tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post4323892896542258449..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Statement Posted by Cynthia WhitlatchStatement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger38125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-80246174005639935032015-01-31T20:39:21.161-05:002015-01-31T20:39:21.161-05:00Using "because" is a reason to explain. ...Using "because" is a reason to explain. A truthful denial would be I didn't sleep with (specific name of woman). She needs to ask him what "sleeping with" means to him..TxTchrnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-53525316440987211842015-01-31T18:13:26.957-05:002015-01-31T18:13:26.957-05:00Eight times she said black! Wow! I'm surprised...Eight times she said black! Wow! I'm surprised she didn't pull out her gun and mow him down.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-35253764489384055302015-01-31T17:58:02.206-05:002015-01-31T17:58:02.206-05:00This woman is an idiot! Bar none!
Perhaps she shou...This woman is an idiot! Bar none!<br />Perhaps she should lay off the TV a while as it seems her rage at this man was based on controversy in a state far, far away.<br /><br />White people are out to get black people and make them paranoid. White people like her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-75949275671589843692015-01-31T17:55:03.176-05:002015-01-31T17:55:03.176-05:00Thanks to those of you that commented about my iss...Thanks to those of you that commented about my issues with my husband. Your feedback really helped. <br /><br />i have asked a few more direct questions and everytime it was "no I did not..."<br /><br />Feeling fairly strong it was not more than flirting. <br /><br />Still a betrayal.<br /><br />He even say down and apologized to our son and told him dad was wrong. Our son heard me crying and arguing about it and came out very upset that cheating was bad. <br /><br />We will be doing counseling and I know we have a lot of healing...for now again...thanks everyone for your comments. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-35535724938329008962015-01-30T23:00:02.759-05:002015-01-30T23:00:02.759-05:00I could not watch the whole video. For me, it was ...I could not watch the whole video. For me, it was clear that she was lying and clear that we all watched a grave injustice. I immediately saw that this man was using his golf club for a cane. People, any people, any color, have a right to walk down the street without being subject to harassment followed by arrest. I couldn't watch him get arrested. It made my stomach hurt. :( Someone needs to remind Ms Whitlatch that a 70 yr old man in broad daylight has nothing in common with Ferguson night-time looters & rioters. Karen Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12275704112867765035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-36154076922680783032015-01-30T22:39:40.310-05:002015-01-30T22:39:40.310-05:00And also, tell him at this point he needs to delet...And also, tell him at this point he needs to delete his pinterest account.<br />Tell him you're not interested in staying with a man who goes on pinterest because that's more for women who want to pin objects they like or clothes they like.<br />I am saying this to you not to put your husband down, but because he does not need to have a pinterest account and I am trying to inject a little humor also.<br />He is a husband and a father. He doesn't need to waste time on pinterest.<br />Tell him he can check cnn or sports or the weather but other than that he needs to spend his time being a husband and a father.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-5197092867485525162015-01-30T22:31:13.204-05:002015-01-30T22:31:13.204-05:00Anon 6;45,
