tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post664606951023333153..comments2024-03-18T04:20:15.987-04:00Comments on Statement Analysis ®: Domestic Violence: Statement and Behavioral Analysis Statement Analysis Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-21710297737725571292015-02-06T09:22:43.962-05:002015-02-06T09:22:43.962-05:00I was married to a special agent of the OIG. A fe...I was married to a special agent of the OIG. A federal agent. He touched my person in a harmful manner three times in 10 years of marriage. The third time he tried to kill me by running over me with a truck. I appreciate the article written. Since I told the truth, the car insurance company only paid 5,000$ on medical instead of over 100,000$. I ought to be on disability but I have a job which I can barely make it through each day. I told the truth so he lost his six digit job and I divorced him. He was unemployed due to his attempted murder on me and he sued me for alimony in the divorce. I had to pay over 12,000$ in attorney fees, not to mention the 6,000$ lost from not being at work. The abuser was not required to pay any restitution. If I had lied and said it was an accident, I would have come out close to 400,000$ wealthier and been on disability and he would have his job and be paying me alimony. The system is set up to keep victims in abuse... the system is designed to keep the people with power (such as money) in control. The insurance companies not paying out due to a criminal act of domestic violence is simply archaic and enslaving. Simply wrong! So, by God's grace, I told the truth, I am broke, but he no longer is a federal agent with the ability to legally own a gun and with the ability to use administrative subpeona to stalk, follow, investigate whomever he pleased. ( There is no oversight on OIG use of administrative subpeona).USPSOIGsurvivorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00973167910116276058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-65243028923084081652015-01-18T10:08:18.356-05:002015-01-18T10:08:18.356-05:00I've thought about McCollums dispatch call to ...I've thought about McCollums dispatch call to 911 at 4:02 a.m. on New Years' morning. There's no telling what time he actually shot Margaret and left her lying there, it could have been hours earlier; hoaxing up his story how the gun accidentally went off while they were sleeping, threatening and tormenting her, enjoying her pain and suffering with her begging for help while he waits for her to die. (Yes, there ARE people who are this evil).<br /><br />The only thing is, initially she just wouldn't die quickly enough for him; time goes by and he's finally got her story straight knowing it would look better for him and more believable if he calls 911 claiming it was an accident; with her cooperation of course. <br /><br />I can certainly see this as a possible scenario; finally she's slipping into unconsciousness so the crafty devil decides maybe he'd better not let her die after all, he might be accused of murder. No way to explain that, but he COULD explain an accident with her cooperation. <br /><br />Too bad Peter can't interview him (AND her) and nail down what time he actually shot the poor woman. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-6230570932207011672015-01-18T06:18:50.994-05:002015-01-18T06:18:50.994-05:00IMO, her statements do NOT "represent a shock...IMO, her statements do NOT "represent a shock that anyone would do such a thing." This is ludicrous, when there are so many witnesses in their past relationship of his prior abuse of her. Her denial that he shot her deliberately screams pathetically of her fear of him, so much so that she feels she must lie to cover up for him and will continue too. <br /><br />You must remember, Anon @10:22, she had been abused by him numerous times previously and likely had continued to be abused by him since she remarried him; obviously, when, in fact he DID deliberately shoot her and she knows he did. Statement Analysis PROVES his lies and will prove her fears as well. <br /><br />Whether she was asleep or not at the time he shot her, (highly doubtful that she was) she KNOWS he shot her deliberately and knows he will get away with it; which is why she never filed charges against him previously during the many instances he had abused her. Isn't it a fact that she was always too afraid of him to file charges against him in the past for his physical violence of her? She knows she is at his mercy for the rest of her life with no way out. <br /><br />You could be right however, that charges won't be filed unless she presses charges against him and we can already see that she won't. She's too afraid too. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-9560371232843288822015-01-17T22:22:53.853-05:002015-01-17T22:22:53.853-05:00This is disturbing because they can't do anyth...This is disturbing because they can't do anything unless she presses charges. She won't if she thinks it was an accident.<br /><br />Also, anon source could be a figment of some reporter's imagination.<br /><br />I agree with statement analysis on this one. His statements represent his intentions. Her's represent a shock that anyone would do such a thing.<br /><br />Had an 'old acquaintance' not been forgot?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-30236135366090846082015-01-17T14:21:51.229-05:002015-01-17T14:21:51.229-05:00This is a very disturbing case.This is a very disturbing case.Lemonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15905461861488930140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-27719904339567032422015-01-16T20:56:00.010-05:002015-01-16T20:56:00.010-05:00off topic
