tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post5566540315958802499..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Sadness In Statement AnalysisStatement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-34847409344727221002013-07-17T23:01:46.762-04:002013-07-17T23:01:46.762-04:00I caught my husband in a lie not too long ago and ...I caught my husband in a lie not too long ago and I went after it with SA like a dog with a bone. It wasn't an affair thank God. It was a financial misstep that he felt guilty about and tried to cover it with a lie. I've questioned everything he has said for the last 3 months because of that. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-32524348407285640112013-07-10T13:38:59.376-04:002013-07-10T13:38:59.376-04:00When I was told that my husband died, the policema...When I was told that my husband died, the policeman was beating around the bush, saying, "There was a medical emergency at your house. . . ." I knew what he was leading up to, but part of me played along with it, saying, "Okay. . . ." My son then blurted out, "Dad's dead!" <br /><br />I didn't want to know.Amaleen6noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-37564555117569899092013-07-09T17:59:42.376-04:002013-07-09T17:59:42.376-04:00Are you going to give us any more background or hi...Are you going to give us any more background or hints or leave us to worry? I hope all is well, Peter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-6459905002045246772013-07-08T20:27:17.028-04:002013-07-08T20:27:17.028-04:00I guess it depends on the situation. Truth is th...I guess it depends on the situation. Truth is the only measure by which we can react with full and complete knowledge. That gives us the ability to make changes, even if they are painful, which may minimize damage in the future. It can cost friends, relatives, and immense sadness, but it gives us a faithful plumb-line in which to make our own decisions regarding the matter/s. No one said it would be easy, just that we would never be given more than we can handle.Anon "I"noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-19510439722104637312013-07-08T10:45:10.618-04:002013-07-08T10:45:10.618-04:00I have a pathological liar in my family. At first...I have a pathological liar in my family. At first I was annoyed by all of the over-exaggeration, until I realized just how much lying was going on. Some of the traits that got to me and are now red flags with others is, talking fast, adding extra unnecessary detail, avoiding direct answers, incomplete sentences, etc. Because this person is a close loved one, I don't analyze, I've stopped correcting erroneous statements, unless they pertain to me or my husband or children.<br /><br />The Dr. Phil question, "Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" comes to mind. As regards my close family member who is a pathological liar, I just smile and nod and sometimes change the subject, because relationship is more important to me than knowing the "truth". <br /><br /><br />Regarding a different family member, we were planning a visit with them and I mentioned that our kids were so excited to visit them, they asked, "Aren't you excited to visit us?" I had omitted myself, not because I wasn't looking forward to the visit, but because I thought they'd be more interested in the kids than in me. Now I make sure to say "we" instead of just "the kids" to avoid offence.mommakleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03711565778251553119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-38759491423471883112013-07-07T17:09:55.730-04:002013-07-07T17:09:55.730-04:00I have another one.
My father-in-law had ankle re...I have another one.<br /><br />My father-in-law had ankle replacement surgery two years ago this November. Everything started out well, but he ended up with a staff infection and required a lot of care and convalescence. It was nearly six months he was on a 24/hour IV antibiotic drip. It was probably the following October before the last little bit of the wound over the tendon closed. Long story short, my husband and I took care of him and his mom who is house bound and can't do a lot (agoraphobic and fragile). Both are in their 80's. My husband did all the erands and to'ing and fro'ing to apt's, bank/hospital for x-rays, etc., with my father-in-law and I did all the cooking and cleaning. In waltzes my sister-in-law from two time zones away (note the word I used: waltz. tension? Mayyyybe, LOL) In addition to my cooking there were two others dropping off dishes here and there. She made it a point to tell me how good everyone else's cooking was but that she "didn't bother to taste [yours]"/ mine.<br /><br />She tasted it. :0)<br /><br />I learned a long time ago to steer clear of the mother-in-law I never had when she's home. Much more "harmonious" that way.<br /> <br />:0)<br />Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-18323498007520762492013-07-07T16:54:05.103-04:002013-07-07T16:54:05.103-04:00Trigger, my friend (who was the President of Paren...Trigger, my friend (who was the President of Parent Council for my kids' school) and I were talking about various kids in the school and I told her about it. She said she had her daughter out selling Girl Guide cookies one morning and knocked on their door. The mother answered the door drunk and wanted them to come in for a visit/impromptu play date. We're talking Gong Show.<br /><br />The mom has been spoken to a couple of times. <br /><br /> <br /><br />Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-89147175692400820362013-07-07T10:22:42.076-04:002013-07-07T10:22:42.076-04:00Since I haven't read anywhere in any of these ...Since I haven't read anywhere in any of these articles or posts where Peter says his dog, Clancy, is dead; where are you getting this idea, Vita? I sure would like to know. <br /><br />Can somebody explain? Did I miss something?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-9624808679195425422013-07-07T08:40:44.552-04:002013-07-07T08:40:44.552-04:00Great analysis Nic!