I think "because I'm not lyin...Anon 6;45,<br /><br />I think "because I'm not lying" is a fairly strong denial.<br />I had seen what you posted the other day about the pinterest thing, and, from what you described, it does not sound like he was looking to take it much further, more like on-line flirting to boost his ego and perhaps a bit of escapism from reality.<br /> <br />Tell him to cut the crap.<br /><br />Gather your inner strength, and tell him he needs to respect you, and that you are a beautiful kind person and that he needs to treat you with full respect or get out. Be firm. Stand up for yourself. Tell him to cut the crap.<br />As hurtful as his behavior is, if he were really looking to cheat, I don't think pinterest is the place to get results. <br />Demand respect for you and your marriage.<br />Tell him to cut the crap. Tell him to stop his ridiculous online flirting on pinterest. Take back your power and put him in his place. Say, "yeah, you're a real stud flirting on pinterest. How about now you start acting like a real man and respect me and our marriage or get the hell out."<br />Falconwingsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-43958543105055984582015-01-30T18:45:03.826-05:002015-01-30T18:45:03.826-05:00Thanks Hobbs. I used that phrase as we both us tha...Thanks Hobbs. I used that phrase as we both us that phrase for sex. But I can see how he could lie well under that mind set. <br /><br />We are for sure going to counseling. We have kids together and in all honestly, our relationship has been going through a rough patch. <br /><br />Thoughts on that denial. If I ask that again directly with "did you have sex"<br /><br />Is "because I'm not lying" the same as "because I'm telling the truth"<br /><br />He's been crying a lot so I know regardless he regrets this. But for my own sanity I will contine to ask. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-18160647884543005722015-01-30T13:19:34.679-05:002015-01-30T13:19:34.679-05:00This video really upsets me. I couldn't get an...This video really upsets me. I couldn't get any sound the first time I watched it, and when I read the comments, I was shocked to learn that there even was a golf club involved, because I thought he was holding/using a cane when a I watched it without sound! <br /><br />Then I watched it on youtube, and after listening to her best excuse, (which was that he swung it at the other corner) I am still baffled as to why she would feel she had a legitimate reason to stop him. She alleges he swung it, not that he hit her, or her vehicle with it. He is a 70 yo man on foot, she is in a moving vehicle. At no time was she in danger, even if he did swing it. <br /><br />Swung means that contact was not made, so what is her problem? If he swung it, in an effort to insult or challenge her, does she have nothing better to do? He isn't slinging dope, or attacking innocent people walking down the street. He posed no immediate threat to her, or others. At best, (*meaning her claim that he 'swung' it earlier was actually true) this was solely about her ego, and her perception that he showed disrespect toward her. <br /><br />Combine that with her FB rant, and it's not hard to conclude that she was 100% in the wrong. Shame on her!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-16072233534777317162015-01-30T11:48:01.207-05:002015-01-30T11:48:01.207-05:00It is awful that they did nothing until she posted...It is awful that they did nothing until she posted on Facebook. I am guessing without the mayor demanding it the department would still have done nothing. At least she is now off the streets and being investigated. I look forward to statements from her and others in LE.GeekRadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-31447263070002089252015-01-30T11:17:47.047-05:002015-01-30T11:17:47.047-05:00They did NOTHING about her lying about the 70 year...They did NOTHING about her lying about the 70 year old man.<br /><br />They only ACTED when she posted on FB!!Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-90869705784806221302015-01-30T10:51:22.796-05:002015-01-30T10:51:22.796-05:00Thanks you for the links Lisa. I cannot believe th...Thanks you for the links Lisa. I cannot believe the police department defended her.GeekRadnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-88476738397102346372015-01-30T09:11:23.100-05:002015-01-30T09:11:23.100-05:00Statement Analysis should be used to screen out po...Statement Analysis should be used to screen out potential officers in the application process. <br /><br />It is something that training makes a huge difference. Corporate America benefits from it. <br /><br />PeterStatement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4702219956818537142015-01-30T09:09:51.602-05:002015-01-30T09:09:51.602-05:00Thanks, Lisa.