A Michigan woman who has been charged w...off topic<br /><br />A Michigan woman who has been charged with murdering her newborn daughter gave birth again just weeks ago - and no can find her child. <br /><br />Melissa Mitin of Okemos, Michigan is awaiting trial after an incident on December 26, 2013 in which she allegedly gave birth to a daughter in the bathroom of a family friend's home, and then immediately stuffed the crying child in a trash can.<br /><br />Now, it has been revealed she gave again birth just three weeks while she was out on bail, and she will not tell authorities where they can find her newborn son - this as a dead baby was found in a nearby dumpster.<br /><br />The Lansing State Journal reports that when Mitin was asked about where her son was by a family court judge earlier this week she said she 'could not recall.' <br /><br />Ingham County Assistant Prosecutor Debra Rousseau responded to this by saying; 'If that is true then she has some major psychological issues.'<br /><br />Prosecutors believe that Mitin became pregnant with this second child just three months after her daughter was found face-down in a wastebasket.<br /><br />Mitin, 25, reportedly left the child there after the incident with her parents finding the baby girl.<br /><br />According to her mother, Mitin said she was raped. <br /><br />Both parents testified they knew nothing of the pregnancy and were against premarital sex for religious reasons and had never talked about the act with their daughter. <br /><br />It seems that Mitin was receiving regular checkups for this new pregnancy until 35 weeks, and then stopped showing up.<br /><br />Rousseasu claims that Mitin told the doctor's office 'she didn't return because she already had given birth,' at which point they notified Child Protective Services.<br /><br />It is unknown who the father of this second baby is, and the father of the first was a student who attended Michigan State University with Mitin and is now living in another country.<br /><br />Mitin had recently been living with her parents at their Okemos home while working on a master's degree in kinesiology at Michigan State University.<br /><br />Now, Mitin has had her bail in the first murder case revoked, and is undergoing tests to see if she is even competent to stand trial. <br /><br />'I have some serious concerns about her psychological well-being,' said her attorney, Dennis Reynolds. <br /><br />On Thursday evening, a report came in of a dead baby boy found nearby at a recycling center in Roseville.<br /><br />The baby had no visible signs of trauma and was believed to be just three days old when he was killed.<br /><br />Detectives are investigating a possible link between Mitin and the child. <br /><br />Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2912351/College-student-murdered-newborn-stuffing-trash-gives-birth-secret-pregnancy-says-doesn-t-know-baby-is.html<br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-4055501824703160552015-01-16T20:29:57.773-05:002015-01-16T20:29:57.773-05:00Off topic
A 36-year-old woman convicted of a hate...Off topic<br /><br />A 36-year-old woman convicted of a hate crime hoax in Nebraska hasn't shown up for jail time that she was required to serve because she didn't meet the conditions of her probation.<br /><br />Charlie Rogers is a former University of Nebraska-Lincoln basketball player who was convicted of lying to police about being attacked by three masked men who carved anti-gay slurs into her skin. <br /><br />She has said she's a lesbian.<br /><br />A prosecutor told the Lincoln Journal Star Thursday that Rogers' probation officer didn't sign a document that would have waived the 90-day jail term ordered at her April 2013 sentencing. <br /><br />Rogers was immediately required to serve seven days in jail, which she fulfilled.<br /><br />The terms of her probation included 250 hours of community service and a requirement to get a full-time job.<br /><br />Chief Deputy County Attorney Pat Condon said Rogers didn't show up as required at 8 a.m. Thursday at Lancaster County Jail because her probation documents had been finished.<br /><br />A jailer said Rogers still wasn't in custody there on Friday.<br /><br />Rogers' lawyer didn't immediately return a call from The Associated Press. <br /><br />The county's chief deputy probation officer has declined to talk about Rogers and her probation problems.