? I'm not only talking about the "to my wonderful, gorgeous, unbelievably amazing husband who can leap tall buildings in a single bound, I love you" type posts. What about less flowery posts that publicly tell the other that they love them (even though they live in the same house). Just curious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-28145531602296643072013-12-18T13:09:48.792-05:002013-12-18T13:09:48.792-05:00´´Hey if you´re not interested just say so´´ is so...´´Hey if you´re not interested just say so´´ is so incredibly aggressive and rude. This guy is horrible. Note to guys, everything this guy does is a turn off. They aren´t even dating and he´s trying to tell her how to interact with him. He comes across as disrespectful and full of himself. Why is he so insecure that he keeps needing to know what SHE wants? He should be telling her what he wants and THEN he will see whether she´s interested or not. He needs way too much encouragement from her ' he´s really NOT that into her ' and she knows it!<br /><br />She respects herself and her job. However she shouldn´t even have to justify not meeting up with him, let alone explain her finances or habits.<br /><br />The whole interaction is SO weird from a European POV anyway. Texting is NOT for asking someone out! He should phone her. How old is he??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-15195264501150898692013-12-18T05:37:32.631-05:002013-12-18T05:37:32.631-05:00Why are they texting? Pick up the damn phone and ...Why are they texting? Pick up the damn phone and have a grown up conversation. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-50932969946155733562013-12-18T05:25:18.999-05:002013-12-18T05:25:18.999-05:00there's been an update...
stay tuned.
A tw...there's been an update...<br /><br />stay tuned. <br /><br />A twist of fate has taken placeStatement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-31772732751335611482013-12-18T01:36:13.365-05:002013-12-18T01:36:13.365-05:00I meant Sunday at 1am.....not pm
The second the w...I meant Sunday at 1am.....not pm<br /><br />The second the wedding was over she wanted to to see him. <br />shelleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-128302527516306812013-12-18T01:30:23.118-05:002013-12-18T01:30:23.118-05:00She is not interested.
if she was, she would make...She is not interested.<br /><br />if she was, she would make an effort.<br /><br />she does however work with him so just flat out saying "im not interested" is more difficult. <br /><br />She is trying to be nice but is just flat out not interested.<br /><br />When he asked her out, even if she really had to work friday night (unlikely but still) if she was interested she would have led into another option (since like I said before, if someoje is interested they will make the time) such as....<br /><br />I have to work late but should be done by 9pm<br /><br />or I have to work late friday, but Im am free saturday.<br /><br />for those that read my last post in part one of this discussion.... <br /><br />I mentioned a friend that like me, knew the firat date that he met the one... I want to share the first weekend.<br /><br />He met her Friday night (initially met on match.com).he plays sports and his team had a tournament that night. He did it this day just in case it was weird. He had 30 mins. They did hit it off....<br /><br />she was in a wedding the next day. Since she was in it, the day started early, hair..makeup etc.... the wedding was at 6pm. So pretty much meant her day was consumed.<br /><br />so they made plans to have lunch sunday.<br /><br />sunday am at about 1pm she texted him said the wedding was over and asking if he was sill up.....<br /><br />he was and rather than wait till the next she went straight to him.<br /><br />poimt is... when u are really interested, uyou will make time to see the person. Mo matter what.month<br /><br />your not too busy. You will make it happen.<br />shelleynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-44921325846101342092013-12-17T23:20:28.356-05:002013-12-17T23:20:28.356-05:00thats because if i pay for it, im gonna get my mon...thats because if i pay for it, im gonna get my money's worthAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-25562990202385336962013-12-17T23:06:47.748-05:002013-12-17T23:06:47.748-05:00I don't think corruption is unusual in Italian...I don't think corruption is unusual in Italian investigations, I think it is a way of life. One of the most realistic depictions of the corruption in Italian policing was written by the British author Michael Didbin, who wrote the Aurelio Zen detective novels. Ironically he spent 4 years teaching at the university in Perugia. Skepticalnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-55190203176096855942013-12-17T21:38:54.073-05:002013-12-17T21:38:54.073-05:00Hobnob, I respect your opinion. I am not sure wha...Hobnob, I respect your opinion. I am not sure what I believe about Amanda Knox. I just think what the Italians do is pretty darn close to double jeopardy. She served 6 years in prison, so what will they do resentence her? I'm not sure it's ethical to have a justice system that operates that way. A person should be found "innocent" or "guilty" in my opinion. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4297262714981742162013-12-17T21:29:27.810-05:002013-12-17T21:29:27.810-05:00Yes. Such a strange case. The dad is laying low ...Yes. Such a strange case. The dad is laying low and doesn't refute abuse allegations by boyfriend's dad, and neither parent Is pleading with the abductor. Then, the letter from Abby...who allows captives to write home these days? Fritzl- a dad. Anyone else? Hoping and prayingnoreply@blogger.com