Given what she did to the 70 year...Thanks, Lisa. <br /><br />Given what she did to the 70 year old vet, followed by what she wrote, "racist" is the right description. <br /><br />When someone is handcuffed, they are vulnerable in a way that is acute. <br />When someone is handcuffed and knows that he did nothing wrong, he feels that he has no "appeal"; that is, no one to help him. <br /><br />He might suffer for the rest of his life from nightmares, and so on. <br /><br />I hope to post an article about this soon. <br /><br />PeterStatement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-35239444897533714282015-01-30T08:49:18.554-05:002015-01-30T08:49:18.554-05:00***SPOILER***
Ex-Tukwila Cop Says SPD Officer Cyn...***SPOILER***<br /><br />Ex-Tukwila Cop Says SPD Officer Cynthia Whitlatch Is "a Racist" Who Once "Stole Marijuana" from Police Evidence<br />http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2015/01/29/ex-tukwila-cop-says-spd-officer-cynthia-whitlatch-is-a-racist-who-once-stole-marijuana-from-police-evidence<br /><br />Dash Cam Video Shows Seattle Cop Falsified Charge Against Elderly Man Walking Down Street (Updated)<br />http://photographyisnotacrime.com/2015/01/dash-cam-video-shows-seattle-cop-falsified-charge-elderly-man-walking-street/<br /><br />SPD reviewing officer who posted troubling comments, arrested man with golf club<br />http://www.kirotv.com/news/news/spd-offers-apology-after-allegations-false-arrest/njycw/<br /><br />SPD Officer Removed from Street Duty as Elderly Vet Says He Was Arrested Because He's Black<br />http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2015/01/29/spd-officer-removed-from-street-duty-as-elderly-vet-says-she-arrested-him-because-hes-blackLisahttp://noparole4pedophile.weebly.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-86203916608875428802015-01-30T04:47:32.572-05:002015-01-30T04:47:32.572-05:00This officer is projecting. Her own sense of perse...This officer is projecting. Her own sense of persecution skews her reality. The man did not swing the golf club. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-47751554686183332342015-01-30T01:29:55.779-05:002015-01-30T01:29:55.779-05:00Anonymous said...
SA experts need help!!
...<b>Anonymous said...<br /><br /> SA experts need help!!<br /><br /> Me "did you sleep with her?"<br /> Him "no I didnt"<br /> Me "why should I beleive you"<br /> Him "because I'm not lying to you"<br /><br /> Bad place. Need help. Is this strong like "because I'm telling the truth" or different</b><br /><br />Firstly i would not have asked did you sleep with her?<br />The whole idea of sex is to stay awake during the proceedings.<br />If he stayed awake then technically he did not 'sleep' with her.<br />A better question would have been did you have sexual contact with her?<br /><br />Anything in the negative is sensitive. <br />Rather than telling you what he is doing, he tells you what he is not doing.<br /><br />His excuse may be the word sleep, he stayed awake rather than he fell asleep.<br /><br />Sexual contact is a catch all phrase, covering a wide range of activities.<br />You may have to get into specifics such as did you kiss her?<br />Did she kiss you?<br />Did you have sexual intercourse?<br />Did you have penetrative intercourse?<br /><br />The phrase sexual contact could depend on his definition of sexual contact and whether he was the proactive one or whether she was the one making all the moves.<br /><br />Your questions would be in response to his answers and using only language he has introduced.<br /><br />If you have found incriminating evidence, he needs to know this is serious and perhaps relationship counselling is needed to find out where the issues are, how they can be resolved if at all.<br />It means he has to be honest and you have to decide if the marriage is worth saving, especially if this is not a first offence.<br /><br />I am sorry you having these problems in your mariage, i hope it works out well for you, whatever the conclusion, Good Luck Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-47508598670713373262015-01-29T23:18:36.367-05:002015-01-29T23:18:36.367-05:00Anon-
First, I'm so sorry for the troubles yo...Anon-<br /><br />First, I'm so sorry for the troubles you are going through!<br /><br />It has to be hard, and I hate to imagine you having this brutal conversation, but you should probably ask him outright if he 'had sex with her', rather than 'slept with her'. <br /><br />Although it's obvious the implication of your question, he may be able to answer truthfully that he never 'slept' with her, where engaging in sex acts is something completely different. <br /><br />(I would also ask very specifically about each type of sex act, that is if you feel you need to know, and want to work this out...if not, don't torture yourself with the details.)<br /><br />I hope you get the answers, and the peace of mind you desire. You will be in my thoughts! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680510856590830567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-36272981621155221702015-01-29T19:39:12.032-05:002015-01-29T19:39:12.032-05:00Found messages.