You listened closely to what ...Great analysis Nic!<br /><br />You listened closely to what that mother said and determined that she was deceptive because of her leakage.<br /><br />Then you followed up on your analysis and found your daughter without supervision at a park.<br /><br />Impressive!Triggernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-58699236205128086862013-07-07T02:43:43.582-04:002013-07-07T02:43:43.582-04:00Hebrews 2:1, “For this reason we must pay much clo...Hebrews 2:1, “For this reason we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away from it.” Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4733714966703947852013-07-07T02:35:21.663-04:002013-07-07T02:35:21.663-04:00The danger is not that I would close the Bible and...The danger is not that I would close the Bible and then run out and do the opposite. That’s possible, but not where most of us struggle. THE DANGER IS THAT I WOULD BE EXPOSED TO THE TRUTH AND SIMPLY DO NOTHING AT ALL. That is the most serious yet common threat to our pursuit of holiness. The reason it’s so unsafe is because to train ourselves to hear truth and do nothing means that we routinely dull our consciences and allow our hearts to harden without even realizing it. Then when the day of testing is upon us and we need the Word to do its work in our hearts, it doesn’t. We’ve told it not to so repeatedly, it’s just doing what we taught it to do. We’ve taken the proverbial smoke alarm off the ceiling and removed the batteries, but now that there’s a fire, we have no warning until it’s too late.<br /><br />Or maybe it could be compared to tires on a car. For most of us, it’s not the big blow out that will leave us spiritually stranded on the side of the road; it’s the slow leak that goes unattended little by little that eventually puts us in the same place. Thus the book of James declares in James 1:19–27:<br />http://thecripplegate.com/the-most-subtle-threat-to-your-spiritual-life-2/<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-70244864624539470572013-07-07T02:09:05.736-04:002013-07-07T02:09:05.736-04:00Peter posted a picture of his dog but in his examp...Peter posted a picture of his dog but in his example, he said "pediatrician", so why do you feel it pertains to his dog, Vita? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-11056519109651830172013-07-07T01:29:03.006-04:002013-07-07T01:29:03.006-04:00Please know that some doctors only practice defens...Please know that some doctors only practice defensive medicine (fear of malpractice lawsuits) which makes them kill flies with sledgehammers. <br /><br />Some physicians have only seen poor outcomes and their opinions are wretchedly biased. Their opinion may be very incorrect related to their bias. The first neurologist that evaluated my daughter told me that she'd never ride a bike or read two syllable words. I've enjoy sending him a photo of her riding her bike, skateboarding, snowboarding, and skiing since she was three. She also reads at grade level.<br /><br />Remember that God is in control and not the diagnosis or the doctor.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-78925205866792491762013-07-06T22:39:07.696-04:002013-07-06T22:39:07.696-04:00Yes. A few years ago my daughter befriended a lit...Yes. A few years ago my daughter befriended a little girl at school. She was invited for a playdate at her new friend's house. Long story short, in one short conversation I figured the family dynamic was crumbling. Every time the mom opened her mouth there was this "seepage". Most importantly, when she picked up my daughter she told me that she never let her daughter out of her sight and promised she would watch my kid like her own. (?) I spent the whole afternoon riding my bike around the neighbourhood my daughter was playing in. The girls ended up in a park at the corner of a busy intersection. By themselves. In a neighbourhood under going a lot of construction. They were 8 years old. That was the last time my daughter was allowed to go for a playdate there. Nichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150573665283919209noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-63895933174583014302013-07-06T21:18:48.161-04:002013-07-06T21:18:48.161-04:00Matthew 26:62-64