<br /><br />Prosecutors say Rogers reported in July 12, 2012, that the men who attacked her tried to set fire to her home before leaving. <br /><br />A neighbor told police that Rogers crawled from her home naked, bleeding and screaming for help.<br /><br />Rogers' story quickly fell apart, and prosecutors said she faked the attack because she thought it would inspire change in the treatment of gay people. <br /><br />Prosecutors said Rogers purchased zip ties, a box cutter and white gloves shortly before the attack, and that the evidence didn't support what she said had happened.<br /><br />Judge Gale Pokorny read a message on her Facebook page shortly before the alleged attack, in which she wrote, 'So maybe I am too idealistic, but I believe way deep inside me that we can make things better for everyone. I will be a catalyst. I will do what it takes. I will. Watch me.' <br /><br />Rogers has maintained her innocence. <br /><br />The reported attack provoked outrage and spread fear among Lincoln's gay community, and hundreds of people turned out for a rally outside the state Capitol. <br /><br />At the time, Lincoln was debating whether to adopt a proposed 'fairness ordinance' that would have banned discrimination against people based on their sexual orientation, and tensions were high among those on both sides of the issue. <br /><br />Read more:<br /><br /> Charlie Rogers, hate-crime hoaxer, a no-show for jail sentence : Journal Star Breaking News<br /><br /><br />Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2913550/Nebraskan-convicted-hate-crime-hoax-no-jail.html<br /><br /><br />Tania Cadoganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06511272355142175684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-20631052326346455842015-01-16T19:44:15.283-05:002015-01-16T19:44:15.283-05:00I sincerely pray that Maggie has family and good f...I sincerely pray that Maggie has family and good friends so she has some options for her future.<br /><br />However, I no longer sympathize with women who start popping out babies before they have any education or skills. These women are stacking the deck against themselves and leaving themselves vulnerable to domestic violence. <br /><br />This is 2015, not 1960 and birth control methods cost next to nothing or are free. There is no excuse for setting yourself up to be totally dependent on someone because you are lazy, unambitious and unmotivated. These women/men seem to believe that having a baby they cannot afford is their RIGHT and everyone else must pay for it. <br /><br />Women have taken a huge step backward with regard to independence and they do this willingly.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-62520883963045972242015-01-16T15:49:54.987-05:002015-01-16T15:49:54.987-05:00Thank you for sharing, Kat.
Susan Murphy Milano w...Thank you for sharing, Kat.<br /><br />Susan Murphy Milano was the only one with any name recognition that was blunt about the need for money. <br /><br />It is so easy for us to say, "just go!" and not know what it is like for a woman with two children to stay at a homeless shelter. <br /><br />I pick on attorneys a lot, but this needs to be said:<br /><br />When it comes to donating money specifically for women who are escaping a violent man and NEED CASH to get out, attorneys, on a whole, pitched in when asked. <br /><br />One of the most important elements of getting safe is having the cash to even travel, besides getting a safe apartment. Susan understood. <br /><br />Maggie is in a terrible postion. I was upset when I first heard the news that she was paralyzed. <br /><br />I hope there is an arrest soon. Statement Analysis Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13607372649929274491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7164794708270892518.post-35884273467441606262015-01-16T13:47:29.437-05:002015-01-16T13:47:29.437-05:00Your post touched upon an important aspect of dome...Your post touched upon an important aspect of domestic violence that is often ignored. The victims often face financial ruin if their abuser is put in jail/prison so they have to decide whether being homeless is better than being abused.<br /><br />A couple of years ago, I watched a case involving a live-in boyfriend's violation of a restraining order. The boyfriend was the primary wage earner for the family and the girlfriend was a stay-at-home mother of several small children. The girlfriend was very concerned that if the judge put her boyfriend in jail, she would not be able to pay rent and her family would become homeless.<br /><br />She told the judge that all she wanted was for the judge to make her boyfriend stop hitting her. The judge explained that he couldn't control what her boyfriend did; all the judge could do was to issue restraining orders and put her boyfriend in jail if he violated the restraining orders. It was very sad.Katprintnoreply@blogger.com