Can you be more specific?<i>Found messages.</i><br /><br />Can you be more specific?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-57693762698740845762015-01-29T19:34:12.035-05:002015-01-29T19:34:12.035-05:00With the above thing..I asked the same question ab...With the above thing..I asked the same question about flirting. He responded "because I love you". He was lying. Found messages. I'm not wondering how far it wentAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-49347582132770313262015-01-29T19:27:37.443-05:002015-01-29T19:27:37.443-05:00SA experts need help!!
Me "did you sleep wit...SA experts need help!!<br /><br />Me "did you sleep with her?"<br />Him "no I didnt"<br />Me "why should I beleive you"<br />Him "because I'm not lying to you"<br /><br />Bad place. Need help. Is this strong like "because I'm telling the truth" or different Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-77141366758236388322015-01-29T17:51:36.249-05:002015-01-29T17:51:36.249-05:00The only thing that could be construed as swinging...The only thing that could be construed as swinging his golf club is when he transfers it from his right to his left hand.<br /><br />She says he swung it at her right back there.<br />Where is right back there?<br />I rewound the tape and didn't see anything even on freeze frame.<br /><br />Why would he swing a gold club at her?<br />Why would he swing a golf club at a moving vehicle from the sidewalk with a distance of several feet between them?<br /><br />What is her definition of swinging the golf club?<br /><br />I can see her reasoning at asking him to put it down before approaching, what i don't see is any reason for her to be stopping him.<br />Does she stop everyone with a gold club?<br /><br />What made this case different?<br /><br />it seems she is escalating the stop, not asking him even as to why he has a gold club especially since he is old and claims to have had it for 20 years ( using it as a walking aid perhaps?)<br />he is not waving it around nor being aggressive, he asks her several times to call for someone whereupon she tells him he is being video and audio recorded.<br /><br />Even though he didn't put it down he was not being aggressive so why was she escalating it into something it wasn't?<br />Since he was not being threatening and she was a safe distance from him, why wasn't she talking to him?<br /><br />She then tells us she is going to stop the tape and review it to see <b>IF</b> it caught anything.<br />Since she told him what he is alleged to have done and also that he is being video and audio recorded, why does she say <b>IF</b> rather than express th certainty it would have been caught on camera?<br /><br />I didn't see anything despite viewing the video several times and freeze framing.<br /><br />Is her excuse then going to be well maybe i was mistaken, he didn't swing the golf club at me like i thought ( perhaps he was switching hands or even doing nothing at all/ it was someone else waving something as she went past and it wasn't him or a similar excuse)<br />By using IF, she allows for it to be something else.<br /><br />What will she say next if it is shown he didn't do anything as claimed?<br /><br />I wonder what her police record is like?<br />Does she have any infractions, or have question marks regarding arrests etc<br />?<br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-36896308776861736342015-01-29T17:09:25.299-05:002015-01-29T17:09:25.299-05:00I had a problem hearing most of the video, but tha...I had a problem hearing most of the video, but that was horrible treatment of an elderly man. I couldn't hear any of the conversation when there was no yelling. What I saw, was no swinging of a club and I rewound the video twice to be sure. The female officer accused him of swinging a club at her. I found it totally confusing because she was accusing him of something that didn't happen. I felt really badly for him and they are lucky he didn't have a heart attack in the back of that van.GetThemnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-18729130462745086052015-01-29T16:54:19.005-05:002015-01-29T16:54:19.005-05:00John- You can- it's on the video. Look at the ...John- You can- it's on the video. Look at the man heading opposite direction at 9 seconds in he's next to a sandwich board then crosses the street.<br /><br />I see another black man in a white shirt and a baseball cap right after she turns onto 11th. He's on her right on the sidewalk right after she passes the red pickup. This is at about 21 seconds.Buckleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04087082956705159705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-26389859469490807752015-01-29T16:48:17.982-05:002015-01-29T16:48:17.982-05:00It will be interesting to see her dash cam vt at 1...It will be interesting to see her dash cam vt at 11 and pike, and also find any cctv around there, outside shops, banks, and traffic junctions etc in that area ?John Mc Gowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00430624388902099338noreply@blogger.com