New International Version (NIV)
6...Matthew 26:62-64<br />New International Version (NIV)<br />62 Then the high priest stood up and said to Jesus, “Are you not going to answer? What is this testimony that these men are bringing against you?” 63 But Jesus remained silent.<br />The high priest said to him, “I charge you under oath by the living God: Tell us if you are the Messiah, the Son of God.”<br />64 “You have said so,” Jesus replied. “But I say to all of you: From now on you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of the Mighty One and coming on the clouds of heaven.”[a]Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-20433383954365698642013-07-06T20:37:33.551-04:002013-07-06T20:37:33.551-04:00Trigger is TURD Trigger is TURD Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-83059285351693802782013-07-06T20:36:40.403-04:002013-07-06T20:36:40.403-04:00As "WE"have gained a valuable insight in...As "WE"have gained a valuable insight into lie analysis,,,,,et all....id hope this "Blog"vanished,,,,,or the "liars"will win.Y M I I T!!! SHES B*** CH****N+.IN YOUR OPINION.GROW UP!@PETER.welcome back evil JOHNhttp://www.hobnob.clop.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-51487381649322758122013-07-06T20:16:45.790-04:002013-07-06T20:16:45.790-04:00Many times I had hoped that I was wrong when I saw...Many times I had hoped that I was wrong when I saw a pattern of faulty thinking, or behavior, or physical symptoms, in someone I cared about.<br /><br />Knowing the predictable path of progression of certain types of thinking and behavior, or diseases, I used to hope that what I heard and saw, and what was taught to me, was wrong on my part.<br /><br />Experience has taught me that even when I don't like the truth, it has a way of making me grateful for it.<br /><br />No one can prepare for the loss of a loved one be it human or animal.<br /><br />I am keeping you and your family in my prayers, Peter.<br /><br />Triggernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-59669345143896665602013-07-06T18:53:28.197-04:002013-07-06T18:53:28.197-04:00I know What you suspect.ONLY through reading your ...I know What you suspect.ONLY through reading your post.i wouldnt DREAM of posting it here or anywhere.good luck and i believe its WRONG.peter,,,y.m.i.o.t.r'shttp://www.ants.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-52214886304427349952013-07-06T18:36:27.248-04:002013-07-06T18:36:27.248-04:00Yes, Peter and Heather. I pray all is well..
Our F...Yes, Peter and Heather. I pray all is well..<br />Our Father and His Comforter are with us always. dadgumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16256961350155432392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-75206951031354758652013-07-06T16:42:43.690-04:002013-07-06T16:42:43.690-04:00PS...you and your family are in my prayers.PS...you and your family are in my prayers.Susnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-80759256004938477332013-07-06T16:40:21.329-04:002013-07-06T16:40:21.329-04:00I spent years with someone else telling me the &qu...I spent years with someone else telling me the "truth" as they thought I should know it.<br /><br />I want to know.<br /><br />I once thought the pain of knowing would kill me, but it was a rebirth.<br /><br />Susnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-7028236063634458012013-07-06T16:34:30.764-04:002013-07-06T16:34:30.764-04:00Is everything ok with your kids, peter?Is everything ok with your kids, peter?Pineapplenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-7525175512544624532013-07-06T16:05:03.248-04:002013-07-06T16:05:03.248-04:00Press conferences*Press conferences*MEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14626754382732099905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-60149334914492745592013-07-06T16:04:22.313-04:002013-07-06T16:04:22.313-04:00Yes.i feel like a mind reader especially high prof...Yes.i feel like a mind reader especially high profile"peess conferences"here in the uk ie" katie McCann"and Hobnob,s Johns,Lemons outputs.thank you all :0)MEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14626754382732099905noreply@blogger.com